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break up
I CANNOT break up with anyone. I used to be able to but now I just CAN'T! I can't stand the fact that I'm breaking up with someone that I still want to be friends with. Usually I have my friends break up with the guy for me, but it just doesn't seem...I dunno. The guy I want to break up with now is awesome and I CAN'T and i mean Can't stand to break up with him but I have my reasons and I want to. Does anyone have any ideas of how I can dump him with out being mean?
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just tell him that you want to be friends and you're not trying to be mean...but you need to break up with him because you don't want to hurt him later in life...
take it from me baby
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ok about the breaking up thing haha i have broke up with 7 out of 8 of my bf's lol. but really it is worse for your friends to break up with them. what you should do is go up to him in his face and say (NAME) you are an awesome friend but that what i want to be JUST friends. that might be really really hard for you but thats the only right way to break up with him. ~JORDAN~
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It is always best to break up with someone yourself. They may have questions they want to ask. Its called closure. So, do it yourself.
There is no easy way to do it. Just tell them your reason even if it is I have no reason! Tell them you'd like to stay friends if that is true. Just do it. :)
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If you and your boyfriend now, get along well, and are good friends, theres no reason why you cant break up and still be friends afterwards. Just tell him that you dont think its working out and that you two are better as friends. It might turn out that hes been thinking the same thing as you.
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hey babe-my best advice is if you really want to breakup with him then you will push yourself enough to do it. i mean a motivation is all of the reasons you want too will not be a problem anymore && once you say i want to break up && explain yourself its over. thats it. sure he can be immature or whatever but youre being the stronger one in the situation. think of it that way. good luck i know you can do it girl!!
stephanie<3
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i think you8 should thiink twice about your reasons and think hard about them. and if you need to get over the fact that you are scared to break up with people.. you friends wont always be there for you when you get older(hopefully they are) you need to face your fears sooner or latetr. believe in yourself and you will be able to do it. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*
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Well this is the thing you have to think about. You have to think of the reasons why you want to break up with this awesome guy. These reasons of yours.....are you sure you want to break up with this guy because of those reasons? You need to look at these reasons and tell yourself if it is really good enough to lose this guy over. You may never have another chance with this guy and if you guys are happy right now and if you think hes awesome, and you CAN'T stand to break up with him, then think what you really must do. I hope I helped....
~Dom
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dont ever say you just want to be friends. tellhim that u just want to take a break and maybe you guyys could get back together. do it yourself this time.
~natt~
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