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Hey guys..
Kay well im on xanga & whenever i copy a layout from a site I see sometimes that it says " No jocking If i find you I will report you to authorities!!" But what does that mean? It sounds scary. I take a lot of layouts. Its it like jocking? Im so confused. I want to know so i know what I can do so im not jocking. I dont even know what it means. Please help! (link)
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All it means is that you can't take out the thing at the top that gives credit to the maker. Most xanga users dont even know how to do that. Don't worry about it as long as you don't change the code, nothing bad will happen. They can't really do anything to you if you do take out their credited name except put your user name in their xanga. Don't worry about it.
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Ok so my parents left town for the weekend and im here with my college cousin. My mom told me not to go to this one guys house but hes having a huge party this weekend. I really want to go but ims cared to death that my mom will find out or something bad will happen and then im screwed for the rest of highschool. should i go or not go? (link)
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I personally say don't go. As much as you may want to, I know that I would feel guilty the entire time. And eventually, somethign would probably happen that would make your parents find out. There will be more parties that you may have a better chance of being allowed to go to. Do what you want, but if you go, be careful. Really hope I helped!
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i'm 13 and i'm a Christian i'm really big on holding grudges and not forgiving people. i know i know its bad but i'm praying about it and working on it!! bible verses help me alot but lately i cant find any!! i need help on finding bible verses about forgiving..know any?? please help!! (link)
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A sermon at my church was about forgiveness. Our preacher taught us that it is the Christian way to forgive. The Lord wants us to forgive others just as he forgives us. However, this does not mean that you must forget. There will always be a rememberance of an event between you and the person that you have been holding a grudge over.
Also, if you read the Book of Esther, Haman always held a grudge against Mordecai and in the end Haman's power fell. This shows that the Lord wants forgiveness.
My Bible has little things written off to the side and this one says "God doesn't hold grudges when you do something wrong. God is eager to forgive. And God is eager for his people to follow his example of forgiveness and to not hold grudges.
I really hope that any of that helped! You can I.M. me if you need anything!!
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hey i just got a haircut today, and it's kind of short. i like it and all, i'm just afraid that it will go crazy on me because my hair is naturally curly (i straighten it). are there any products out there that will help keep it like it is when i first straighten it the morning?
thanks so much, and i rate high for good answers. =) (link)
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I have that same problem. I use Redkin's Straightening balm when my hair is wet. Then, i spray it with Special Effect's Stay Straight. I got both of these at Ulta if you have one of those in your state. Otherwise, they can probably be found in any beauty supply store! They seem to help me really well! Also, for some weird reason if i pull my hair back in a low pony tail, and leave it for a few minutes, when i take it out it stays straight. Ha, hope those things help!!
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did anyone here try the fragrance Burberry london before! is it any good (link)
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It's alright, but I have Burberry Brit. and I absoulely love it and always get compliments. Hope that helped!
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do anyone wear mary kay makeup?
is it good or bad i heared it was for old people (link)
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No way! They have the only lipgloss that I will wear. it is DEFINATELY not just for old ladies. It's very good make-up. I promise!
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It really bothers me that those damn kids won't give that nice bunny any trix...i mean u are suppoused to share right....gosh that is so mean...what should i do to get over it? (link)
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it's been. like so many years. you'd think by now those kids would be like adults. so now theres like selfish adults out there. what is this world comming to? I wonder if someone really did start a petition for the next commercial for him to FINALLY get Trix..maybe then, the commercials would be better. and more people would buy the cereal. Or, you just shouldnt buy it UNTIL he gets it, if enough people dont buy it, they'll give in!
