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<b>ehh need some advice here =/</b>
I like my school and the people in it and stuff, but im always, like depressed because my Friends who are the people who I hang out with the most dont seem to likke me anymore. I was wondering if I should go to a private school for freshman year next year. I mean everyone else will be new, too its just im afraid to start over again. And afraid ill miss something in my towns' highschool - i know ill miss my friends but they were like, "Oh," they werent sad at ALL..they laughed at me. I dont know what to do, should i go to a new high school ( a private one bc i cant move) ??? or just stay where i am and be pretty sad. People say things are better with friends in high school, is that true. I want your H0NEST T0 G0D Opinion.
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If these people are being rude and acting like they don't care then you these are not the people u need to be friends with. I don't think you should go to private school because, yes high school is rough butt if your just gonna be a freshman than everythiung will be okay there will be new kids from other middle schools and you'll make alot of new friends trust me im a junior in high school and im not friends with alot of people that were my friends in middle school. Everything will be okay. Hope i helped
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If they laugh at you they are not true friends sometimes starting in a new place might be better because you meet new people at first it is very scary but as long as everyone else is new you will be fine.Before moving try and become friends with them again give it about a couple of weeks and if not move and you might be more happy hope i helped lv sweetcornxx
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Well, its always nice to see what the world has in store for you, you know see what else is out there. And you said you're going into your freshmen year? *Sigh!* Well, you're friends may have...well how should i word it? People change and grow out of each other. Priorities change a lot during this time. I think you should try the private school.
MAd Love,
Victoria
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Does your school only go up to 8th grade, and the majority of the kids all move up to the same public high school for grades 9 through 12? If so, I think it would be good to just go there, if thats what you originally planned on doing. Most of the time, you end up meeting new people in high school and you'll lose touch with some of your old friends from middle school. That happened to me. In my district, we have 3 elementary schools, 2 middle schools, 1 high school (and one continuation school). After elementary school, you either go to one middle school or the other. You end up making new friends from other elementary schools. Then when High school comes along, you'll see other people from the other middle school, whom you never met before (because they also went to a different elementary school), and then people whom you're reunited with, from your old elementary school, and then theres the kids you've known since elementary school, because you've gone to the same school as them all your life. If this is in any way how your district works, maybe you can go to the high school you were originally planning on going to... most likely there will be a lot of new faces and new people who will have the same interests as you, and you'll make new friends in different classes, etc. Plus you still have some familiar faces around you, so its not like you're totally starting over... you're just moving on, which a lot of times is good. I've done that a lot--I wasn't happy with the people I hung out with, so I met new people and so on. I finally found a good group of kids who like me for me, and who have the same interests as me. Good luck with everything, and if you have any other questions, feel free to leave on in my box.
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friends do help in high school but i think you should go to a private school because bein sad and depressed aint fun at all and you can be happier at the private school, you can make new friends that are true to you and actually care about you.
~Jenni~
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You can go to a new school where the same thing might happen again.It's like what they say "You Can't run away from your fears (unless it's a wasp)".Or you can tough it out at your old school.Just b/c your not friends with them doesn't neccisarily mean your be miserable.I understand what your going through, but make new friends it's no big deal. There are more people in the school then them and possibly even better.
~Kiwi~
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When you ask, it makes me want to tell you to go to a private school and start over, because of the way you ask, "should i go to a new high school ( a private one bc i cant move) ??? or just stay where i am and be pretty sad." But, I'm thinking that maybe staying in public school with your friends would be better. You don't have to not be friends with them, try bonding with one of them, hang out more, or for the heck of it, find new people in your classes and start making friends and small talk, because going to a new school makes me think you'd go and feel even more sad because you don't know anyone, and then you just shut yourself out. High school is very different than middle school is from what I've heard. I am starting my freshmen year soon too. You meet a lot of new friends, different people, its a lot more fun. Theres more people, so that means you gain more friends. I don't want you to skip the opportunity of trying public high school. I truly think it will be a decision you won't regret.
-TheTeenGirl
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Hey babe! I went thru the same thing last summer so I know how you feel! But I made soooo many wonderful new friends last yr and they mean the world to me!! My parents wouldnt ever let me switch schools tho. But yea everything is better in high school!!! And if you start hanging out w/ older people it helps too!! Ok well hope I helped! Love yah!
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