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how do i get these gurls that hate me and want to beat me up to be my friend again!! and im scared to even go up to them because they are tougher than me please help me!!!! i rate high if your answers are good!
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it's simple you just don't, find another group of friends
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first of all, why would you want to be friends again with girls who hate you and want to hurt you?? that's not friendship! obviously, something happened between you and these girls which really turned the friendship in a very negative direction. i would normally say maybe you should talk things through with these girls and see what went wrong, however, due to the fact that they want to beat you up, anything you say they could turn around and make into another reason for hating you and/or beating you up.
girls like these are shallow and mean and why would you want friends like that? obviously i dont know the situation or why it is that they hate you so much, but i would ignore them and not pay attention to things they say. this may be hard but i think if you do this they will eventually stop harassing you and you wont provoke their desires to beat you up which is the important thing.
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Hey you kno what hun I have the same problem happening to me right now.. there are a few girls that wanna beat me up to.. I have been trying to talk to them on the internet and on the phone.. try asking them what you did and how you can make it better.. defenitley do not tell cause that will make them even more mad I wish you all the luck in the world..
Tonie.
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aww you poor thing....
well they must hate you for a reason. apologize for what you did. whatever it was.
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I know how this feels. I did the right thing though. If these girls are threatening to beat you up why would you want to be friends with them again? Let me guess...you're thinking if you're friends with them again they wouldn't wanna beat you up? Well you shouldn't do that. Just do what I did. I talked to the principal and he called the girls in and we had a meeting and if they keep threatening you just go to the principal or your parents. Eventually they will stop and if they don't harassment charges should be placed on them. Don't go back to being friends with them. Hope this helps!
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If they are being mean to you and want to beat you up, you shouldnt want to be their friend at all. If they arent nice to you, there is no reason i wanting to be friends with them.
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Why do you want to be your enemies friend? Carry a knife, if they even touch you, slash em up!
Its all in self defense. Or just punch them in the nose and kick their knees in.
Dont be these peoples friends.
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Instead of talking to them you should get a grown up to get you and those girls to settel your argument.And so you know those girls aree realy your friends have grown-ups around you for a few days(so they wont do anything to you):)
P.S. Dont forget to rate!
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wEll i DOnt tHiNk yOU shOULD bE fRiEnDs wITh tHEm CAusE oNlY bItCHeS aRE rudE liKE tHAT! bUt IF ytOU REEEAAAlLLyYY wANNA bE fRiends with them then i think you should get a friend to go up to um and ask whats wrong with you and why they dont like you! ex-oh shanniin
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ok there is one thing worse then getting beat up: public humility. Your options are:
1) Ice cubes- just imagine the possibities.
2) Squirt gun.
3) Bubble gum.
4) Prank phone calls(not public but fun)
5) Whip cream
**and if you want more ideas or elaborated ideas ask me**
ok so i dont feel too evil what you should do is tell an adult you trust and rat them out. Or get a stong bf.(im assuming your a straight girl)
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what i do to avoid people is that i follow their scedule and go to the opposite side of school and if that doesn't work try telling an adult (i know i know its embarassing) anyways most girls are just talk and no action
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try to talk to them on the computer or soemthing.. like talk to the "nicest" one out of the group.. just be like " what ever i did i will be willing to change.. i really don't like to fight.." etc.. things like that like butter her up... sorry i couldn't think of a lot.. but i hope what i gave you helpes!
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i had this problem just do somthing nice to them!
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