I am 13 and a girl who has never had a boyfriend and I think think this is my chance.There is this boy who has gone to mostly every school I have gone to(were in the same grade).But I think he likes me.Its like he has been drooping clues like he stares at me all the time with this serious look on his face,he saved me one time(if thats what you wanna call it)because I was walking and I wasn`t waching where I was going so I was about to bump into the wall then he said somthing to me then that made me look up,and his friend heeps on looking at me.So how do I figure out if he likes me without talking to him and can you give me information on how to tell if a boy likes you.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Look2Linh answered Saturday June 18 2005, 4:23 pm: boys are goofy. you say he stares at you? well has he always done that? cuz if not there is a good chance that he does like you. does he talk to you more often? because if you don't know what kind of person he is, how do you like him? and how can he like you? get to know him and if you think you know each other well enough, he'll drop some hints like ask you to go play video games at gameworks. trying to slide you in his schedule and act like your another of his guy friends to hide his true feelings for you. trust me. if a guy tries to flirt, its obvious. hope everything goes well. [ Look2Linh's advice column | Ask Look2Linh A Question ]
heygorgeousx3 answered Saturday June 18 2005, 2:04 pm: ok well first of all hun.. you should talk to him! ok if you really dont want to talk to him then you could plan something so that you guys could hang out.. such as a bunch of your friends and him meet up at the pool or a baseball game or wherever it is that you and all your friends hang out at. that will spark his intrest in you if you guys start talking more often also. also if he does give you that serious look.. then flash him a cute flirty smile! you can tell if a guy likes you if he's always looking at you.. and in this case this guy is so he probably is thinking about you! also if he smiles at you .. this guy seems as if he probably likes you so maybe you could also have one of your friends ask him who he likes and you could be around and act like your not listening! well i hope that i helped you hun<3 please rate me! xoxo em [ heygorgeousx3's advice column | Ask heygorgeousx3 A Question ]
fall_to_pieces answered Saturday June 18 2005, 11:51 am: well...the guy usually stares at you A TON! he is always trying to get near you and try talking to you. and if you are ticklious and he knows it, the he will start trying to tickle you (i hated when the guys did that). sometimes he randomly comes over to you when you are not expecting it and just says hi. those are some signs that a guy is interested in you. as for his friend...ask him if the dude likes you. and if you are not comfortable with that, ask one of your friends to do it.
i hope i helped. [ fall_to_pieces's advice column | Ask fall_to_pieces A Question ]
icey0990 answered Saturday June 18 2005, 10:49 am: well these are some pretty good signs..if you want more i would do things like:
-give him your number and tell him to call to hang out sometime...i bet he will call you right away or a few days later
-at parties does he ask you to slow dance?
-play truth or dare...if one of his friends dares u to kiss him..you can guess that the guy probably told his friend to dare you.
screw_your_issues answered Saturday June 18 2005, 1:34 am: Well it's a big clue if his friends keep looking at you, that's a big hint that he talks about you with his friends. If he stares at you all the time, it means that he thinks you're very attractive and he can't keep his eyes off you.
xo_underneath answered Friday June 17 2005, 12:34 am: This is kind of hard to answer, lol. I'm not gonna say he does, but I'm not gonna say he doesn't. It differs with guys most of the time. Like there's been two guys I thought liked me and I had friends ask them about me and they both just liked me as a friend. So I can't really tell you if he does or not because guys confuse me. Sorry I didn't give the best advice for this question. =/ lol. [ xo_underneath's advice column | Ask xo_underneath A Question ]
Melissa21 answered Thursday June 16 2005, 4:32 pm: Well hun, If a boy likes you ,usally he will tease you call you names or he can be real shy around you . He might look at you and then like turn away real quick. if you dont want to actually talk to him, try writing to him on a note or talk to him on the computer. I hope everything goes well. Thanks for asking -Melissa xoxo [ Melissa21's advice column | Ask Melissa21 A Question ]
sunrise2891 answered Thursday June 16 2005, 2:39 pm: I think you are going to have to talk to this guy if you want to go out with him. You should also drop hints that you like him too. Try talking to him online. All guys are different and not all act the same way when they like someone. I dont know if you like this guy or not as more than just a friend, but if you dont, you shouldnt feel pressured to date him just because he might like you. Remember, you're only 13, you've still got plenty of time. lol [ sunrise2891's advice column | Ask sunrise2891 A Question ]
whatnext answered Thursday June 16 2005, 1:38 pm: this is a new thing when you are 13, expecially if you never had a bf... dont worry, maybe he'll be your first. from the stuff you said, im not sure if he does like you, but if he keeps dropping clues like that, who knows, maybe he does!! everyone has different ways to tell someone you like them. if he does keep "staring" at you, its a good chance he likes you. if i were you i'd ask him myself, but when i look back on it, when iwas 13, i was terrifed to ask any boy if they liked me. soo after sayin that, just get one of your friends to ask him, or ask his one friend whats up. keep me updated, sorry if this didnt really help out- but it sounds like he might just like you. ~kris [ whatnext's advice column | Ask whatnext A Question ]
Brunettesweetheart2468 answered Thursday June 16 2005, 12:36 am: Well, become friends first. The best relationships evolve from friendships. Talk to him or invite him to Dairy Queen or something. And maybe, if you are brave enough, touch his hand if you see a movie or sumthin. See his reaction. Just take it slow, and if he does like you, don't scare him off by acting weird around him. (not saying you would, just, you know)
All boys are different. Some pick on you if they like you, some just tell you, others give you hints, and etc. It's hard to tell, but it sounds like this boy may like you. Good luck!
