I'm a 16 year old girl and I live in Ohio. I been through hell and back with my life. My family was split up at the age of 12 and i haven't been with my dad for 4 years, only often on seeing him. I'm a very beautiful girl, not concieded, but confident of my beauty. My family and I are from the islands of Trinidad and Tobago and I was raised in New Jersey and New York. I've been through so many relationships with guys and have always wanted to save my virginty for that special someone when I grow up and get married. I've failed that promise to myself only a year ago and since then regretted it and hope people will not have to go through what i have been through. It's so important to save that special gift for your special one, not only because of all those STD's, but also you will feel sooo good after you know you've been through so much and saved everything you've have for that one you end up with and spend your life together. I have so much advice about religion, love life, friendships, cooking, teenage puberty, etc. When I turn 18 I want to graduate at the best of my class as I can be, and go to college and study psychology and become a psychiatrist to help people. So this is kinda like a practice i guess. If you need my help I'm here to open up and not hide anything.
E-mail: ParadiseAngel15c@msn.com
Gender: Female
Location: Ohio
Age: 16
AIM: AngelEyAngel
MSN: ParadiseAngel15C
Member Since: June 16, 2005
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Well 2 days ago i went over to my boyfriends house of 5 months for about 5 hours! and everything was great till yesterday. He blocked me onine, And i tryed calling his cell phone but he didn't answer but he called me back saying sorry, he was just miserable about a few things and didn't want to talk to anybody. I was okay with it cause i can understand. Well later that night he told me that he was thinking about us all day and i asked him what? and he said that he doesn't feel "sparks" between us anymore! It kinda hurts to hear that after the day before. What can i do to get the "sparks" back? he sent me a text this morning saying that he really loves me and that he is really in love with me and wants to spend his life with me. but theres soo many things going on around him that hes not sure of what to do. But my question is what can i do to get the "sparks" back, and make him feel better? and please don't say anything sexual cause were both not ready for that. ooo and if it helps im 14, and hes 16!! thanks bunches, i'll rate if you can really help me!!! (link)
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Well pumkpin,i'm kinda going through the same thing in a way, im 16 and the guy is 16 also, me andhim been together for 9 months and hes really the same way..the whole bull going on in his life and never wanting to talk about it and stressed, and he loves me and wants to live with me and spend the rest of his life with me and loves me and yeh..well all i can tell you is i no how you feel and you might want to talk to him, support him, make him feel loved by you and give him attention, you know..but also keep in mind HE'S CONFUSED, a lot of guys at that age are confused about their feelings and don't know what to do. Although your 14 you are mature than him as most girls are mature than guys. Give him time, not really "space" but that to but be there for him all the time, talk, and have days like the one you two spent before and tell him how you feel about him and what you think you two should be doing and getting ready for the future, etc. Luv ya pumkpin! tell me how it goes!
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Okay my ex boyfriend Tony has been a big problem in my life for the past two years.. he's hit me a total for three times and one time i had a bruised spine because of him.. well anyways he hasnt hit me but he called my cell.. i just got my number changed cause of him.. well anyways he said this same bullshit ive heard hundreds of times sayin he loves me blah blah blah.. well when he called me also he said he knows that i want him and if i dont go with him he's going to find me and hurt me again or pull a Jay on me.. Jay is a guy that tried to rape me which was Tony's friend..so Tony is threating to rape me and beat me.. i havent told my boyfriend im with now cause i hate to get him upset and worried.. i havent told anybody.. all my friends dont get why i wont go anywhere i just want to stay in the house.. i dont want to press charges or anything cause if he found out i dont know what he'd do or if he'd get somebody else to do something to me.. im just so scared.. i dont want him to hurt me again i dont want him to rape me.. i thought he was out of my life for 7 years cause he was locked up for drugs yea well with my luck i should of known he wouldnt be put a way that long.. he is so mad at me because i moved on with a new guy and because i didnt wait up for him while he was locked up.. what kinda girl would want a guy like that..? if you can help me on what to do ill rate high i just dont know what to do or who to tell.. im just reall reall scared.. thanks in advance.. (link)
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hey pumpkin?! i'm so sorry about what happened and whats happening. I hope everything will work out. I'm here to talk if you need, well i think you should tell family, parents, or even your current boyfriend..ONLY considering the way he feels about you and if you and your current boyfriend really cares for you and you trust him and you know he will take care of you no matter what. Basically anyone who might be able to help you. This is very very serious and dangerous and you or someone close to you can get very hurt. You might want to consider pressing charges although i no you dont want to because hes your x and you like him or whatever feelings you have might be still their or your scared you might get hurt worse by him or someone he might send after you. Be careful, and your welcome (in advance.) Luv ya pumpkin!
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what can I do to make my bf feel like I really love him when he moves away. We agreed to have a long distance thing but I dont know how to show affection from this distance... (link)
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Hey pumpkin, just make sure you two always keep and touch and he feel for you as much as you do for him and its for real and not for fake. Always support him and call him, email, mailing, you know the usual.See him as much as he can or you can, since its long distance and if its a chance you both can meet and be together, take it. My long distance relationship I had didnt work out b/c the guy wasnt as commited to the whole thing like i was, but good luck to you both im sure it will work out. Luv ya pumpkin. Let me know how it goes
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I really STILL like this guy I went out with in the past. He's now going out with another girl but I still REALLY like him (its been about 9 months) and I can't get over him. Everytime I think of him I cry. What should I do? (link)
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Hey pumpkin, I know exactly what your going through I'm going through that right now kinda with this dude also. He's not going out with another chick but he talking to her. But my advice would be to talk to him or find out if he still likes you or not or what he feels for you and if what you teo had was real or just a fling or a quicky or something. Usually guys and their "male ego" gets to their head and they choose that over their real feelings. I wouldn't advise "getting over him" becaue when you just get out of a realtionship and things are left "messy" it will hurt like hell and it will take a long time to heal and you'll still be left with some type of scar. If you get out of the relationship and work things out and talk it out with him or tell yourself is it really worth it to be feeling this way then it'll be okay. The best thing to do is to NOT sit around and eat whip cream and ice cream watching chick flicks no matter how long, gather some courage and see where he satnds with you still. trust me i went through that already..time sometimes heals all wounds but ceratin ones stay forever. You choose and decide where things should or will go with your life with him or not. Wuv ya pumpkin!
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How short do you have to be to be considered a migit? im 15 and 4'10...does that make me a migit? (link)
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Hey, well I only turned 16 on the 14th of June and I'm only 4'10 or 4'9 so don't feel bad at all and my Mom is like 40 something and she's only 4'11. Trust me, you'll grow much more, just be patient
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