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Hello!! I am Starfire! Don't ask why the name is StarfireandSakura, cause I won't tell you. Anyway, sometimes I'm gothic... well, actually I'm gothic all the time, only sometimes I kinda am completely and utterly dark. My fave color is black, and I like Evanescence and Linkin Park.SHOUT OUT: After I said that I was mad at her on my column, vballbabe021 replied: "Fuck off, bitch." She's SO nice, isn't she?
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Just wondering and don't ask why ( you might not want to know ) if there is anyway I could knock a guy unconcious without him knowing or waking up for an entire night or at least a few hours or being to ovious like hitting him with a vase or anything. Just wondering. :)
Hit him with a baseball bat. That isn't obvious. Also sleeping pills or something. I have a slight idea what you plan to do just from the way you put that.
i need help in my spirtul life with god. im a christian an all that but i wan to grow mor with god!
how can i get closer to god?
Pray more and keep the Ten Commandments. Try to be nicer to others and above all else... READ THE BOOK! lol. But seriously, you should read the Bible.
This guy is really cool. But, it's so confusing to tell if he likes me. First, he has a cute nickname for me, and he touches my shoulders a lot when we're walking. Also, he gives me complements and looks right into my eyes when we talk. I also catch him starring at me during class sometimes like at my legs or at my face. Does it sound like he really does like me?
thanks! ill rate 5's!!
Methinks he likes you. All I can say.
Ok,i have this "friend"...Sarah. I dont like Sarah...and i dont want her to be friends with my friends...cause if she is i know she is going to soak up all the attension,they'll like her,she'll turn them against me, and leave me out of everything. I hate her..shes so mean to me. How can i stop thinking about her,not care about her,and just make it so im not her friend..but not her enemy? Please dont be mean in you answers...i want to let go of her..but not be an enemy. Please help i'll rate high.
Holy crud. I had the EXACT same problem. No matter what you do, she's going to be an enemy, unfortunately. I tried being friends with the girl, and it was okay, except that she ended up yelling at me every five seconds. I suppose you could just stop hanging out with her and tell your friends to do the same then make sure they do. Hopefully this will cause Sarah to not be a friend, but not an enemy.
I don't believe in myself..I have very low self esteem..I feel horrible about myself most of the time..How can I boost my confidence..It's not as easy as it sounds..I don't know what to do..I have no friends and my parents (esp. my mom) tells me I'm useless and ugly) I get made fun of all the time..no wonder my self esteem is so low..How can I boost my confidence..All I want to do is feel superior just once..please help
Wow, you have nice parents. Anyway, one choice is to find someone with lower self esteem than you do. I do not recommend this. I think when you do something you should believe that you can do it to the fullest. That's my advice.
To be honest with you I feel a bit unhappy generally. I don’t know why- ive always felt like this really. It comes and goes.
The only way I can explain it is I feel this kind of indifference to everything, like I don’t care about anything. Numb. And then all of a sudden I get incredibly upset and angry - i really feel for people and try and help them, and sometimes i think nasty things about people. I sometimes take it out on people im close to and then regret it and feel guilty. Its like im constantly frustrated, like there is something inside that I can’t resolve. I feel like there is a gap somewhere needing to be filled and my heart is heavy with sorrow for some strange reason! I just feel like im different to others and it weighs me down. Maybe someone out there understands and can offer advice? Im 29 years old.
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Well, I kinda have the same problem. My advice is that as soon as you get in a bad mood, try to control it. If you can't, get away to a secluded area. If you can't get away, then just try to barely move or say anything and throw it off.
hey im burning a cd for when im in bad moods and i need some songs. like slow emo // punk // sad songs ya know? thanks a bunch! i'll rate 5!!!!
Evanescence for sure. And maybe Breaking the Habit and Numb by Linkin Park.
i am in love with my best friend. all my friends tell me that they think he likes me. one of my friends asked him if he liked me and he said "no, not in that way" but when my friend told him that he should just ask me out he said that he didn't want to. i am kinda confused because i love this kid and i don't think he knows if he likes me or not, although he did say he didn't want a girlfriend right now. i think that maybe he is afraid that sumthing will happen and we will break up and then never be friends again. i dont know what to do because my feelings for him are so strong. i just dont know what to do.please help me.i am sooo desperate for advice and anyone who responds to this i will be so grateful and i will try to keep in touch if you want me to.
~*~in need of help!!!!!!!!~*~
Well, just confront him and say that you like him or something. It's risky and all, but maybe he'll see that he likes you.
ok i never realised i liked this boy so much until i talked to him on the phone about a month ago.I hinted to him that i liked him but then tryed to avoid it i said that i did not go to the reunion which he was at because i liked someone there. He went through names and i went quiet on his name.He asked me if it was him and i changed the subject now i am thinking it was the wrong thing 2 do.He asked me 2 call him back but i told him i always call him and can he call me he agreed but never called! He asked me 2 be with him! i was so excited and agreed but then i have heard nothing did he change his mind??? One of my best friends said its because i went out with someone in our secondary school and it was not him and my friend thinks it is because i went out with someone else the thing is i never did anything with that boy i went out with.In fact i wanted to make the boy i like now jealous but i think it never worked.My question is what shall i do now?I can't phone him again because it will look like i really like him if i keep calling him.Thanx xxx
Call him. If he doesn't answer, than keep calling. See if you're still boyfriend and girlfriend. If you are, tell him you need to do something and explain to him that you're not with another guy or whatever.
