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Hi. I'm IceAngel13, though you can call me Megan (my name) if you want. I like to make graphics like my picture. I write stories, poetry and lyrics and I love music, and love to sing. I love to give advice and I think I'm pretty good about it. I try to be as nice as I can when giving advice and try not to judge people. Feel free to ask me about anything, including relationships. :)
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O.k my bff Ruby,still kinda likes her ex Michael.Who i'm going out with.People are constantly trying to break us up.Making up lies and stuff.I don't hug him infront of her because she wants to fight me when I do.He always hug me and sometimes I push him off.I love him with all my heart,he makes me happy.But I do want my rep. back.So its either Michael or Ruby.If I choose Michael i'll be happy cuz i'm inlove.Or I can choose Ruby and be broken heated and miss him every secong,but still get my life and friends back.Which do I choose?Oh!I still have friends,but I hate pretending and not showing my feelings toward him when she's around its not right!What do I do?I mean I've followed my heart and its led me to him and for me to stay with him.But still its hard to choose.In this situation its one or the other.What should I do???
Love,
Sky
I know it's hard to choose, but if you approach your friend about it and tell her how you're feeling then she should understand that michael's with you now and it hurts you when she's constantly jealous of you two. but is she continues like this then just stay with your bf and forget about her. She shouldn;t be a reason for you to pull yourself apart from your bf and if she was a really good friend then she would stop and she'd understand.
hope i helped.
I bet yall are thinking "Oh great ? Another guy question" I`m sorry, lol but I had to ask. Me and Zack went out for 9 months. ( Lol, we were only in 6th grade, but we went out for a long time cus we had so much fun going to movies and stuff ) But then he broke up with me. I was heartbroken and cried for days. I got over it and we became best of friends and I`ve even had a few boyfriends since then. But all along I`ve still liked Zack. I`ve helped him hook up with some of my best friends and every time I do I can't take it. I`ve told him i liked him before but we usually go into the ackward state were we just sorta ignore each other till I tell him I like another guy. What should I do? Were finally BFFs again and I don't wanna ruin it again, but I still like him. Sorry for being so long, thnks again and I will definitly rate high. xox
Well, there's really nothing you can do but move on. He seems not to like you back and not to be harsh or anything, but there's really nothing you can do about it. So my suggestion is just to move on. I'm guessing you're in like 7th or 8th grade now, which means you still have your whole life ahead of you, so don't get all hung up on one guy. There are a lot more out there, so just go out and have some fun. Don't worry, some other guy will come along and you'll fall head over heals for him, guarenteed :D.
Is it true that if u sre a smaller girl you dont get your period until ur like older and if you are a bigger girl you get yours sooner????is that true or is that just a lie... or doe sit have nothing to do with how big you are its just the was your body develpos
I've never heard that rumor before, but I can assure you that it's just the way your body develops and has nothing to do with your size.
I am often called evil for being an atheist. Why is it that christians who supposedly want to spread good will have no problem calling me an immoral godless person?
Well, I'm a Christian, but I wouldn't call you that. It really depends on the person to how they see someone, some people dont judge people by their religion and I just think that people who say that really have some problems, especially if they say it right to your face. So all in all, it really depends upon the person, and not all christians think like that.
Hey i have really thick curly hair, and i was wondering if anyone knows of anything i can put in my hair that will make my curls more defined but not make hair look thinner..cuz i've tried gel and mousse and it makes it look nice but still pretty puffy. Thanks
I have thick curly hair too. And I've learned that if you brush your hair when it's dry, it'll make it puffy. I learned about tat once and it surprised me, but I tried it and it helped a lot. There's also a product that I'v used, it's called Full Frame (07) by Redken. It's supposed to be a volumizing mousse, but it's different then other mousse, and it doesn't really volumize, but insted defines your curls and makes them less puffy. Hope I helped.
~IceAngel13
I really like this guy and we went out about a month ago but i still really really like him. He is still sweet too me and he still says he love me like he say "love ya" at the end of most e-mail. We talk all the time on the computer but he never calls me. but he likes another girl in a town about 30-50 miles away from ours. He is still single and so am i.. what do i do.. should i get over him and be just friends or try when school starts? please help me. thanks so much
I would suggest to just move on and get over him, but you can still be friends. I think the reason he's e-mailing you is because he wants to still be friends. And "love ya" doesn't necessarily mean that he actually loves you. I say "love ya" and end e-mails with "love ya" with my friends all the time, and I don't romanticaly love them, just love them like brothers and sisters, and I think that's what he ment by that. So, my advice is to get over him, but stay friends, it seems that's what he wants too. Hope I helped.
