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A little bit of advice:
Find someone who calls you beautiful instead of hot,
who calls you back when you hang up on him,
who will stay awake just to watch you sleep.
Wait for the person who kisses your forehead,
who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats,
who holds your hand in front of his friends,
Wait for the one who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he is to have you. Wait for the one who turns to his friends and says,"...That's her."
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Ok, Like i usally wear a size 3 in jeanes, but latley my thighs have gotten so big, that i have had to start wearing a 7!Is there anyhitn ghtta can make my thighs any smaller?And also, I wouldn'y mind losing my pooch either.I rate high! (link)
You should try to watch what you eat. You can also work out. Try running or playing a sport.


Hey. I am going out with my best friend. Before we were going out, he was so sweet and loving and everything. Now that we are going out, he doesn't act like that anymore. First he was really bad, he basically ignored me. (It wasn't because he was embarrassed)Now he has gotten better but still hasn't gone back to normal. I know he is trying, but how long is too long? (Its been 5 months!) (link)
I think you should talk to him about this, i mean, he is your boyfriend and you should be able to talk to him about this. If something is bothering you, let him know. If he doesnt change, maybe you should go back to being 'just friends'.


hey my name is kelly and i have this friend that is mad at me for flirting w/ guys....its NOT my fault that i an flirtatous and like to talk to guys. but she gets mad at me all the time! what should i do???
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We'll i think you should ask your friend if she likes a certain guy that you tend to flirt with. If she does, and you dont like him as more than just a friend, tell her that and maybe just try not to flirt with him as much. If she likes this guy, tell her your sorry becuase you didnt know she liked this guy. Hope i helped, if u need nething else, you know where to find me!


My friend started flirting w/ the guy she knew i liked the other day!!! She doesnt realize this and he got mad at me for something else so i've already lost one friend and i know i need to talk to her too but idk how to do it w/o her getting mad at me bc i dont wanna loose her friendship too! And then I'd have to face the both of them together at school next yr! What should i do? (link)
I think you should tell your friend how you feel. If she knew you liked this guy, she shouldnt have flirted with him in the first place. Your friendship should be more important than this guy. If your friend doesnt feel this way, i would say shes not a very good friend. And i think you should try to ask this guy why hes mad at you. Try to fix it, whatever it is. Say your sorry, and just be friends again.


Theres this guy well theres two guys and there both friends and they both like me. they didnt come out and tell me but i know there friends and sisters have told me and they give off more then enough hints. but my promblem is: they like me but i dont like them well at least i dont think i do see there bosinas and i dont date bosinas i only date americans i know i knoww sounds dumb but thats just me. and i kinda think i like one and i cant like him i wont let my self. but i kinda think i only like him or think i do is because im still trying to find the right guy. im 16 and i still havent found the right one. so what do u guys think my promblem is? thanks for the help..

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I dont think that you should limit yourself to dating only americans. You could really be missing out on something great. Some guy could be from a different country, and be your soul mate, and you could just pass on him, and miss out on the great love of your life. Remember that something else will always come along, but its not always better. I think you should get to know these two guys better, and hang out with them a little. That way, you can figure out if you like either of them as more than a friend. Hope i helped!


hiya
how do you change the date on your pc? lol tis just mine sez its the 17th of june n its kinda buggin me.
also how do you get the date to print out with your document or pic or whatever? (link)
The time is shown at the bottom right corner of most all computers, double click on that. A box will pop up with the date and time. There will be a small calander in the box with a tiny grey box around the date. Yours must be the 17th. Just click on 16 and....voila! Your date is changed to normal. O and to get the date printed out on documents, you could just try typing the date on the page.


there is this really hot guy in my gym class and like i think he likes me...but i dont noo..i dont wanna flirt with him but how do i figure out if he likes me or not??
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You could ask one of his friends if he likes anyone. If they say yes, ask who. Just go up and talk to him also. You dont have to flirt, just get to know him, what he likes to do, etc. When you become better friends, ask him to do something with you one day, such as swimming. Swimming would be a plus, becuase then you would get to see his hot body! lol


I am 13 and a girl who has never had a boyfriend and I think think this is my chance.There is this boy who has gone to mostly every school I have gone to(were in the same grade).But I think he likes me.Its like he has been drooping clues like he stares at me all the time with this serious look on his face,he saved me one time(if thats what you wanna call it)because I was walking and I wasn`t waching where I was going so I was about to bump into the wall then he said somthing to me then that made me look up,and his friend heeps on looking at me.So how do I figure out if he likes me without talking to him and can you give me information on how to tell if a boy likes you.
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I think you are going to have to talk to this guy if you want to go out with him. You should also drop hints that you like him too. Try talking to him online. All guys are different and not all act the same way when they like someone. I dont know if you like this guy or not as more than just a friend, but if you dont, you shouldnt feel pressured to date him just because he might like you. Remember, you're only 13, you've still got plenty of time. lol


I want to really straighten my hair, I have a vidal Sassoon, and a black revlon straightener. I also have the Got2Be straightenin serum but I still cant get it all that straight.
Can some one please give me some step-by-step instructions on how to really straighten my hair?
I'll Rate BunChezZ! (link)
You could get it chemically straightened. My friend had that done and it is completely straight. The only problem is, you cant get chlorine (from a pool) in your hair for about a month. Its also kinda expensive too. But trust me, it works like magic!