When i was younger my dad used to beat me with anything and yes sometimes i deserved and sometimes i never anyway. Now if anyone talks about there dad or people hiting people i get all red and i panic and i just want to be out of that conversation but i dont want people knowing or wondering why i get like this so how could i change. anyone help please
Try to change the subject fast, and you do know your father could've been arrested for child abuse...
Well i like this guy and ive liked him for ages, he says he likes me but his got a girlfriend. He always says his going to leave her and i fool for it. then when im not interested he will try it on. but i really like him i mean when im around him i feel me and him are meant to be i know it sounds stupid question but what should i do should i just move on and forget about him please help.
If he always does it, then say he's her boyfriend, so stop tricking you. I mean, that could be considered cheating, so if you and him are meant to be it isn't till he dumps the other girl.
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ok so my bf n i have been going out for like 2 yrs and i luv him to death. i cant wait to be w/ him n im never going to dump him so dont suggest that. but lately hes been sayin he'll hang out w/ me but then he ditches me for his otha friends n they're mad far away so i never get to talk to him at all. i hate it when he does it but he makes it seem like its no biggie. he doesnt know how i feel n when i talk to him he never understands. plus he does drugs when hes there, or atleast he did. n he wonders y i hate him goin there. i dunno what to do. i want to stop gettin all upset when he does this but i cant n i dunno what to do if theres anythin i can do. wheneva he says hes goin there i get all quiet n je just started noticin that i get upset. n he gets mad at me cuz of it. i dunno what to say so he gets how i feel and how i dont like him goin there but i want him to be happy at the same time so i neva say nothin. please help. i really need it. thanks in advance.
For one, I don't think you should be with a guy who does/did drugs. With drugs, it's crash and burn. If he really likes you, wouldn't he really hang out with you though? Just try to set up dates and stuff. I think maybe that would make you and him closer.
Okay , this girl moved from another part of the town to the part i live in around last year . I was quite popular in school. I became friends with her because i thought she was sweet and friendly. But since last month ( or maybe even before that ,who knows?) she started backstabbing me , but still acted nice and sweet and oh-so-innocent in front of me .I have been busy for some time because of some commitments i have , so i didn't realise this until last week . None of my old friends talk to me as much as before , and now even when i sms my best guy friend , he'll talk about her smsing him at the same time .And it seems as though all of them like her more than they like me , and my best guy friend ( former ? ) he'll say stuff like :" oh , me and her and ___ and ___ and ___ are real close man " Without even including ME ! And if he wants to go somewhere he'll say :"if she goes , i'll go . " It turns out she's been saying stuff behind my back , and now , SHE'S where i used to be , with MY friends , and MY popularity .Even my crush seems to sorta like her , and pay attention to her like how he used to do with me . WHAT SHOULD I DO ?
Ergh. I had the same problem, in a way. I think what you should do is try to get your friends to believe that she's lying. I mean, if they ever were your friends, they'd at least hear you out. If that doesn't work, then I hate to say this but you have to find new friends.
(13/f)Okay well I'm in love with my best friend thats a guy. I've liked him since the first time I met him. But he has a girlfriend and I HATE HER! He knows it and so does she, were trying to be nice to each other now but its kinda hard. I really want him to dump her, but I mean I can't tell him that and honestly Jesse and I are a lot closer than him and Kelsey. They've been going out for a long time now too and I really don't think there going to break up anytime soon. But I can't tell him I like him because of what happened last time when I told him....he said lets just be friends. I really want to tell him and then he dumps her and we go out but I know it won't happen I'm more like his #3 on his top 10 List. Even Jesse's family knows me more than they know Kelsey. Should I tell Jesse how I feel? And also does anyone know how I might be able to break them up without Jesse hating me? Like nothing to be like lyingish but I really need him to dump her.
Well, even though you want to be with him, I think you should let them be. Probably eventually they'll break up, and maybe then you can be with him.
I'm best friends with my friend's boyfriend. My friends name is Haley, and Her boyfriend/my best friend is Ryan. (Btw, im 13 female) Well Haley is out of town, and me, Ryan, and a few other people went Cosmic bowling the other night and me & and Ryan totally flirted. I've liked him for a while, but I felt terrible for doing this to Haley so I stopped, but he kept tryin to hold my hand and everything. I really like him, but Haley's practicly my best friend too, what should I do?
Well, if your friend Haley really likes him, then tell him that she's his girlfriend, not you. It's bad to not be with the boy you like, but I think it would be worse to be broken up with or something like that.