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a protective big brother.
Im14, and recently my brothers friends have been calling me and asking my brother stuff like how old is ur sis and whats she like and stuff. and i like some of them like i think that they are cute. and my brother has been threatening them and he doesnt have many friends...should i talk to him? or pretend like i dont notice his friends> or what??
thanks.
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naturally your brother is going to be protective of you, but if you want him to back off a little just talk to him, tell him nicely that you really appreciate him sticking up for you but that you would really like to try and make your own desecions on who you talk to, maybe even let him know ahead of time that you like one of his freinds. hope i helped
<<3 sarah
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your brother is alwyas going to be protective of you u should try talking to him and tell him to lay off a lil tell him that boys are no threat to you and see what happens
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well you shouild talk to your brother and tell him that he shouildnt be so protective over you...but it might hurt your brother to see his sister hanging with his friends... i no it would frigin pice me off..if i saw my brother hanging out with me and my friends..but you no you gotta think of your brother..and he does no those boys more than you..but you no that hes trying to watch out for you..but you no hats hat brothers do!!!
hope i helped......
love always,
ilovepink101
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well thats a tough one but to protect the relationship between you and your brother dont get envolved with his friends. you are still very young and will have plenty of other chances with other boys that arent related to your brother. your brother will respect you more when he sees you arent interested in the few friends that he has.
*jodyfresh*
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Explain to your brother that you're getting older and deserve some space. But keep in mind that he knows these boys better than you do and is keeping them at bay for a good reason. Ask him why he won't let you, and trust him a little. Showing that you're willing to listen will show maturity. Works on parents too.
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talk to your brother about it. if you want to hook up with one of them then do it. but if i where i wouldnt do ti. you could ruin your brother friendship with his friends. plus since they are friend the guy you hook up with could tell your brother everything you guys do. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*
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I think you should tell him you don't mind if they ask about you. At least if any of them give you trouble you know your brother will back you up. That's pretty cool, a lot of girls don't have that! He is just being protective. Tell him it doesn't mean anything if they ask HIM about you. He shouldn't get after them. Tell him that your glad he'll be around to help keep the future boyfriends in line though! :)
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well would you like your brother dating one of your friends? (i know i wouldnt..) but try meeting guys your own age and i bet your brother will be cool about that. he probably just feels weird that his friends may like you more than they like him.
hope this helps- :)
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