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i dunno wut to do
I really STILL like this guy I went out with in the past. He's now going out with another girl but I still REALLY like him (its been about 9 months) and I can't get over him. Everytime I think of him I cry. What should I do?
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Hey pumpkin, I know exactly what your going through I'm going through that right now kinda with this dude also. He's not going out with another chick but he talking to her. But my advice would be to talk to him or find out if he still likes you or not or what he feels for you and if what you teo had was real or just a fling or a quicky or something. Usually guys and their "male ego" gets to their head and they choose that over their real feelings. I wouldn't advise "getting over him" becaue when you just get out of a realtionship and things are left "messy" it will hurt like hell and it will take a long time to heal and you'll still be left with some type of scar. If you get out of the relationship and work things out and talk it out with him or tell yourself is it really worth it to be feeling this way then it'll be okay. The best thing to do is to NOT sit around and eat whip cream and ice cream watching chick flicks no matter how long, gather some courage and see where he satnds with you still. trust me i went through that already..time sometimes heals all wounds but ceratin ones stay forever. You choose and decide where things should or will go with your life with him or not. Wuv ya pumpkin!
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You Should uh get over him? goodness He only asked you if you liked him because he just wants to keep you there, if him n this other girl dont work out. Honestly. You gotta move on no matter how much you like him. Dont wait for someone when its already been 9 months and hes got a new chick now. You have to realize he isnt coming back unless hes got no one else. Sorry dear. I've been there. You'll be over him just try n remember hes moved on, and you need to too.<3
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definately tell him. he wants to know and you will feel a whole lot better. maybe the crying will stop knowing that he knows how you feel about him. hey, he could still like you too but he's just going out with another girl to try to get his mind off of you. you should really tell him. hope everything works out for you.
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i think you should get if off your chest and tell him how you feel.
~Jenni~
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