lady and gentz
im in the brown shirt :) my name is shelbie and i live in nac town ..i love riding horses ,sticking my nose were it doesnt belong lol,cheerleading and hanging with friends....come on bring on the questions!!!
Gender: Female
Location: nac town
Occupation: other
Age: 13
Yahoo: arka_del_fia
Member Since: June 23, 2005
Answers: 13
Last Update: June 26, 2005
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hi - i was the one who wrote about my dad and how i wanted to know he if he still loved me or not -- i want to thank you for the advice that you have given me -- you have made a difference -- but i just wanted to tell you that he lives like a million miles away from nac. -- do you think i should send him a picture of me? i want to write him but i am scared to ask my mom -- i dont think i can make any connection with him till i am 18 -- so what do i do this time? (link)
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u cant be scared!!youl never make it any were being scared if you really want this to happen u have to speak up!of course you should send him a photo and a letter he might write back!!and if your mom says no you have to listen dont try to do anything to mess up yallz relation ship .if she says no u just have to wait till your 18. i know i know..........thats along time but you have to keep in mind shes your mother and you have to respect that
srj
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hi, im 13 and i have a lil problem with my real dad. i havent seen him since i was like 7 or 8. i have no idea where he is or if he is still even alive. i miss him alor but my mom has custidy of me untill i am 18. i use to not want to c him becauz he got remarried and i hate his new wife -- she hates me and my brothers -- he is a cop .. or he was when i use to c him, but i wanna talk to him so bad -- but he had a choice of me and my brohters or his new wife (she was abusive) - not like hitting but she singled us out so we told our mom - anyways he had a choice of us or his new wife and he said her - does he not love me anymore - i feel like cryin all the time --- plz tell me what you think
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im am so glad you asked me i wasin the same situation on fathers day i broke down crying but i desided to do something about it .go to google and type in people search. and click one of the links and follow the directions. i did this and i found were my father was ,wether he had children if he has been divorced and an email adress. all from just google so try it!i am 13 as well .and trust me your father thinks about your ever single day and he blames himself for not being a good father .keep your head high because your dad does love u no matter what other people say! forget his wife! (if he is still married)he is your dad dont let her get in the way if u want to see your dad go see him!rember shes not your
mother!
i hope ive helped
always rember keep your head high
and never put your self down about his its not your fault!
srj
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hey...i really like this guy but things are real confusing. so many things r goin on and idk wut to do. my parents would probably freak out but i cant help but like him...i just need another opinion with out people lecturing me on their past relationships and their ideas for what i should say to him so...can i have your opinion?? (link)
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yes you can .
try telling the guy how you feel.send an email if you arent good with face to face stuff .it doesnt matter what your friends think .its ALL about how you feel about him !!.if you really like him and want to take things a step farther then you would find a way to work things out regardless if alot of stuff is going on.If you cant find a way maybe you dont like him as much as you think you do.
now the whole parent deal is a totaly difrent .if you are young its probley better you dont sneak around it will just cause more drama.talk to your parents about it and see what they say..........i would go for the nicest parent the more understanding one .if they say no wait till your older ....then thats probley the best thing to do. but what ever you do rember when it comes to your friends it doesnt matter what they say or think is how u feel!
always follow your heart!
srj
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hey....
ok well i went out w/ this guy 4 a really long time! and like he had to move to a town in florida. well b4 he moved he broke ^ w/ me. he said that he still luved me in that way but like the only reason he broke ^ w/ me is bcuz he wuz movin so far away. well he has made a lot of new friends and like i talk to him a whole lot but like i try to think that i dont like him anymore and thats wut i tell all of my friends. but i think that deep down in my heart i still luv him and i miss him a whloe lot. but like i dont no if he feels the same way. wut shud i do about it?? (link)
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all you can do is put your self out there. talk to him and see how he feels............u have to keep in mind he lives in florida and even if he feels the same way about you .all you will have is the satisfaction of knowing.but thats better then nothing.if he doesnt feel the same way u cant get ur self down just keep your head high.there are other guys just waiting for you
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I've read before that pink eyeshadow is not a good shade for your eye for some reason- is this true, and if so why? (link)
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so not true i wear it all the time it is perfectly normal
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okay, so i wanna highlight my hair. i usually go and get it done, but i wanna do it myself this time. however, i dont really have the time to go out and buy stuff for it right now. so does any one know, stuff at home that i could use and how to hi-light it, and not make it look like crap?!
i will rate 5's to any one who helps!
