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Q: i need a job for this summer but im only 15. i know that sonic and chick-fil-a hire at 15, but does anyone know of any other places that do? thanks.
i got my working papers. im 14. and i work at papa johns

Jenni


Q: OK this might sound a little strange but i think my boyfriend is bi. I want to dump him but i don't know if i should or not though. I think he's bi because he acts gay and when we started going out he said he was really glad we're going out because before he thought he was gay. And he just acts like a girl. PLZ help me i don't know if i should dump him or not. What do you think i should do?
well if he thought he was gay he probably is. he probably goin out with you because he was scared that he was gay. or he is using you as a cover up. so i think you should dump him

~Jenni~


Q: Hey i could use a new Sn, i want it to have something with like Silent or Dream or something awesome i dont want anything like Silent dream or anything beaucse it doesnt make any sence, i want something cool, new awesome, please help me if you know what i mean.
some ideas are

XoUrInMyDrEaMsOx
XoDrEaMiNgOfYoU4
XoDrEaM4eVaOx
XxSilentBabexX

thats all i have

~Jenni~

Q: This guy I know and I have had a really weird relationship...
When he met me, he told me I was fit and was flirting with me for a few weeks. Then he got a girlfriend and forgot that I existed.
The day that he split up with his girlfriend,he came and was talking to me...but I just got a boyfriend so I didn't exist again.
Then, a while after I became single again, his friend asked me out. I said yes, but during the VERY short "relationship", this guy paid more attention to me than my boyfriend did. Got dumped by said boyfriend...
Then this guy started flirting like hell with me again. I got off with him once (drunk), and now I don't exist again.
What is WITH this guy?
i dont think this guy knows wat he's doin if i were you i wouldnt bother with him.

~Jenni~

Q: Can someone please give me an intellegent answer to y people cut? It makes no sense to me. The only conclusion i have come to is mental/emotional weakness.
people cut beacause of depression/anger they cant control their emotions and handle pressure so conflicting pain on themselves makes them feel better.

~Jenni~

Q: I really STILL like this guy I went out with in the past. He's now going out with another girl but I still REALLY like him (its been about 9 months) and I can't get over him. Everytime I think of him I cry. What should I do?
i think you should get if off your chest and tell him how you feel.

~Jenni~

Q: ok well my best friend died in a car accident last year and last friday i like, saw him. like a ghost or something, idk. but the weird thing is, i see him all the time now. but only when my best freind whos a guy is around. i was afraid to tell my best friend this, but i did and he said that my friend who died might think hes being replaced by him.. what do you think? am i going totally crazy?
no your not crazy. i think you just really miss your friend so your mind is makeing illusions of him.

~Jenni~

Q: How can lose some of gut by saturday? I hate fives
like eat alot of salad or anything that doesnt have alot of calories and work out. make sure you eat or you will just get fatter because your body will just be filled with body water.

~Jenni~

Q: hey .... i was wondering if anyone knew a number or something where i can volunteer at a teen hotline? you know ... like a kid calls and you help them with their problms and whatnot ... thanks!

note: i live in the boston/framingham area
you can go to www.google.com and ask for teen hotlines or look in a phonebook in the yellowpages.

~Jenni~

Q: So I've liked my best friend Andy for a while, but he doesn't know. I care about him and he cares about me, we call each other up everyday and talk for at least an hour, and whenenver we hang out I feel such a connection with him. I really want to let him know I feel, but I'm so afraid to. I know if I told him our relationship wouldn't change, whether he likes me back or not, because he's like that. My friend already asked him if he would ever hook up with me, but his response is, "Well .. she's my best friend.." or "I can't think of my best friend like that..." But he said I was pretty and he loved my personality.

I don't know if I should tell him how I feel or how I should tell him how I feel .. should I tell him on the phone or in person this Friday? I know if I told myself to tell him in person, I might chicken out .. but telling him my feelings might be the wrong thing to do .. maybe I should wait.

What do you guys think?
well i think the quicker you tell him the better. and you should tell him on the phone if you think your gonna chicken out if you go and do it in person.but before you tell him you should say i hope this doesnt affect are friendship.