~IceAngel13
ok i am in love with a guy that is black... i honestly dont care about what color his skin is but my parents DO! they dont want me to go out wit a black guy... they can be really messed up like that and i have tryed talking to them about and they always said NO! and i always get mad about it... me and this guy are going out but my mom only knows we are friend but i still cant stand the fact she can be so racest..i love this guy i am wit he respects me and never would make me do soemthing i dont want to do..like yesterday we were at the mall and she say a black guy wit a whtie girl and she was like "omg look stephanie look how pretty that girl is with that black.. i can believe people can do that" i got really mad i thought to myself what if she say me like that... i need some advice on what to do i am 14/f and my bf is a 15/m.. someone please help me!!
I would sit down with your parents and tell them what you just told us, that no matter what skin color you are, you are still a human being and skin color doesn't make a difference in any of their qualities. Tell them that this guy means a lot to you and that he's unbelievably nice to you and really cares about you. Tell that they should be more conserned with if he treats you with respectr or not, not the color of their skin, because hate to break it to them (actually love to) but white guys can be complete jerks and treat you with no respect. Stay big on the respect thing. And if it still doesn't work out, then I would date him anyway (this might be just the rebel comming out in me, but), you're parents shouldn't controll all of your choices, especialy ones that they are biast about. I personally am EXTREAMLY AGAINST racism, so I understand where you're comming from. So that's my advice, hope I helped. And I hope everything works out, because racism is a serious thing. And I hope they understand and allow you to date this guy. Best of luck!!! :)
~IceAngel13
*well my ex boyfriend is coming over tomarrow and i made him a scrapbook of all our memories cause i want him to know how much i still care about him! he has told me 3 times since we've been broken up he loves me and hes said he misses me all the time! but theres also another girl that he likes and im trying to pretty much win him over..but anyways..i was just wondering if you had any ideas on how i could do like a scavenger hunt kinda thing to lead him to it cause i want this to be special!!! please help asap! thanks!*
This is a really stupid idea, but my brain is currently dead, so this is the best I have. You could have a note thingy taped onto the front door (with his name on it) containing a map to it, if you want. Umm, is that what you wanted?
Ok..If I'm around loud noises I feel like really nausious ((Sp.)) and like I love to go dancing but my "friend" and I clog and his shoes that he has to wear for his like dancy deal are so loud that i feel sick when im around the noise...does this happen to anyone or do you know what i should do?
((and i cant stop going dancing or stay away from loud noises because I'm around them at work))
I get that when I go to loud conserts, I normally don't eat right before I go and it also might be because you are excited, so just try to relax.
I have a rat. And i was wondering from anyone who knows anything about them. What can be done or given to a rat to keep it amused. I open the cage everyday and let him run up my bookcase(where his cage is situated) but I don't know if this is efficient enough? Anything would be appreciated.
Thanks a lot,
Anthony
There are little toys and stuff like that you can buy them at pet stores to amuse them.
I'm thinking about getting the top of my ear periced does anyone know how much it hurts? and if it is worth getting it done?
It really depends on the person. My cousin got it done and she said it hurt a lot, but a friend of mine got it done and she said it didn't hurt at all. I would do it though, if you want to. I'm planning on getting the top of my ear pierced too, eventually.
hey you answered my question about the whole mike thing..he has talked to me all through out the whole 6 months..after we broke up hed still call now and then and most of the time when he got on the internet he would IM me! but just recently he has been telling me he wants to be with me and stuff! and it all came out of no where..so i dunno if he came to his senses and realized i am the one that cares or what! and i do love him with all of my heart and it feels like we are meant to be together..not just cause i say so its cause theres something i feel! like whenever he would hold my hand i would get butterflies in my stomach and it just made everything feel so right! im just not sure what to do! i wanna try to forget but then theres a part of me that says no dont do that cause you never know what you could be passing up! aghh its just too confusing
It's basically up to you. It could go either way, so it's really up top you, If you really have feelings for him, then go for it, but be creful, because if you guys broke it off once, itis likely not to last as long. You might want to sit down and organize our thoughts, don't let your mind get couded and really think about it. If it's ment to be then it will work out, so I say to really think about it and do what your heart tells you. I probably wasn't much help, but I did my best. Best of luck. And I hope you guys make it.