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so..i still kinda like my ex and i kno he still likes me..but i have a bf now..nd i rele luv him alot..but im torn in half i guess between them..have any suggestions? (link)
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I went through this a few months back. I decided to stick with my new boyfriend, but ended up regretting it. I learned that my ex liked me again, and he was the one i ended up liking more, but he ended up completely forgetting me because of my new boyfriend. When me and my new guy started going out, i explained to him that I still had feelings for the first guy, which was a good thing I think. But if you aren't quite sure what one you like more, I would break up with your new boyfriend. I hate sayinig that, but it isn't fair to you or the relationship if both people in it dont love just the other person. I learned that the hard way, and stayed with the second guy and was unhappy for 2 months. However, maybe your situation is different, dont stay with the one that you can live with, wait for the one that you can't live without. Follow your heart and go for the one that you love more. I really hope that I helped! I.M. me if you need anything!!
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Ok so here is my problem i have a really low self eestem i sould nt cause i hear that i am pretty alought and tons of people like me [cheak our my advice column to see pic] but my self- eestem is still really low i hate the way i look and i am never happy i feel like i can't so anyhting right and everything i do i screw up. please help me.
Reality. (link)
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I am this exact same way. With me, i found that if you believe in yourself, things tend to really go right! If you wake up in the morning and say "This day is going to be awesome!" and keep assuring yourself that it will, it will be. Also, I was told to write "I'm beautiful" on my mirror. And everytime i look in the mirror *which is alot lol* i have to tell myself that. Also, I am completely sure that you do not screw up everything. Just look for the thing that makes you feel comfortable and that you find to do well and even if you dont do well, if its fun! Some people paint, or sing, or dance, just look for something that you can say to yourself "wow! i did it!" Try to be optimistic!! I reall hope I helped, you can I.M. me anytime you need to!!
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MY ex boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me because he said he wanted to be alone and needed to "grow up" some. I understand but he wants to be friends, he left me with this and said that he wasnt in any attempt to get my hopes up that he meant this " you are my first love and i want you to be my last" How would you interpret it? (link)
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I would take it as a major compliment! Although he may need to take his time to "grow-up" he is doing something very smart by wanting to continue your relationship, even if it is only as friends for a while. And by saying that "you are my first love and i want you to be my last" he probably means that as long as you two stay in touch, when his alone time is over, he will come back to you. This is a mature step in the relationship I think and I really hope that things work out. Hope I helped! Just keep smiling and if it is meant to be, it will happen!
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my name is EJ and i have a friend that i have know for almost a year now and i have liked since the first time i saw her and i was wondering if yall could give me some advice on how to ask her out so if she says no we can still be friends (link)
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Explain that to her. Say something along the lines of, you are a great friend, and over the last year i have started to like you more than that but i dont know if you feel the same way. *inswer line used to ask out (i dont know how you want to say it)* and then before she answeres say, but no matter what happens I don't want this to interfere with our friendship. Really hope I helped!!
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ok my step bro (hoo i reallllllllllllly like) os going to camp for two months and i will miss him so much what do i do to stop thinking about him (link)
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Well, do things to keep your mind off of him. Like normal stuff, hang out with friends, go to the movies, go to the mall, play sports, do whatever you like. But just because you will miss him, doesnt mean that you shouldn't think about him too! Ask him to write you a letter or something before he goes away and everything you miss him, read the letter and know that he wants you to be having fun, even though he isnt there. Really hope i helped!
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ok so heres the thing: im WAY too quiet, shy, and boring and its stopping me from meeting new people!! like whenever someone talks to me, they say something like hey and im like hi, then... *awkward silence* so then there like whats up an im like um,, nothing. *awkward silence*. like just today i met this really nice girl at the town pool ( not like i LIKED her as in crush, cause im a girl too) and she talked to me then there was awkward silence!! what can i do to have fun and comfortbale with people!! (link)
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I can be really shy too. Just try to find common interests, ask them what their favorite bands are and what their favorite sports are. You are bound to find something you have in common and once conversation starts flowing i think that it will continue. Try to be confindent and think of it like you are talking to your best friend. Really hope I helped!
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I'm babysitting 2 kids every Tuesday. One of them is 7 (Girl), and the other is 4(boy). Do you have any ideas on what we could do? Or any ideas on how to make dinnertime more fun? Like, what could I make?