denajah5 answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 11:13 pm: Hey girl,
first off i want to tell you that if you really like this boy you cant be afraid to let him know.im assuming your shy just like i used to be,but there is still other ways to tell him you like him.
you can write a letter. yes i know letters do seem kinda chessy but hey, your young and we all do chessy things sometimes. letters are a good idea because you can say whatever it is that your feeling.and its not like your in front of him spilling your guts so you wont be shy either.
there also is getting a friend to go up to him.you can tell your friend to ask him whatever it is that you want to know.and if your not ready to let him no that you like him, tell you friend to play if off like they dont know if you like him or not but there make be a potential relationship.
i hope i helped you in some sort of way.my username is Denajah5.check out my column whenever
helpingyou answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 10:46 pm: hey.
1.if he likes you yes he will stare.
2.if you walk buy him and drop something he will point that out
3.talk with a group of friends near him and have friends look at him to see if he lookes or watches you.
um ill get back to you on some more if i think of any
LoveNJstyle answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 9:04 pm: yeah i think he likes you. it really depends on the guy and i know that sounds retarded and over-used but its true. lead him on...smile, flirt with him and he'll eventually ask you out. sighs. thanks 4 asking! <3 [ LoveNJstyle's advice column | Ask LoveNJstyle A Question ]
Razhie answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 8:51 pm: There is no absolute for definate sure way to figure out if a guy likes you without talking to him.
Face it, his friends *might* know but he is the only one who really knows for sure if he likes you.
Please remember that a boy is just as scared of being rejected as you are, so its best for both of you to take it slow. Make a point of hanging out with him, and see if he makes a point of hanging out with you.
Summon up some courage hun and talk to him, make him a friend before a boyfriend. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
K2204 answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 8:48 pm: well, it sounds like he does, or maybe he wants to be friends, maybe you two should give being friends a shot first. if his friend is looking at you, that gives me the impression that he has told his friends about you, so that sounds like a good thing to me! if he talks to you, and yeah, staring at you, and maybe like makes jokes, or trys to be funny, and wants to know about you, and help you with like homework or carrying something. maybe if you two are in one of the same classes and there is a test or a project, you could ask him if you wanna stdy together- if its a test, or work together, if its a project, and tell me how that goes, and we can figure out if he likes you!!
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TheHeadHonchoPoncho57 answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 7:37 pm: His friend keeps on looking at you, huh? that could be a good sign, but then again, it could mean that he likes you, or you had a piece of gum on your face.
Does he like you? I'm not really sure. Guys don't usually express that they have a crush on you by staring. My personal experience tells me that usually they express it through talking to you a lot, or teasing (not mean teasing) or flirting. But then again, not everyone is alike...
Here are some ways.
1. When he's going to his next class, stand aabout 7 feet away from him and lock eyes for 5
seconds. If he likes you, he might blush or smile. Or he might do other things. You can use your good judgement on that.
2. Have a friend go up to him and say that you just got a boyfriend. Have her tell you about his expression. This way is not always the most accurate way, because you are finding it out indirectly, or she might be exaggerating.