~IceAngel13
hey! well me and my ex boyfriend mike went out for 3 months..i know its not a long time but we talked and dated for like 4 months before that! well anyways we have been broken up for almost 6 months now and we both have went out with other people!i have always asked him if he liked me and if wed ever get back together..well he never would answer the whole like you question but he would always say i dunno if we will ever go back out cause i dont normally go out with ex gfs so i thought ok fine whatever! well i tried moving on ya know and i finally got to the point i thought i was over him! i even had him over like 4 weeks ago..i could kinda tell he had feelings for me cause he would keep asking me for a hug and hed like put his arm around me and he gave me a hickey and we had a total blast together..but it kinda felt like we were just friends so i thought well maybe i am over him but yet i still missed him! so i went on vacation and didnt really talk to him for 2 weeks..the day i get back he ims me and was talking to me and said he liked me so that kinda made me feel good but then i also realied that maybe i wasnt quite over him and he had also asked if he could come over next week so i thought sure! well so the next night we stayed up til 3:15 in the morning talking and he had said he still loved me and always had, he missed me, and itd be great if we eventually got back together but he didnt want that right now and he wanted to keep things slow for right now! then the next night it was a repeat we stayed up til 3:30 and he said he missed me and my picture was his background on his computer and what not! well then things just kinda seemed weird! i just had this feeling it wasnt gonna be a good day but i kinda tried letting it go past me and i wrote his xanga past memories and i told him i still loved him..so i guess that was a bad idea cause he totally flipped and was like omg i cant believe u did that , you know i dont like my friends knowing everything, blah blah blah! so i was like ok im sorry and i showed him how to get rid of it! so then he wouldnt say i love you but he said i miss ya and your pic is still on my background so i was like okay maybe things arent that bad! but he also told me he didnt know if he was going to come over next week now because i made him upset and he couldnt believe i would do that which seemed kinda weird to me! but the thing is i want him to come over cause i wanna see him and talk all of this out in person and i even made a scrap book of us cause i want him to realize how much i really do care! well then theres this girl melissa that has liked him for about a year now! well hes always told me they were just friends and things like that! and the other day i said something how hes always with girls and calls them hun and stuff and hes like i hate when your like this cause you always think i like these girls when really we are just close friends! and i want to trust him but its so hard! and then like today i read his xanga and melissa signed it saying i cant wait to watch fire works with you tomarrow and then it had this quote that was like seduce my body blah blah blah seduce my soul and ill always be yours! and im so clueless on what to think about that! i know they both use to like eachother and they went to a dance together after we broke up and all he ever tells me is they are just close friends but he is with her all the time! and i dont know what to think of it! i just dont know why he would sit there and say all of a sudden out of no where that he loved me and missed me when for 6 months he wouldnt say a word to me! PLEASE HELP ME!
Don't bother with him anymore. If he has the nerve to not speak to you for 6 months then he's not worth your time. It's really wrong of him to leave you and then after 6 months expect you to be waiting for him. There are much better guys out there that won't play with your heart like that. Not that I have anything against him, but from what you've told me, I think you can do better then him. So my suggestion is to move on and I'm not sure if you still have feelings or not for him, from what you've told me, but you will find someone better. Best of luck, and hope I've helped.
~IceAngel13
im depressed. i have ALL the signs of teen depression [ i looked them up ]
i dont feel myself lately. i dont like me. i cant sleep. i cry for no reason. im really mean to people around me. this year my grades went from A's and B's...to all F's.
ugh...any ideas on how to tell my mom? i want to tell her i need to see a theripist but im scared of how to bring it up and stuff..
Just tell you're mom that what you told us, that you don't feel yourself lately and that you think you have teen depression and you have all of the symptoms. I'm sure she'll understand. Umm, there's medication you can take for it (I think), I don't know all too much aboout it, but I suggest telling your mother about it and then going to see your doctor, they'll diagnose(sp?) you with depression if you have it (which I serously think you do)and they'll help you from there. Best of luck. Hope I helped.