Well... I have this thing tomorrow night and I am getting my hair done. Its pretty formal... and I have a really pretty dress. The problem is... I have no idea how to do my hair! I've looked everywhere to find some hairstyle that would look cute... but evertyhing looks so weird. I have long hair and I know I want it in curls and I don't want all my hair up. If anyone can help me that would be awesome! :-) (link)
Try half up and half down. Always looks cute. You can also ask your hairstylist what she reccomends.


ok im 15/f and i really like this guy but he's so shy!! he barely talks online to anyone even his friends! i want him to open up cause the only time he talked a lot was at school in class but schools out now so we never see eachother! he's never even had a gf before so that might be why he's so shy but i really want him to open up so how can i do that! (link)
You should call him and ask him to go somewhere with you. Dont invite him to the movies, because you cant talk. Do something active, like an amusement park, or something you are both interested in.


Hey
Well theres this boy that i like. But he has a girl and i have a man. I only see this boy in the summer when i go to Dominican Republic (im here now). The past 2 summers i have told him that i have a man but i didnt......but taht never stopped him from kissin me and tellin me he loved me. What i want to do is tease him and play hard to get. I want him to want me more. What can i do. Plz help! (link)
Dont kiss him as much. Itll make him want to kiss you more cuz hes not kissing you as often.


i just bought a fairly tight-fitting dress for prom. i like it, but it shows a few bulges i dont want it to. is there any kind of workout that can burn some fat off my butt and stomach? are there any special foods that i should eat/not eat that can help? is there anyway to make the butt and stomach fat less noticable? thanks so much. i rate high for good answers. (link)
Just start doing about 50 crunches a day, then in a few, increase to 75, then in a few more days, to 100 and so on. Your stomach should start looking less fatty and more toned. You could also start running each day, its great exercise and can help trim ur legs. Dont eat too many sweets and dont drink much soda. Do eat a lot of fruit and vegetables. If you need ne more info, write me!


Hey! Well there is this boy I really like and he is like perfect in every way and I really want to go out with him. Well, there is one problem....he is going out with my best friend. They keep ALMOST breaking up and then they don't. I really can't wait for them to break up(i kno that sounds really mean). Well even if they do break up I can't go out with him right away or my friend willl be hurt....so what do I do? I really want him.. (link)
I think you should ask your friend how she would feel if one of her friends started going out with her boyfriend. If she says she really wouldnt like it, you have to ask yourself who is more important, this guy....or your best friend.


I CANNOT break up with anyone. I used to be able to but now I just CAN'T! I can't stand the fact that I'm breaking up with someone that I still want to be friends with. Usually I have my friends break up with the guy for me, but it just doesn't seem...I dunno. The guy I want to break up with now is awesome and I CAN'T and i mean Can't stand to break up with him but I have my reasons and I want to. Does anyone have any ideas of how I can dump him with out being mean? (link)
If you and your boyfriend now, get along well, and are good friends, theres no reason why you cant break up and still be friends afterwards. Just tell him that you dont think its working out and that you two are better as friends. It might turn out that hes been thinking the same thing as you.


ok so i sweat and i dont sweat only on my head. I sweat on my chest and now i have these red dots sorta like acne! i only get a couple but how do i make them go away?? *they arent very attractive*! lol Please help i rate easy 5s!! (link)
After you work out and get all sweaty, take a shower. You can use special body cleanser to help the dots go away. If you got nemore questions, feel free to ask away!


Hey,14-15 yr, old girls
me and my friends want to take a trip anywhere like kings dominion or the movies or sumthing but we all have other friends that we want to invit. what activity should we do that wouldnt involve the friends to group off? help, i want a memorable freshman trip w/ my best friends
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I think putt-putt could be really fun. Or going to an amusement park such as Six Flags. My class last year all went there and we all had a great time. At Six Flags there is also Hurricane Harbor, so bring your suits to swim!


how do i get these gurls that hate me and want to beat me up to be my friend again!! and im scared to even go up to them because they are tougher than me please help me!!!! i rate high if your answers are good! (link)
If they are being mean to you and want to beat you up, you shouldnt want to be their friend at all. If they arent nice to you, there is no reason i wanting to be friends with them.




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