But whatever you do, NEVER make the assumption that he likes you unless you are 100% sure (I mean unless he tells you personally. Friends can sometimes exaggerate things.). Once I was totally in love with this really cute guy. He asked me to dance at the Winter Ball and sent me a carnation for Valentines Day. I was so thrilled and I accidentally spilled the beans to some friends. Gossip went all over the grade. I discovered that he had only delivered the carnation for another guy. He had a g/f, I hated it, and he hates me to this day. So don't make that mistake.
SwEeTcHiC90210 answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 7:15 pm: awh..well ask him for his number or just start takling to him one day. you can always pretend you need help on a problem for math or something. he sounds sweet. good luck!♥ [ SwEeTcHiC90210's advice column | Ask SwEeTcHiC90210 A Question ]
xhillary answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 6:54 pm: if he's dropping hints, why not just talk to him? but since you don't want to;
ask a friend of yours, to hint to a friend of his, that you want to know if he likes you. you could do a long trail of "hinting" to his friends. you'll eventually find out, and if he really likes you, i'd go for it.
you can always find little ways to talk to him, too. like, in school, just ask him a question. or ask if he did the homework. bring up things that're going on, at the moment. "ugh, i can't wait until this class is over." something like that. i'm sorry i can't help more, but i hope that works out for you. :) [ xhillary's advice column | Ask xhillary A Question ]
blue_eyed_beuty answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 6:46 pm: he might like you. i mean i can easily tell if a guy likes me: he loks at me all the time, he flirts w/ me, he asks who i like, he calls me, he trys to b with me ((sit next to me, b at the same places i am. . .)) so if b on the lookout. . . [ blue_eyed_beuty's advice column | Ask blue_eyed_beuty A Question ]
LuckyHugs812 answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 6:40 pm: the best way to do this is to flirt back with him and make it direct. ask him to hang out alot with just the 2 of you. he could just be flirting for fun or be serious about it. if his friends come up and ask you questions about the 2 of you, thats obviously a major sign there. some other ways are:
*when he's talking only to you, he seems to talk a little softer
*if he actually listens when you 2 talk
*look directly into your eyes..and tries to keep contact that way
*he remembers things that you have said b4 and brings it up or asks you about it
hope that helped a bit
don't hesitate to ask me anything else, good luck!
little_lightning_bug answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 4:50 pm: well it seems to me that he does like you but if you really wanna be sure you could try asking his friends or having a mutual friend ask why he is acting strange around you. just from what you've said its a pretty safe bet he likes you.
LuckyHugs812 answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 4:21 pm: the best way to do this is to flirt back with him and make it direct. ask him to hang out alot with just the 2 of you. he could just be flirting for fun or be serious about it. if his friends come up and ask you questions about the 2 of you, thats obviously a major sign there. some other ways are:
*when he's talking only to you, he seems to talk a little softer
*if he actually listens when you 2 talk
*look directly into your eyes..and tries to keep contact that way
*he remembers things that you have said b4 and brings it up or asks you about it
hope that helped a bit
don't hesitate to ask me anything else, good luck!
***Lins [ LuckyHugs812's advice column | Ask LuckyHugs812 A Question ]
Peachgirly answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 3:21 pm: All guys are different on showing if they like someone and there isn't really a TRUE 100 percent guarenteed answer. Sometimes there can be a lil twist and it turns out that he doesn't like you. Also just take a shot at it cause life is about taking risks. But try getting some info on finding out who he likes or the type of girls he likes. Or maybe somehow walk past him with your friends and have your friends see if he is staring at you(without making it too obvious). here are some signs that i thought of...
-he gets nervous around you like when you are close to him or he tries to talk to you
-His head is turning towards you
-he gives you eye contact and stares at you alot
-Mostly his body language(this may sound really stupid but sometimes when you stare at someone you like our pupils dialate.)
-His friends get close to you or just talk to you
selectopaque answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 11:05 am: At your age, when a boy is acting the way you have described, it usually means that he likes you.
There's no way you can find out for sure without actually talking to him.
From now on, when you notice him staring at you, then stare back. When you get comfortable enough, smile at him when you see him staring.
Try to think of ways you can go out of your way to talk to him. For instance, ask him something about a class you two share, or something small like that.
