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Member Since: June 23, 2005
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Should i go out with my ex-boyfriend again?
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That all depends. Was he good to you? Did he really care about you? Did you trust him? Were yoy happy when you were with him? In my opinon, if you answered no to any of those questions, you might wanna re-think going out with him. But if you really like him, and you think/know he truley cares about you too, then it could be a good idea. Good luck!
-AJP


so...

theres this guy i like and i think he likes me but i dont know. how can i figure it out? (link)
Well, there's different ways to approach him. You could find the boldness in yourself and ask him straight up if he does. Or you could do the less bold thing and have a friend bring you up casually and ask him. Or have a friend (or just do it yourself,) confess you have a crush on him. Chances are if he's not a stupid guy, he'll confess he has a crush on you, too. Or he'll be shy and say something like "Oh, ok." This is something hard to do, so think about which way would work the best for YOU. Hope this helps..
-AJP


I think im fat, i want to go on a diet but i cant get off the food, my docter says im noramal but i dont want to be noramal i want to be skinny. my mom says i have a great figure and so do my friends but when ever i look in the miror i see this stoumagh of mine and i want to chop it off i hate it! what do i do and dont tell me that im probley fine okay??? thanks a bundle!!!
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Everybody has things about their body that they wish they could change. It's not about being skinny, its about being healthy. If really just wanna loose a pound or two look good in your bikini this summer, just watch what you eat. Instead of the snickers you have for a snack everyday, have fruits or veggies instead. Drink alot of water and milk, too. And don't skip meals. Try and workout for about 20 mintues or so everyday. I know it doesn't sound like much, but it can make a big difference about how you feel about yourself. But do listen to your mom and doctor, because they are probably right. If you are really concerned that your health might be in danger because of your weight, ask your doctor for things you can do. I hope this helps.
-AJP


allison,
ok so i guess i like this guy but i know he likes this other girl and i think all he is using me for is to get some... what should i do ?
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First, I would think about if you really like him. Do you just like the "idea" of having a boyfriend or him as a person? And make sure if him liking another girl is just a rumor or not. Or just straight up ask him if he's just using you, and if he is, tell him off. If a guy was just using me when he liked another girl, lets just say he wouldn't be seeing much of me. I hope this helps. Good luck!
-AJP


what works with the chicks
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Uh could you be a little more specific? Do you mean how do you get a girl to like you? Yea, i need specifics here. Leave another post with more specifics, please. Sorry!
-AJP


whats the best way to flirt?
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Well, look at the answer to the question before this one. But, if you're a girl, which I don't know, leave another question saying you are a girl or boy. Cause it's kinda different depending on the fact if you are a girl or boy.

And that goes out to everyone, it would be really helpful if you told me if you are a boy or girl. Thanks much!
-AJP


I want to get this girls attention but i dont want it to seem to flirt like, whats the best and most normal way to attract her attention? (link)
Ok, well,this is a hard one. Something that would get my attention would just be talking to her casually for a while. Don't show off or brag, that will just make her think that you're cocky. Just playfully talk to her, i guess. Make sure you get her to trust you, because then she might start telling you things. If you she trusts you, she might start to like you. Just take it slow. Good luck, hope this helps. If you need more help, just ask ;)
-AJP


my friends think im a mental person (lol allison) buuut ya...just cause i threw carrots and celery they think im on meds or something so i said to them,"Are you saying im some sort of MENTAL PERSON!?!?"and they took it very seriously and now i have no friends...

signed...
the friendless blonde (link)
Well, AMANDA, I am afraid I have so bad news for you.If your friends think you are a mental person, you probably are. Its ok to not accept the fact that you need some more help, people are there for you. So maybe you should try to not act so mental. Watch How To Lose A Guy In 10 Days, I think Andie Anderson has the same problem. Maybe it will help to see another person have the same problem as you. I don't even know you and I think you sound quite mentally challenged. Good Luck.
-AJP


im the girl with the not make it awkward before i go to camp- problem is we live in different cities and we leave for camp tomorrow - do you have any ideas to make it not awkward while at camp? its basketball camp so we will mostly be playing bball at MSU (link)
Ok, I would call her ASAP! Because it would be a good ice-breaker before camp. If you run out of things to say, ask her how school went this year, or about family or something. If you can't call her, then be sure to talk to her at camp when you get some chances. But don't feel you can't make other friends, that you have to stay with your friend. I hope I helped you! Have fun at camp!


I havent talked to a friend in 3 months and we weren't that good of friends in the first place but now im signed up to go to camp with her for 3 days overnight. how can i make this not awkward? im not an out going person. (link)
Well, this a tough one. If I were you, I would call your friend and hang out together a few times before you go to camp. If you want to make it not as awkward when you are hanging out, get a small group together to go do something. That way, there isn't as much pressure for you to talk to her every minute you are together. But be sure to hang out 1 on 1 at least 1 time before camp, so you actually do talk to her. Hopefully this helps, good luck! If you need more advice, let me know.




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