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I'm best friends with my friend's boyfriend. My friends name is Haley, and Her boyfriend/my best friend is Ryan. (Btw, im 13 female) Well Haley is out of town, and me, Ryan, and a few other people went Cosmic bowling the other night and me & and Ryan totally flirted. I've liked him for a while, but I felt terrible for doing this to Haley so I stopped, but he kept tryin to hold my hand and everything. I really like him, but Haley's practicly my best friend too, what should I do?
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Dude...wait til they break up .Dont be a skank. You might wanna warn your friend (girl) that hes doing this. God luck. Love ish and lili
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I would tell Ryan first, be like Okay, as great of friends as we are, i am also really close to Haley and would never want to do this to her. Also, i would want to ask him what he was thinging, is there something wrong with him and Haley?, has he always had feelings for you as you have for him? I would tell Haley after you talk to it with Ryan. If she is a true friend, she will understand, explain to her that you kept him from doing anything because her friendship means alot to you. However, tell her that you don't want this to come between your friendship. I hope i helped!!
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Ok...first thing...talk to Haley...let her know whats up with Ryan...tell her that you like him and he acted like he liked you...she might be slightly mad but eventually she will come back because you were honest...and if she stays with him after you told her this then hes going to cheat again and its goin to worse on her, because you were right...and if they break up, and you want to go out with him, ask her first...ask if it would bother her and remember in the back of your mind...once a player always a player...hope i helped!
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Defenitley go to Hayley about it.. tell her your feelings and tell her what Ryan did it might break her heart.. but it is for the better because if you love her you would not want a guy to be flirting with other people all the luck in the world..
Tonie.
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Well first of all you need to talk to him about all the flirting and try to make him stop and if he doesn't stop just tell Haley cause if he is flirting with you he must not like her all that good so she needs to know...If you were my best friend I would want you to tell me
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Let things fall where they fall and listen to your heart....also tell your friend that he flirted with you but dont say anything about yourself flirting wih him
good luck and much lovee
kriss <33
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If you are best friends with Ryan you should be able to talk to him about it. Explain to him that you don't feel comfortable being close to him in that way while he is in the middle of a relationship with another one of your close friends. You both together should tell her because if she finds out later it could really hurt her and you could lose a friend.
Xo-->SQuiRToFLeMoN
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you should ask ryan about it to make sure you got the right impression ask him who he would want to go out with you
did nothing so dont feel bad u stoped before anything got started you should just lay low intill ryan and haley talk
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all i can say is chicks over dicks. you really don't want to lose one of your really good friends over a guy. he may be one of your good friends and you may have liked him for a while, but if you want to go out with him, at least wait for a little while after they've broken up.
good luck & hope i helped!
XOXO~*~*Nicole Lynn*~*~XOXO
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Well, if your friend Haley really likes him, then tell him that she's his girlfriend, not you. It's bad to not be with the boy you like, but I think it would be worse to be broken up with or something like that.
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talk to ryan.. remind him he has a g/f and if he is going to flirt w/ you then he needs to break up w/ her. then you need to talk to her about what happened and work the whole thing out
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Gosh I was sorta in the same situation last summer. I made the wrong decision by breaking them up and I was heart broken. The best thing to do is put yourself in her shoes. I think you hould talk to ryan and tell him yall can no longer flirt. And I know this may be hard but you might wanna be a little distant from him so your feeling dont grow. Just remember ryan wont always be there but your friends will. I know its hard but try and cope with it. If anything talk to your friend to tell her whats going on. If she is really your friend she will learn to cope with it.
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