The more you talk to him, and smile at him, the more you two will get comfortable with each other. Eventually one of you may even be comfortable enough to go past all the bullshit and actually ask each other out. [ selectopaque's advice column | Ask selectopaque A Question ]
ilovepink101 answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 10:13 am: well you no that he is so flirting with you..well it sounds to me like he is..and its so cute how he "saved" you from running in to a wall..lol..well you no what!!if you think he likes you then go for it..y shouild you wait around for people when you have a perfect chance right in the palm of your hand..and this couild be your 1st boyfriend you no..and i dont want you to change a bit..obviously he likes you the way you are right now..so you dont change from him or nobody else..well you go for it and try to flirt with him a little more.like ask him if he wouild want to hang out with you 1 day!!i no hes supost to be doing the asking out..but obviously hes not..and unless you want to no if he likes you you gotta do the asking..well then you give him friendly hugs and flirt with him while yall are out and you do your thing girl..e-mail me when you csn and tell me how it goes!!dont forget to e-mail me, you better!!
hope i helped....
love always,
ilovepink101 [ ilovepink101's advice column | Ask ilovepink101 A Question ]
vermillion26 answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 9:50 am: first of all do you like him? if you dont then dont even bother. you dont have to freak out that you havent had boyfriend yet, 13 is very young. dont worry about it. but im guessing that you would like to go out with him. of course you could always just ask him, thats way you'll know for sure, but you clearly dont want to do that. i'd say that you should try to be around him more and see if he flirts. or if he gets shy when you turn up. either one is a sign. im not sure what this means "his friend heeps on looking at me." but it seems like he is dropping clues here an there. maybe you should try dropping clues yourself and see how he reacts. if he calls you on it you can always deny it or make up some excuse. i think that if you do how him that you're into him even a little he might come out of his shell and ask you out. he might be afraid of rejection. if you have anymore questions just drop it in my inbox. hope i helped.
queenbianca2004 answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 9:37 am: hI WELL IF YOUR AFRAID TO TALK TO HIM YOU NEED TO GET A FRIEND TO TALK TO HIM OR IS FRIEND. fIND OUT WHATS GOING ON AND YOU ALSO NEED TO TELL HIM YOU LIKE HIM IF HE SAYS THEAT HE LIKES YOU TO YOUR FRIEND. oR You can try a direct approach and try to talk to him tell him how you feel bc he could feel the same and if so sugest yall sohuld go out. But If he says no. dont throw your life away. I mean yeah sobb about it but not for 1 or 2 or 3 weeks. There are better people out there and f hes ays no then hes missinbg out and Hes obviously not the one! So I hope I helped you!
Teza answered Tuesday June 14 2005, 11:43 pm: Those are some clues that could tell you that he likes you. He is finding ways to flirt with you so you should flirt with him. I mean if someone is flirting with you it shows that they have some interest in you. You should talk to him and it doesnt have to be asking directly if he likes you. Just be yourself and flirty. Trust me you will get it out of him eventually. ♥ ex_oO [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
isl0vel0velyx0 answered Tuesday June 14 2005, 11:39 pm: Ok, I will definetely try my best to answer this.
By the clues he drops it seems to me that he does seem interested. You might want to try talking to his friends maybe if you want to know if he likes you (it usually works), don`t flat out ask them though, just act friendly and all and eventually slowly bring him up nonchallantly. And if you really like him you should be friends with him! All relationships start as "just friends", it might be too much pressure for you and him to "find out if he likes you" and all so it would be easier if you just start out as friends and see if it grows from there.
GothicFreak2765 answered Tuesday June 14 2005, 11:17 pm: ok well....why dont you just ask him if he likes you or not i mean...itll be alot easier on you that way instead of having to worry about it all the time. Its better to find out than to wonder. If he does like you then good, and if he dosent then dont worry too much about it because he wasnt the one. [ GothicFreak2765's advice column | Ask GothicFreak2765 A Question ]
FunnyCide answered Tuesday June 14 2005, 10:52 pm: Okay, sweetie. For one thing, you're still young. I know there is <b> a lot </b> of pressure on you to have a boyfriend, but don't rush it. If you're not ready, don't do it. Also, don't worry about being the only thirteen-year old who's never had a boyfriend. I just got one this year, and I'd rather you be old and only have one boyfriend than be thirteen and have a new boyfriend every two weeks. (that's also slutty)
Okay, to the heart of the question!
