Okay my ex boyfriend Tony has been a big problem in my life for the past two years.. he's hit me a total for three times and one time i had a bruised spine because of him.. well anyways he hasnt hit me but he called my cell.. i just got my number changed cause of him.. well anyways he said this same bullshit ive heard hundreds of times sayin he loves me blah blah blah.. well when he called me also he said he knows that i want him and if i dont go with him he's going to find me and hurt me again or pull a Jay on me.. Jay is a guy that tried to rape me which was Tony's friend..so Tony is threating to rape me and beat me.. i havent told my boyfriend im with now cause i hate to get him upset and worried.. i havent told anybody.. all my friends dont get why i wont go anywhere i just want to stay in the house.. i dont want to press charges or anything cause if he found out i dont know what he'd do or if he'd get somebody else to do something to me.. im just so scared.. i dont want him to hurt me again i dont want him to rape me.. i thought he was out of my life for 7 years cause he was locked up for drugs yea well with my luck i should of known he wouldnt be put a way that long.. he is so mad at me because i moved on with a new guy and because i didnt wait up for him while he was locked up.. what kinda girl would want a guy like that..? if you can help me on what to do ill rate high i just dont know what to do or who to tell.. im just reall reall scared.. thanks in advance..
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? ParadiseAngel answered Tuesday June 21 2005, 4:05 pm: hey pumpkin?! i'm so sorry about what happened and whats happening. I hope everything will work out. I'm here to talk if you need, well i think you should tell family, parents, or even your current boyfriend..ONLY considering the way he feels about you and if you and your current boyfriend really cares for you and you trust him and you know he will take care of you no matter what. Basically anyone who might be able to help you. This is very very serious and dangerous and you or someone close to you can get very hurt. You might want to consider pressing charges although i no you dont want to because hes your x and you like him or whatever feelings you have might be still their or your scared you might get hurt worse by him or someone he might send after you. Be careful, and your welcome (in advance.) Luv ya pumpkin! [ ParadiseAngel's advice column | Ask ParadiseAngel A Question ]
IceAngel13 answered Tuesday June 21 2005, 2:43 pm: I would suggest to press charges. That's a serious thing he did to you and threatening you afterward is worse. But if you really don't want to then, I would suggest to tell someone. You are a great person for not wanting to worry others but I'm sure they'd want to know. And you can't put everything on yourself or you're going to break down. So my advice would be to tell someone, either by pressing charges or tell someone that's close to you because this isn't something that you can just keep bottled up inside. I hope I helped.
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HyperMickiHAhe answered Tuesday June 21 2005, 2:13 pm: go tell your boy friend and have him beat the crap out of him. keep a cell handy if you see him some where call some one
KeiKei answered Tuesday June 21 2005, 2:11 pm: awwwww..hun. I'll tell you 1 thing you have really GOT to do something. You might not want to but you HAVE to tell SOMEONE , tell a close friend or relative. And then u might have to go to the po-po's (cops). Because if you dont he may REALLY do something seriously bad. You should want to be hurt anymore.Girl.. tell your boyfriend. I strongly suggest yo go to the cops because this man sounds really crazy.And you need to get help before its to late. I wish you the best of luck. and if you can can you tell me wat your going to do (like in my feedback) cause i would like to know.
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