THANKS (link)
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The best thing to do is ask them what they want to do. Also, since the girl is older, she will probably have some ideas of things that her little brother would like to do. Um, the little kids that i sit for like puppet shows, and playing store. For dinner, you can let them help cook. If you make macaroni or something, let the little one sit on the counter and watch and the older one help you find the ingrediants and pour them. hope i helped!
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My friend (when i say friend im really talking about my friend not myself) but anyway she had a bf then he dumped herr and other day he likes her again and the next he hates her...shes going out with a guy that she doesnt love as much as she loves her ex...and does anyone know how to help her?
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I think that you as her friend should step up and explain to her that she shouldn't be with the one that she can live with, but the one that she can't live without. It isn't fair to eather person in their relationship if both people dont feel the same way about each other. If she likes someone more than her new boyfriend, it will tear her apart and he will end up getting attatched to someone who doesn't feel the way he does about her. So, the best thing to do is to explain this to her. I really hope i helped!
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I'm 13 and my boyfriend wants to make out.. but, the bad thing is, i dont know how to make out! How can i learn?! I'm really scared and i want to make out with him to, but i dont want to look like a loser.. =(
HELP!!! i rate high! (link)
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Don't worry about it. If it's his idea and he goes for it, it will kind of seem like he is leading and its pretty easy to follow. I promise that it will just come.
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my friend likes this boy and i think and everyone else think hes gay for example he only had girls as friends and he cares tooooo much of how he looks but hes really cool and everyhting everyone loves him as a friend.but is it weird that my friend likes him? (link)
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Nope, i'm sure he's just a great guy. And if he has alot of girls as friends, he probably knows how to treat girls right. This happened at my school, and i happen to be friends with the guy. It's completly fine.
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I'm best friends with my friend's boyfriend. My friends name is Haley, and Her boyfriend/my best friend is Ryan. (Btw, im 13 female) Well Haley is out of town, and me, Ryan, and a few other people went Cosmic bowling the other night and me & and Ryan totally flirted. I've liked him for a while, but I felt terrible for doing this to Haley so I stopped, but he kept tryin to hold my hand and everything. I really like him, but Haley's practicly my best friend too, what should I do?
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I would tell Ryan first, be like Okay, as great of friends as we are, i am also really close to Haley and would never want to do this to her. Also, i would want to ask him what he was thinging, is there something wrong with him and Haley?, has he always had feelings for you as you have for him? I would tell Haley after you talk to it with Ryan. If she is a true friend, she will understand, explain to her that you kept him from doing anything because her friendship means alot to you. However, tell her that you don't want this to come between your friendship. I hope i helped!!
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ok, my girlfriend's dad died the other day (they were on vacation in Qubec with her, her dad, her mom, & 2 friends) & so she was very upset & so she broke up with me. I understood & said it was ok. & so I bought her a card (witch I'm gonna send once I get her address from her friend) & I'm afraid to call her & everything cos I don't want to talk about it & that'd be the only thing we'd talk about.
but what I'm asking is if I should wait for her to get over it all & maby go back with her, or if I should just move on?
more about our realationship, she lives about 45 mins. away & I haven't been able to see her much & I haven't been the best boyfriend since I'm going through some really hard times right now, but I try
I'm 14/M & shes 14/F
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If you really love her and think that the relationship can continue I would call and let her know that you care about her and want to be there for her. Make sure she konws that you are always here to talk and do whatyou can to brighten her day. Sometimes when things go wrong girls clam up and push everyone away. And she may be afraid to love you because someone else that she was close to she lost. But If you think that things can work and you really truly like her, i would wait. Let her get settled into her family situation and just stand by her. If things are meant to be, they will happen. Hope i helped!
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so the guy im going out with recently asked me if i was a virgin and i told him yes. Even though im not i really didnt want him thinking i sleep around with people because im only 16. i know im very young but yea. i dont know if i should tell him the truth or not
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I think you should tell him. It may hurt him more to konw that you lied about it than it does to know that you have done it before. But, if he truly loves you he will understand and not judge you by thinking that you "sleep around." Neve be afraid to tell someone the truth about yourself. Hope i helped!
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