<u> How To Tell If A Guy Likes You </u>
He will drop subtle hints most of the time. He might say, "I miss you," or "Can't wait to see you in science class," perhaps "Maybe we can hang out over the summer," even "Can I call you?" etc. He will most likely flirt a bit, "accidentally" brushing up against your shoulder, hanging out with you more, teasing you in a fun way, complimenting you more, maybe calling, E-mailing or IM`ing you. That's cute that he "saved" you from smashing your face... it was very sweet of him. You might find him looking at you more often and smiling a goofy sort of smile, he'll laugh at your jokes (even if they aren't funny!) and he'll tell you jokes of his own. He'll probably single you out in a group of girls rather than hang with all of them. His friends will probably be really nice to you also.
Okay, so you want to know if he likes you, but you don't wanna ask him. Get a friend of his to tell you, or get your friend to ask him. Write him an anonymous note. That's all I can think of.
KymbOzHeLp475 answered Tuesday June 14 2005, 9:27 pm: Aw It sounds like he likes yooH!
To be shure, I'd have your bestest most truest friend ask him. *Keep in mind, he might not tell the truth* Or you could ask his best friend/ the one starrin at you!
iSpEaKsPaNiSh answered Tuesday June 14 2005, 4:07 pm: well there's those things like if his feet are pointed towards you or if his pupils get bigger when he looks at you..but the best way is WITH talking to him. i'm not sure if you meant that you want to figure it out without talking to him at all, or without asking him straight out. you don't have to ask him straight out..but definitely talk to him! im assuming you like him too? you don't have to tell him! just let him know by acting like it! i never told my current boyfriend that i liked him and he never told me. we both just knew. its weird to explain...but just spend time with him like try to invite him to stuff with your friends and you'll figure it out just by being around him. i hope this helped. [ iSpEaKsPaNiSh's advice column | Ask iSpEaKsPaNiSh A Question ]
XSugarPieX77 answered Tuesday June 14 2005, 3:33 pm: Hey. You will have to talk to him to get to know him a lot more. And, it wouldnt hurt to go up to him and ask if he likes you. Some signals might be if he is super nice to you, and with some guys they will be super mean to you. Hopefully he's the type of guy that is nice to you lol. Go up to him and say that you heard he liked you if he says he does then say, hey what a coinsadince i like you too. Dont be scared, you've gotta live life to the fullest. Take chances! Good Luck.
~Brina~ [ XSugarPieX77's advice column | Ask XSugarPieX77 A Question ]
mn731 answered Tuesday June 14 2005, 2:32 pm: How to tell if a boy likes you-
*He might start talking loudly in your presence or start treating you as one of the guys. (Yes, this is a weird way to show he likes you, but it's one of the most common and strongest signals!)
*He might also become very shy and mumble when he speaks to you.
*Then again, he could behave like a real Casanova, praising you for no apparent reason and straining hard to hold a sustained intelligent conversation (often ending in him asking for your phone number or for a date)
*If he is acting more flirtatious toward you than toward other people at the same event
*If his friends are paying attention to you when he isn't around (often a clue that this guy talked to his or her friends about you).
*If he always seems to be around (especially if you get the "instinct" that he's there because of you)
*If he is smiling while listening to you, and seems to be listening especially "actively"
If he seems to look into your eyes a little longer than normally.
*If he remembers stuff you said before and brings it up again (asking questions about something you mentioned in the past ) - shows he's interested in you
Jenni2892 answered Tuesday June 14 2005, 2:26 pm: well i think he likes you, too see if likes you, you can ask one of his friends if you dont want to ask him.
IPIiINIkI_my_anti_drug answered Tuesday June 14 2005, 2:15 pm: Aww you guys are soo cute!! He likes you, but in a flirty way i guess you'd say. Drop hints to him aswell, and talk to him more!