~Jenni~

Q: I like my school and the people in it and stuff, but im always, like depressed because my Friends who are the people who I hang out with the most dont seem to likke me anymore. I was wondering if I should go to a private school for freshman year next year. I mean everyone else will be new, too its just im afraid to start over again. And afraid ill miss something in my towns' highschool - i know ill miss my friends but they were like, "Oh," they werent sad at ALL..they laughed at me. I dont know what to do, should i go to a new high school ( a private one bc i cant move) ??? or just stay where i am and be pretty sad. People say things are better with friends in high school, is that true. I want your H0NEST T0 G0D Opinion.
friends do help in high school but i think you should go to a private school because bein sad and depressed aint fun at all and you can be happier at the private school, you can make new friends that are true to you and actually care about you.

~Jenni~

Q: I am 13 and a girl who has never had a boyfriend and I think think this is my chance.There is this boy who has gone to mostly every school I have gone to(were in the same grade).But I think he likes me.Its like he has been drooping clues like he stares at me all the time with this serious look on his face,he saved me one time(if thats what you wanna call it)because I was walking and I wasn`t waching where I was going so I was about to bump into the wall then he said somthing to me then that made me look up,and his friend heeps on looking at me.So how do I figure out if he likes me without talking to him and can you give me information on how to tell if a boy likes you.
well i think he likes you, too see if likes you, you can ask one of his friends if you dont want to ask him.

~Jenni~

Q: Hey,14-15 yr, old girls
me and my friends want to take a trip anywhere like kings dominion or the movies or sumthing but we all have other friends that we want to invit. what activity should we do that wouldnt involve the friends to group off? help, i want a memorable freshman trip w/ my best friends
hear are a few ideas

get something to eat together
movies
party
beach
concert
mall
Rode trip

~Jenni~

Q: Could i have some quote websites to go to other than firehotquotes and the one for away messages too.. quotes like "I'M GONNA DRAW A PICTURE WITH A TWIST. ILL DRAW IT WITH A RAZOR BLADE, ILL DRAW IT ON MY WRIST, AS I DRAW THIS PICTURE A FOUNTAIN WILL APPEAR. AND AS THIS FOUNTAIN FLOWS, MY TROUBLES DISAPPEAR" .. my friend had that but we never talk unless we are online which is rear... thanks in advanced!
you can go to www.google.com and ask for emo quotes it will give you a whole bunch of listings.

~Jenni~

Q: i wanna dye my har ether red or brown. i dont know which one to do. i dont like bieng blonde bcuz its not that punk and.. people make fun of me saying im a dumb blonde.which color do you recomend????
i think back with red or pink streaks. i have a friend shes punk and she has black hair with one big streak of pink in her hair.

~Jenni~

Q: i've been itching a lot on and near my penis for a few months. does anyone know what this might be?
it could just be a simple rash but it could also be something else. you should go to a docter he will give you medication or you can go to cvs or something they have a creams and stuff for rashes.
~Jenni~

Q: hey yall im going on a field trip on wendsday june 15 with my whole class and i want some ideas on what i can bring we also were assigned little 3rd graders as buddies to go along with you and your friends there and we have to include the little buddies in everything that we do does anybody know some fun things the older people can play and does anybody know some fun things that we can play with the buddies please help i rate high
you could play card games or board games. even tag, hide n seek, or duck duck goose lol.

those are some ideas
~Jenni~

Q: ok im in love with these two guys named tanner and johnny , tanner i met at camp and he is really nice and extremely hot and i really like him alot , and johnny on the other hand ive been dating since the 4th grade and i REALLY like him and hae known him longer whotch one should i date ? or love ?
i think johnny because you known him longer. if you go out with tanner and he ends up not as you thought he was you'd then realize that youve just lost johnny.and how special he was to you.

~Jenni~

Q: I get mad really easily, and people notice. How do I control my temper before it gets way out of hand?
you should try a therpist/counciling or ask a docter they have medication for temper.

~Jenni~

Q: hello yall uhh i recently just foudn out that this saturday there is a cheerleading stunt clinic thing it helps you with your stunt groups and everything and it suppose to be really good my coaches daughter does it and she is like a really good cheerleader from it but my friends party is on the same day and at the same time and there is no way i could go to both and the cheerleading clinic is only one day and so isnt my friends party l;ike its not a sleepover or anything so i couldnt go after or the morning everyone wakes up i dont know what to do i love my friend but i love cheerleading and my friend will get mad please help i will rate 5
you should definatly go to your friends party. friendship is really important. you wouldnt want for your friend to get mad or even worse lose him/her.
~Jenni~

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