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I think my boyfriend is bi!
OK this might sound a little strange but i think my boyfriend is bi. I want to dump him but i don't know if i should or not though. I think he's bi because he acts gay and when we started going out he said he was really glad we're going out because before he thought he was gay. And he just acts like a girl. PLZ help me i don't know if i should dump him or not. What do you think i should do?
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i think you should talk to him and help him figure things out. if hes "confused" then he needs time to figure things out and yall shouldnt be going out at this moment.
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girl if any of your boyfriends act gay brake up with them. that is not the kind of image you want to be with.
*jody*
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If you like being with him then you stay his girlfriend. If you have a problem with the way he acts then break up and find someone else. :)
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alright well no one wants a gay boyfriend.. but gay GUY friends are fun! haha well i say that you should break up with him.. tell him that you cant see a future with him but you stil want to be good friends.. hope it works out! xOxO
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Ewwww thats nasty.. i think you should talk to him about it.. and see what he says.. try to get it out of him.. ♥ Dez
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I don't think this is NECESSARILY a Reason to believe he is bisexual. I think this is Reason to QUESTION *HIM* on whetheR he's bi oR not. It's just an assumption until confiRmed by HIM, ya know?? If you want the tRuth, you'Re Really going to have to go to him foR it. And I've been theRe -- being with bisexual people... not knowing they weRe.... so I can *DEFINITELY* see how you would feel weiRd aRound him.. I undeRstand that COMPLETELY, and you shouldn't feel bad foR thinking this way at all!! That's YOUR opinion, and you have eveRy Right to feel that way. I didn't Really TREAT my bisexual boyfRiend any diffeRent... because he was the same peRson as he was BEFORE I KNEW he was bisexual... because at the time.. he WAS BISEXUAL, you undeRstand?? PeRsonally, I could neveR TREAT him as less of a human BECAUSE OF IT, but to be *peRfectly honest.. it DID change my outlook on the Relationship.. not my feelings FOR HIM.. just my outlook, ya know? Since he WAS bisexual, I had lost ALL of that special attRaction to him; I no longeR saw him as moRe than a fRiend.. and I felt betRayed. No longeR was I happie in the Relationship, and bottom line.. you can NOT stay in a Relationship just because one paRtneR doesn't want it to end. What would be the point in involving youRself in a Relationship, something that needs 100% committment, if you'Re only willing to give it 50%???? Hopefully this makes sense to you -- and hopefully eveRything works out!!
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This really depends on how you feel. The most important questions are 1) Do you love him? and 2) Does he love you? If the answer is yes to both of those questions, don't let his bisexuality (or so you think anyway) ruin a good relationship. Do you guys hold hands, kiss, all of that good stuff? If you guys do, at least he's giving you attention and affection.
Think about what I have said. But that's not the end of it. You need to talk to your boyfriend. That's what people always say, but that's because it's true and it clears everything up. Ask him if he's bi and if he has feelings for anyone else. If he's bi and he loves only you, why should you care about him being bi?
If that bothers you that he isn't "manly", think carefully before you break up with him. Maybe him acting like a girl is a good thing, lol. Sometimes guys just don't understand girls, but at least your boyfriend will understand you. If you love him for him, don't worry about him being "girly". But if it does bug you, the right thing to do would be to break up with him. Dating is all about bonding with someone, gaining new experiences, and learning what you need and want. I think you've done all of these things. If something doesn't work out, you move on and live life.
Good luck!
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I think you should do whatever you want.
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well if he thought he was gay he probably is. he probably goin out with you because he was scared that he was gay. or he is using you as a cover up. so i think you should dump him
~Jenni~
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