♥ Michelle
p.s. if he likes you he will flirt more, call you a lot, be with you, play around with you, and stuff like that. [ IPIiINIkI_my_anti_drug's advice column | Ask IPIiINIkI_my_anti_drug A Question ]
SWANKiFiED answered Tuesday June 14 2005, 1:37 pm: By the sound of it, he might. I made a handy chart so you can add up the signs & see if he does. Also, if you ever end up liking him, I put some advice in there that might help get a relationship going. Good luck sweetie! ♥
Directions: copy & paste this into a word processor (like MicrosoftWord or WordPerfect) & put some sort of mark in the middle of the [ ]'s if it applies to the boy that likes you. Then add them up & see what your total is. After that, follow the steps underneath your total to see some results :]
[ ] You often find him staring at you
[ ] He goes out of his way to talk to you
[ ] He'll smile at you
[ ] His friends are starting to take notice of you
[ ] His behavior is different around you then others
[ ] He doesn't pull away if you touch him, whether it be an accident or not
[ ] He blushes when you give him a compliment
[ ] When he talks to you, he looks directly into your eyes
[ ] He tends to show off in front of you
[ ] When he's talking to his friends, he glances over at you
(0-1 Checks) Just Friends
He's showing limited signs & maybe some not on the list. He's definitely interested in you, but only for friendship. However, that COULD change so try to spend more time with him!
(2-5 Checks) It's Possible
He might not necessarily 100% like you but he might be starting to develope feelings so all the signs aren't quite there yet. If you don't want to wait & want to hurry up the pace, start talking to him or compliment him & see what he does.
(6-10) Somebody's Got A Crush
He likes you & it's very obvious. If you want to pursue things a bit more, why not ask him to hang out or get his screename. Talk to him as much as you can & if you return the feelings, I'm sure dating might be in the atmosphere! [ SWANKiFiED's advice column | Ask SWANKiFiED A Question ]
K2204 answered Tuesday June 14 2005, 1:13 pm: well, it sounds like he does, or maybe he wants to be friends, maybe you two should give being friends a shot first. if his friend is looking at you, that gives me the impression that he has told his friends about you, so that sounds like a good thing to me! if he talks to you, and yeah, staring at you, and maybe like makes jokes, or trys to be funny, and wants to know about you, and help you with like homework or carrying something. maybe if you two are in one of the same classes and there is a test or a project, you could ask him if you wanna stdy together- if its a test, or work together, if its a project, and tell me how that goes, and we can figure out if he likes you!!
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Mackenzie answered Tuesday June 14 2005, 12:14 pm: Oh My God!! AWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!!!!!!! That is the CUTEST thing I have EVER heaRd!!!! "he saved me one time" Aww!!
Well, I only have a little bit of infoRmation, but if you ask me, it DEFINITELY sounds like he likes you!!! I mean, wouldn't otheR people who didn't caRe foR you AS MUCH just let you hit the wall foR a good laugh foR themselves?? Yeeeeeeeeeaaahhh, pRobably so... And I guess some signs of him liking you would be the fact that he actually SPOKE UP when you needed a waRning, fiRst of all... but also the staRing factoR, definitely... if he tRys to sit close to you, and also if you notice him nodding, smiling, oR vocally gReeting you in the hallways.
Honestly, I simply Recommend TALKING TO HIM. If you eveR see him sitting alone at lunch oR in the moRning befoRe school, just walk Right up to them and be like, "Hey! How's it goin'?", oR even a "Thanks foR saving me" would be soooooo DARLING [pRoviding this was a Recent occuRRance]. I know it seems difficult and pRobably easieR said than done, but you just have to be bold, talkative, and Really give it youR all!! And don't foRget to smile, smile, smile!! Smiles aRe DEFINITELY RemembeRed!! Goodluck to you!! I know you can do this NO pRoblem, so go get 'em, TigeR!!! :D [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
Sunkist_Girl101 answered Tuesday June 14 2005, 10:37 am: Well I am not the best person for this problm I am having somewhat of the same problm.but here are some clues ok giving compliments umm..just wanting to be around you a lot you know little stuff like thatI mean you could always just walk up to him and ask him.when ever I ask for advise on this kind of stuff thats what pple always tell me. well I hope I helped you I know probly not much sorry about that.
Your frinend
~Sunkist_Girl101~ [ Sunkist_Girl101's advice column | Ask Sunkist_Girl101 A Question ]
Sporkster answered Tuesday June 14 2005, 10:19 am: Well, honestly, I can't give you any other answer than you can't tell. Guys are big flirts, and some flirt with girls that they don't even like. Maybe this guy does like you. You'll just have to flirt back and see what his reaction is. Hopefully, he does like you! Maybe you'll get your first boyfriend soon.
