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Okay, I'm 14 years old, a male, and I am a homosexual FYI. I lived with my mom until her drug problems escaladed and I had to move with my grandparents. During that time, I became friends with this guy who I am friends with but am totally not attracted to whatsoever. I stayed there for a few months and we signed up for summer P.E. together and everything was going good. Then, I moved with my mom again and I became friends with this other guy who I am totally attracted to and I guess that kinda boosts his personality. I ended up blowing my other friend off and dropped out of summer P.E. to be with the guy I like/love or whatever. Is it bad I kinda ditched my best friend even though its my life and I should be able to do what I want and if this other guy makes me happy that should be the only thing that matters right? Anyways, my summer P.E. friend calls and says I blew him off to be with Ronnie and smoke drugs which isn't entirely false and he hangs up on me. Is it bad that I did this and what should I do now. Also, remember its too late to sign back up for summer P.E. and its also nice to know my summer P.E. friend is a republican and doesn't know I'm gay or anything like that. Please help me out of this bind.

for one thing eeeeewwwwwwww.But you shiuld have not done that.And and if I wer him i would like to know that you were Gay and tell him your sorry.

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Hey me and my best friend have been friends for about 4 years nearly 5. But now its all changed and i miss her so much i just want things to go back to normal but my other friend is very jelious if we do anything together help!!

will rate hight!!

Well you can't worry about that why not all 3 of yall do something togather.Mayne the other frien just want a chance to get close to the your bf.So that all yall can be friends.

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I am 13 and a girl who has never had a boyfriend and I think think this is my chance.There is this boy who has gone to mostly every school I have gone to(were in the same grade).But I think he likes me.Its like he has been drooping clues like he stares at me all the time with this serious look on his face,he saved me one time(if thats what you wanna call it)because I was walking and I wasn`t waching where I was going so I was about to bump into the wall then he said somthing to me then that made me look up,and his friend heeps on looking at me.So how do I figure out if he likes me without talking to him and can you give me information on how to tell if a boy likes you.

Well I am not the best person for this problm I am having somewhat of the same problm.but here are some clues ok giving compliments umm..just wanting to be around you a lot you know little stuff like thatI mean you could always just walk up to him and ask him.when ever I ask for advise on this kind of stuff thats what pple always tell me. well I hope I helped you I know probly not much sorry about that.
Your frinend
~Sunkist_Girl101~

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Dear advicenators,

Age:13
grade:7th going into 8th
I have a father that abuses me but i really don't know what to do i've tried being sucidal but it didn't help at all i also know if i consult the police he will deny it and he will abuse me even more so what should i do?

Being sucidal is NOT the answer this is a mager thing and you need to tell an audult you trust.
Hope I helped
~sunkist_girl101~

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theres this girl and her mom died like in november and i live right down the street from her and she is seriosly every where i turn: my house, school, swim team, bus,my brain, i mean seriously she ia everywhere. she is so weird and annoying but when she was at my house once she said that i am her very best friend so now i cant do anything about that because my mom would kill me, id feel guilty, and id practically be the meanest person on the planet. i really do not want to be her friend anymore but i cant get away from her. any suggestions? ill rate you

Well just hang in there it's probly duff not to have a mom.Maybe she just needs a friend right now just try to hang in there maybe help her mke new friends.
Hope I helped
~sunkist_girl101~

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Me and my best friend have been best friends for ages.but now i feel she is going off with another girl.If i talk to her about it she goes your my best friend not her,but yet she still goes off with her.
what shall i do?

Ypu have to talk to her I feel that way with my best friend some time I talk to her and we work it out.So all you can do is talk to her and tell her how you feel.
Hope I helped
~Sunkisr_Girl101~

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My best friend jade is getting mad at me because i am freinds with this girl kayla who she got in a fight with. now she wont talk to me unless i stop being kaylas friend, and then we
stoped talking, now yesterday she called me saying that she wants to be my friend again should i forgive her?

It's hard to forgive your friend when they do something (I know )but you don't want to lose a friendship over what happend I thing you should forgive her I know it may be hard but you will see that forgiving her is better that losing a friendship.
~sunkist_gitl101~

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I like this guy, Jared. He is my friend, but i dont know how i can get him to like me that way. Im a very out going person and well usually, thats how i get my guys. But he is different. I dunno its just all so frustrating. PLease help!!

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Well just be your self.

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well, there are these auditions for teens to become singers or dancers it is number one to get teens into movies and comercials, so i signed up and asked my mom and she said it was alright and now, today, one day before the auditions, she said that she doesnt want me to go. because i will be with my dad for 6 weeks and she thinks that if they want me to come soon then i wont be here, so what do i tell her? need help fast. it is tomorrow at noon! PLEASE HELP I NEED IT FOR MY FUTURE!



i will rate high for ANY realistic answers!


thanks

well tell her u really want to do it and tell her that she alredy said u could and see how that goes.

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ok i went out with this one guy that i really liked a lot, but we broke up becauce he said eh didnt like me in that way, i was really upset but we are still good friends and all, but now he keeps saying that he wants to make out with me and he wants to like do stuff with me, i dont get it.

Well if he does not like you for u and just wants to make out with you the he is not worth your time.

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