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theres this girl and her mom died like in november and i live right down the street from her and she is seriosly every where i turn: my house, school, swim team, bus,my brain, i mean seriously she ia everywhere. she is so weird and annoying but when she was at my house once she said that i am her very best friend so now i cant do anything about that because my mom would kill me, id feel guilty, and id practically be the meanest person on the planet. i really do not want to be her friend anymore but i cant get away from her. any suggestions? ill rate you
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dont get away from her. imagine if your mother died. wouldnt you want a friend? wouldnt you want someone to comfort you? wouldnt you want something to make you happy? i would. just stay friends with her, be nice to her. you dont have to be with her at all times if you dont want to, just hang out with her if she invites you to do something, dont make up excuses. hope i helped
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well you no you cant be mean..because you no tht she proably lost her best firend!!...her mom...and im sure her and her mom were very close..so shes trying to get over the fact that her mom is gone and trying to find a friend..and thats the number one thing she needs right now is a friend..its really hrd to get over that your best firend died..and she may never get over that..but you hlft to break it down to her..you shouild tell her to cool it on coming over..and tell he r that you dont need to see her as much..and just say something that you wouild say to your self..my mom always told me to treat others like you want to be treated..just put your self in her shoes..with a mother gone and im sure no friends...the least she couild have is you..so try to be nice and dont scare her off...e-mil me anytime you want and tell me how it goes ok!!
hope i helped!!!
love always,
ilovepink101
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Well just hang in there it's probly duff not to have a mom.Maybe she just needs a friend right now just try to hang in there maybe help her mke new friends.
Hope I helped
~sunkist_girl101~
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What a dilemma! I suppose your best bet is to just try and keep away from her as much as possible. Ask your moms advice. Tell her you feel bad for the girl and all that but you really just don't want to hang around with her all the time. Maybe she can help out. Maybe you could find someone else for her to hang out with. Know anyone who might like her? Other than just plain telling her you really don't want to hang out anymore that's the best I can come up with. Good luck :)
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Help her to make friends with other kids. It seems like a solution that no one can have a problem with. Won't happen immediately, but if you work at it, it could work out fine. And your mom won't be mad and you won't feel guilty.
I know you are smart enough to figure this out.
Michele
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well if you don't want to be around her as much....then you can always pull the "oh im grounded for a month" thing...that would give you time apart and then maybe she would start hanging out with other people. also if she asks you to do something at school or whatever....then be like oh i already have plans but maybe we can do something another time and leave it on a happy note. just slowly start to pull away from her. that should work! xoxo
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well i think you should talk to her and give her a chance to se what she is really like. she is probably just with you because she needs someone to talk to i meen if your mom died u would proubably do the same thing.
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