xoBrowneyes answered Tuesday June 14 2005, 9:54 am: You don't need any more information. I think you have enough and the answer is HE LIKES YOU! If you wanted him to ask you out drop clues like he did and flirt with him. I hope i helped!!! [ xoBrowneyes's advice column | Ask xoBrowneyes A Question ]
Michele answered Tuesday June 14 2005, 9:29 am: Hi honey,
I am glad that you wrote. Well it certainly sounds to me that he likes you. And that is he concerned enough for you that you didn't run into a wall. I think it sounds nice. I thought you suggesting about finding info on it, was funny,but then I thought, well.....let me look. and guess what... I found some info. Here is a link to an article from GIRLS, INC magazine and a QUIZ to take, and earn points, and I guess the most points you get, based on his behavior, means that he likes you. I didn't take the quiz myself, I know that my boyfriend likes me. (He better!) Here is the link. Have fun.
jaede answered Tuesday June 14 2005, 1:36 am: Boys are hard to figure out sometimes, and they don't always show their interest in the same way. You don't say if you're friends with him already or not. If you're friends already, talk to his friends or have your friends talk to him and find out if he's interested. Staring is generally considered a universal sign of interest, though.
Give him little hints that you're interested. Smile at him when you catch him staring at you, make a point out of saying hi to him in the hallway, or touch his hand or shoulder lightly when you talk to him. It's best if you do talk to him, even if just to start a friendship--if he feels comfortable with you, he's more likely to ask you out. All my boyfriends were friends first. It's easier for both of you that way (less pressure).
mauigirl answered Tuesday June 14 2005, 1:24 am: say hi and watch his reaction. if suddenly he focuses on you, like his whole world just froze... he likes you. then talk to him and figure out something you both like to do in common(watch old horror movies, surf, go to the skatepark, whatever) and drop hints about maybe doing that next weekend. if he likes you he'll jump at the chance and invite you. good luck chica. :') [ mauigirl's advice column | Ask mauigirl A Question ]
karenR answered Tuesday June 14 2005, 1:21 am: Usually if a boy so much as talks to you its a pretty safe bet that he likes you. It sounds like this guy likes you. Why don't you want to talk to him? Well, at least give him a big smile next time you catch his eye. He may be looking for a sign from you that he has a chance. Guys can be nervous about talking to girls too. Especially 13 year old guys! Good luck :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
hawthorne0heights0girl answered Tuesday June 14 2005, 12:56 am: shure. well first of all thanx for asking me this. i need some reputation or however you spell it. ok to the question...
1- if he stares at you with this look that says "i love you will you love me back?"
2-if his friends stare at you then he has probrably told them about his crush on you.
3-if, say for instance, you fall down and he is right their and he helps you up and stares into your eyes then he likes you
4-and from my experience... one of these days he will ether write you a note and give it to you saying will you go out with me i really like you. or he will ask/tell you in person.
5-note:if you really like him then you should ask him out.
lilly_pads79 answered Tuesday June 14 2005, 12:52 am: Well he has given you alot of clues. Maybe ask one of his friends. I would give you more but he has already given you those signs. I think he probably likes you! Hope For the best!
eternitysofbliss answered Monday June 13 2005, 3:57 pm: ok. there is no real way of finding out if he likes you or not. I often stare without meaning to do so. Only sure way is to ask him but smile back and stare at him. If he breaks eyecontact first then he just thinks your hot. If he keeps staring he likes you, or if he smiles back. Other than talking to him theres no sure way. Just go on aim and get a conversation going and say i have a secret to tell you and then tell him you like him. [ eternitysofbliss's advice column | Ask eternitysofbliss A Question ]
dragon30191 answered Monday June 13 2005, 11:24 am: you could just get one of your friends to go up to him and say taht they notcied him staring at you and they can just ask him if he likes you.....if he hesitates it probally means he does like you but if he just jumps out with a "no" then he doesnt like you [ dragon30191's advice column | Ask dragon30191 A Question ]
koala642 answered Monday June 13 2005, 10:53 am: Well, one sure way to see is by talking to him. If he has stands close to you, or can't really look at you. But since you asked for a way without talking to him, if he tries to stand or sit near you, he is flirting. However, there is no real sure way other than asking him straight out, some guys are "natural flirts", meaning that they flirt with everyone and dont even realize it. So if you really want to know, drop some hints of your own to let him know ur interested, see where it goes from there, if not, then you may want to just ask him, or have a friend do it for you if your nervous. [ koala642's advice column | Ask koala642 A Question ]
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