~IceAngel13
well theres this boy who goes to my church and he is so fine but im a afraid to ask him. and i think he likes me cause he looks at me and smiles and he likes to follow me sometimes and is name is adam and i need ur help
love ya :)
i rank high
Just ask him, I kow it's hard, but the worst part is befoe hand. Just go for it and if he says no, then at least you gave it a try. If you don't give it a shot, then you'll never know. So I say to ust go for it and ask him. Hope I've helped.
~IceAngel13
Ive heard you can dye your hair with lemon juice..is this true? does it work? does it look good? how do you do it? i mean do you just squeeze a lemon over your head? Does it work if you have dark hair?? like really dark..
and can you get it out??
I would't suggest it, my cousin tried iyt and it turned her hair a really ugly orange color and it's perminant for a couple of months, until ityy wears off. Not only that but it made my cousin's hair break and madew it really dry. And she had really dark brown hair, but it doesnb't matter what color your hair is, it turs out the same. I definetly wouldn't suggest this method. Hope I helped.
~IceAngel13
What can i do to look older? Ive gotta trick this guy into thinking im 16 instead of 14, and im really short for my age..so its hard. Should i just wear highj-heels and a bunch of make-up??
Eye liner, my secret wepon, it makes you look older then you are and draws attention to your eyes, just don't use too much of it, or you'll look evil. Also, you're right with the idea of high-heels, just don't go overboard and wear huge heals. There are girls who are really short for their age, nothing much you can do about it, but if you want to look older, that's the advice I have for you.
~IceAngel13
ok i have a big jewish nose lol brown eyes light brown hair and a long face and not really an upper lip a tan and a slim bathing suit body. should i wear colored contacts what color. should i dye my hair blond. also what styles should i do my hair and clothes and makeup
I don't suggest dying your hair blonde for anyone, because it seems really fake looking to me most of the time. If you wear colored contacts, I would suggest a greenish, hazelish color, it'll draw attention to your hair. And makeup, hairstyles and clothes are an expression of who you are. Whe people see you, they see what you look like first, so I would suggest to dress, do your hair and do your makeup however you want to be seen as. Hope I helped.
~IceAngel13
ok i'm really sorry this is long, but please take the time to read it, because it seems no one can help me: all i want is that on friend. that one friend that will stick with you though your whole life, and that u can grow old with. you know? that friend if your crying she will come over to your house and sit with you for hours, or one that you can call at 2 in the morning. and that friend that you never have awkard silent moments with cause you always speak your mind with her, and even if you are silent, its comfortable silence.you see, it seems all my friends arent really THAT friend.like when i feel like talking about serious things, they do not listen. they're just to have a few jokes with and thats it. in MY opinion, i think there is more to a friend than that. my mom says its hard to find that kind of friend but someday you will. i dont believe her. will I EVER get that friend!!???
Your mother's right thoes friends are hard to come by, but eventually you will find that friend. Just be open and don't be strict about who you talk to. Trust me, it takes a long time to find a good friend, but once you find them, it'll be worth the wait. Sorry if that's not what you wanna hear, but that's what I have. Hope I helped.
~IceAngel13
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ok so my bf n i have been going out for like 2 yrs and i luv him to death. i cant wait to be w/ him n im never going to dump him so dont suggest that. but lately hes been sayin he'll hang out w/ me but then he ditches me for his otha friends n they're mad far away so i never get to talk to him at all. i hate it when he does it but he makes it seem like its no biggie. he doesnt know how i feel n when i talk to him he never understands. plus he does drugs when hes there, or atleast he did. n he wonders y i hate him goin there. i dunno what to do. i want to stop gettin all upset when he does this but i cant n i dunno what to do if theres anythin i can do. wheneva he says hes goin there i get all quiet n je just started noticin that i get upset. n he gets mad at me cuz of it. i dunno what to say so he gets how i feel and how i dont like him goin there but i want him to be happy at the same time so i neva say nothin. please help. i really need it. thanks in advance.
You really should talk to him about it. Communication is one of the most important things in a relationship. And if you don't tell him, then things won't change. But if it's really upsetting you that much, then I would tell him and I'm sure he'd understand. Hope I helped.
~IceAngel13