xoxo ♥ Brittany
thanks guys~! (link)
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i wouldent try it!!!just wait till u have time dont take any risks
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My mom is an alchoalic..shes not the type that hits people but the type that gets drunk then lays down on the couch and passes out..but shes so embarrasing..like ill have a friend over and she'll be drunk on the coach and i dont know what to say! but my ? is how can i talk to her about her illness? and does anyone else have an alchoalic parent because i would really like to talk to some people and here there stories..so leave me your screen name so we can talk thanks! (link)
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talk to your mom there are meetings called aa it stand for acholics anonamis (i think the spelled wrong)there she will get one on one help !she will get a sponcer and tons of people to help her there are conventions she can go to in aa . talk to your mom and tell her how u feel..some one that i know had the same problem and went into the aa program and has now been sobar for 4 years it really works but ur mom has to be willing to make and effort i guarentee there are aa meeting in your town call the local operator or look in the phone book
hope i was of some help
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ok there is this really good and i dont know how it is by or what it is called because i usually dont listen to that kinda music but the words go:
you wanna know more more more about me
im the girl whos kicking the coke machiane
im the ones thats honking at you 'cause i left late agian
hey hey hey
could you see i want you by the way i push you away
yea
dont judge me tomorrow sumthing sumthing really fast
hey hey get tangled up in me
if you need more of the song just tell me!! (link)
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i think this is how it gos
Tangled Up In Me
Skye Sweetnam
(Noise From The Basement)
You want to know more, more, more about me
I'm the girl who's kicking the coke machine
I'm the one that's honking at you 'cause I left late again
[CHORUS]:
Hey! Hey! Hey!
Can't you see I want you by the way I push you away, yeah!
Don't judge me tomorrow by the way I'm acting today
Mix the words up with the actions do it all for your reaction, yeah!
Hey! Hey!
Get tangled up in me
You want to know more, more, more about me
Got to know reverse psychology
I'm the reason why you can't get to sleep
I'm the girl you never get just quite what you see
[CHORUS]
You think that you know me (Get tangled up in me)
You think that I'm lonely (Get tangled up in me)
When everything I do is only to get tangled up in you...
You want to know more, more, more about me
I'm the girl that's sweeping you off your feet
[CHORUS]
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Im14, and recently my brothers friends have been calling me and asking my brother stuff like how old is ur sis and whats she like and stuff. and i like some of them like i think that they are cute. and my brother has been threatening them and he doesnt have many friends...should i talk to him? or pretend like i dont notice his friends> or what??
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your brother is alwyas going to be protective of you u should try talking to him and tell him to lay off a lil tell him that boys are no threat to you and see what happens
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I'm best friends with my friend's boyfriend. My friends name is Haley, and Her boyfriend/my best friend is Ryan. (Btw, im 13 female) Well Haley is out of town, and me, Ryan, and a few other people went Cosmic bowling the other night and me & and Ryan totally flirted. I've liked him for a while, but I felt terrible for doing this to Haley so I stopped, but he kept tryin to hold my hand and everything. I really like him, but Haley's practicly my best friend too, what should I do?
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you should ask ryan about it to make sure you got the right impression ask him who he would want to go out with you
did nothing so dont feel bad u stoped before anything got started you should just lay low intill ryan and haley talk
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ok -- my x boyfriend is really making me upset! he broke up with me not to long ago but we were still ganna be friends right! ok well i think he is crushing on my best friend and i think she feels the same way about him. but she tells me that she wuldnt do that 2 me! but they always call eachother so i dont know what to do -- what should i do because i have the feeling if i confront her she will just lie to me and say that she dosent like him ..... (link)
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ok thats tuff but there is something you can do .shes your best friends the only thing you can do is trust her inless you have a liar ditector.and he has to move on some time .im guessing u live in a small town and u have alot of friends and they are also his friends to . so really who ever he gos out with is gonna be your friend .i know its hard to let go but it can be done .try asking him about it and see what he says if he and your best friend just deny it you have no choice but to trust them .
i hope i have helped you!
srj
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srj
i really like this boy but my best friend likes him to and he likes her but he doesnt know i like him and neither does she .....this boy and i have liked each other before and he was going to ask me out but i chickin out at the last momment i hate lieing to both of them what should i do ....have i lost my chance for ever? (link)
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i have had this problem before...i went through alot trying to figure out what to do . you should come clean to your friend because if she finds out from some one other then you .you will have created more drama..........i know you like this guy but if he likes your friend you should give her the chance .after all you have had yours.just because your not taking action now doesnt mean u wont ever get a second chance!
srj
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