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so..i still kinda like my ex and i kno he still likes me..but i have a bf now..nd i rele luv him alot..but im torn in half i guess between them..have any suggestions?
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oh well im rele glad yu kno yur bf luvs u! im rele glad u luv ur bf!
YEAH RIGHT. Okay, so learn to type. "Rele" is "really" and "bf" is "boyfriend", "im"" is "I'm", "luv" is "love", "kno" is "know" and "i" should be "I".
Second, just stop dating them all together. If you can't even choose like this, how are you ever going to choose a husband, a college, a car, names for children, whether you're going to do something or not!? It's impossible. Just stop dating until you have your brain unscrewed and straighted out.
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<i> Aincient Zoggen Proverb says : Thou shalt not wear the hair upon thy big toe longer than six inches. </i>
REPLY: I'm not spreading the hate, you are. Personally, I do not see myself as what you called me, but who am I to judge? I'm just making sure that all my fellow colleagues know how to spell correctly. That is a very importing lesson in life. You said "im not stupid" or something in the feedback, but your typing skills lead me to believe that you are lying to yourself. I am not stupid either, and I type correctly. Most intelligent people type correctly. The ones who are intelligent (but don't type correctly) don't type at all! (like my ASL teacher) So, you see, you lead me to believe you were stupid by the way you typed. You set yourself up for it.
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<i> I don't know what the word "sux" is. </i>
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If you really want to be with your ex, tell your bf that you want to take some time to think, without going out with anybody, so you can decide, and then do so.
If you really want to be with your bf, but your ex is till on your mind all of the time, see above.
If you really only are just not over your ex, and you don't want to be with your ex, break up with your bf, apologize for rebounding on him, and tell him whether you want to maybe get together again after you're over your ex.
"[You cannot] serve two masters, for either [you] will hate the one, and love the other; or else [you] will hold to one, and despise the other." While you aren't serving them, and they aren't your masters (unless you two are into D/s, and you're a sub), it still applies.
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A couple weeks ago, I was torn into pieces the exact same way you are.. I loved my new boyfriend but i still liked my ex. I wanted to be with both. So i dumped my new boyfriend and say who i hung out more with, and i started seeing my ex and stuff.... I would suggest you break up with your current boyfriend and see who talks to you first. Give it a day or something and see what happens...I think you let them be for a little and see what happens
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Well If you really LOVE your boyfriend there shouldnt be any question to which one you should pick..cause you know you love him. I would stay with your new boyfriend that you say you love. But if you arent sure if you love him maybe you should try to go back with your ex and see if you are still always thinking about the one you say you love. goodluck ♥
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I went through this a few months back. I decided to stick with my new boyfriend, but ended up regretting it. I learned that my ex liked me again, and he was the one i ended up liking more, but he ended up completely forgetting me because of my new boyfriend. When me and my new guy started going out, i explained to him that I still had feelings for the first guy, which was a good thing I think. But if you aren't quite sure what one you like more, I would break up with your new boyfriend. I hate sayinig that, but it isn't fair to you or the relationship if both people in it dont love just the other person. I learned that the hard way, and stayed with the second guy and was unhappy for 2 months. However, maybe your situation is different, dont stay with the one that you can live with, wait for the one that you can't live without. Follow your heart and go for the one that you love more. I really hope that I helped! I.M. me if you need anything!!
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you have to ask yourself... which one are you happier with? that is the one you should be with.
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