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telling him how i feel
So I've liked my best friend Andy for a while, but he doesn't know. I care about him and he cares about me, we call each other up everyday and talk for at least an hour, and whenenver we hang out I feel such a connection with him. I really want to let him know I feel, but I'm so afraid to. I know if I told him our relationship wouldn't change, whether he likes me back or not, because he's like that. My friend already asked him if he would ever hook up with me, but his response is, "Well .. she's my best friend.." or "I can't think of my best friend like that..." But he said I was pretty and he loved my personality.
I don't know if I should tell him how I feel or how I should tell him how I feel .. should I tell him on the phone or in person this Friday? I know if I told myself to tell him in person, I might chicken out .. but telling him my feelings might be the wrong thing to do .. maybe I should wait.
What do you guys think?
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Just tell him. If you don't, this is going to be bothering you pretty much forever. Just tell him [ you don't want it to affect your friendship but .. ] you've had feelings for him as more than a friend for a while now, & even if he doesn't feel the same, [ but hopefully he could ], & you don't want to push anything, but you needed to get it off of your chest. Hope everything works out! Good luck!! =)
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just tell him
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dont' wait.. if you said " i know if i told him our relationship wouldn't change" then what do you have to loose... i think you should tell him .. because like i said..w hat do you have to loose? ... but anywayy... i think you shoudl tell however you feel most comfortable but i think you may not be able to tell him in person b/c it would be really hard and frusterating... so i advise you to tell him on the phoen because you may not be able to tell him in person.. hope i helped!
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well i think the quicker you tell him the better. and you should tell him on the phone if you think your gonna chicken out if you go and do it in person.but before you tell him you should say i hope this doesnt affect are friendship.
~Jenni~
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