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How long is too long?
Hey. I am going out with my best friend. Before we were going out, he was so sweet and loving and everything. Now that we are going out, he doesn't act like that anymore. First he was really bad, he basically ignored me. (It wasn't because he was embarrassed)Now he has gotten better but still hasn't gone back to normal. I know he is trying, but how long is too long? (Its been 5 months!)
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tell him hes an ass and that you want to just be friends again. it will never go back to normal but you dont deserve to be treated that way. nobody does. JUST DO IT!
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WELL..SINCE YOU GUYS ARE BEST FRIENDS OR WERE..HE PROBLY FEELS A LITTLE AWKWARD..I MEAN THINK ABOUT IT_GOING OUT WITH YOUR BEST FRIEND. PERONALLY..I THINK YOU GUYS ARE BETTER OFF AS FRIENDS. MAYBE TRY THAT AGAIN & MAYBE HE WILL GET MORE COMFORTABLE & YOU GUYS CAN TRY AGAIN. OR YOU COULD TALK TO HIM ABOUT IT & BE LIKE.." YOU SEEM SORT OF DIFFERENT NOW THAT WE HAVE BEEN GOING OUT..WHY IS THAT?" as SIMPLE AS THAT. GOOD LUCK HUN! XOXO
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I think you should talk to him and find out whats bothering him. Maybe he just likes being friends better and felt less pressure before you starting going out. If nothing changes, just go back to being good friends.
♥ Brooke
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Ok this might sounds mean and stuff but if he ignores you, then his not worth it because you are so much better than that and you DESERVE much better than that.
so try this. get with him in some quiet private place where you 2 can talk. tell him calmly that you really loved him as friend and as boyfriend but you liked the person that you knew before who was sweet and loving, not the person you see now who is ignorant and bad. and if he really cares then he change in next week and if he doesnt than you are moving on...
this might be hard for you but you have to move on if he keeps on like this, because you deserve better than that. and if you let go then you will meet a new guy who loves you and cares for you and never ever ever ignore you.
because most important thing in a relationship is COMMUNICATION.
and hope i helped and hope it works out =)~!
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i think you have been waiting to long let him down easy tell him you like him but you want to go back to being best friends, it will take a while for things to go back to the way they were but if you try hard then you will be back to best friends.
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Its been waaay too long. Forget about the way he feels for a minute and ask yourself if you are getting what you need from this relationship, it doesn't sound like you are. Give him one more chance if you want, but I think its time to decide that you make better friends then a couple.
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I think you should talk to him about this, i mean, he is your boyfriend and you should be able to talk to him about this. If something is bothering you, let him know. If he doesnt change, maybe you should go back to being 'just friends'.
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