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ok so my bf n i have been going out for like 2 yrs and i luv him to death. i cant wait to be w/ him n im never going to dump him so dont suggest that. but lately hes been sayin he'll hang out w/ me but then he ditches me for his otha friends n they're mad far away so i never get to talk to him at all. i hate it when he does it but he makes it seem like its no biggie. he doesnt know how i feel n when i talk to him he never understands. plus he does drugs when hes there, or atleast he did. n he wonders y i hate him goin there. i dunno what to do. i want to stop gettin all upset when he does this but i cant n i dunno what to do if theres anythin i can do. wheneva he says hes goin there i get all quiet n je just started noticin that i get upset. n he gets mad at me cuz of it. i dunno what to say so he gets how i feel and how i dont like him goin there but i want him to be happy at the same time so i neva say nothin. please help. i really need it. thanks in advance.
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For one, I don't think you should be with a guy who does/did drugs. With drugs, it's crash and burn. If he really likes you, wouldn't he really hang out with you though? Just try to set up dates and stuff. I think maybe that would make you and him closer.
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I know you're probably going to hate this advice but you're asking opinions on what we would do so I say... you shouldn't be with someone who does/did drugs at ANY time and even if he treats you right and satisfies you in every way with his care and respect, he shouldn't be getting mad at you for telling him how you feel. He should apoligize for blowing you off and take you out to dinner or something. Talk to him again and tell him to shut up and listen. After you talk, tell him he can add comments. Talk to him careingly and tell him it's really hard talking to him because when you express yourself, he gets mad. That's not right. Tell him EXACTLY how you feel but don't be angry with him. You should find a breakthrough through him!
Best of luck!
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~~~Kayla~~~
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You really should talk to him about it. Communication is one of the most important things in a relationship. And if you don't tell him, then things won't change. But if it's really upsetting you that much, then I would tell him and I'm sure he'd understand. Hope I helped.
~IceAngel13
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