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Asking a friend out
my name is EJ and i have a friend that i have know for almost a year now and i have liked since the first time i saw her and i was wondering if yall could give me some advice on how to ask her out so if she says no we can still be friends
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Sit her down and tell her how you feel about her. Don't pour out all your feeling at one time though so she'll have her opinion when you ask her out. When you ask her, do it casual so it can sound like a good date that won't be too uncomfortable. If she says yes, then there is a good chance that when you break up, you won't still be friends. If she says no, then just say something simple and leave the subject alone so it won't hurt your friendship.
Hope I helped,
mystical_breeze
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Ask her if she wants to go see a movie with you, make sure its a movie you would both like, but not a romance or anything. You would be going out on a "friendly date" lol.
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Get her drunk, then take all your clothes off and tell her to do things to you.
And video tape it, so she can see what she did.
And since she probably hates you.
You can use this as blackmail.
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I really like you as a friend and don't want to mess that up, but, do you think we could try going out and see if it works? If either of us feel weird about we will just stop dating and stay friends. :)
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Well...all i can say is that you shouldn't beat around the bush and go for it. The worst that she can say is no...but you will never know if you don't at least ask. She will appreciate that you just came out and asked and telling her how you felt...but don't out to strong with it...and no matter what...you all should still be good friends whether you all go out or not because the friendship that you all have built over the past year should be strong enough that it will last. Just don't break her heart if you all do end up going out. One of my best friends did the same thing with me and we are going out now because we felt the same about each other...but we have known that about each other for a little while now...but he would have never known that i would have gone out with him if he had never taken the chance and asked me out. So...just give it a try and see what happens. Hope I helped and get back to me and let me know how everything goes if you can.
In Him,
Candace
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Hey EJ! I would just ask her when you talk to her if she likes someone right now and if she's even looking for a relationship. And if she tells you who she likes and it isn't you, just change the subject. But if she doesn't like someone, then she'll prolly say yes to you! Hope that helped! Let me know how it goes!
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Explain that to her. Say something along the lines of, you are a great friend, and over the last year i have started to like you more than that but i dont know if you feel the same way. *inswer line used to ask out (i dont know how you want to say it)* and then before she answeres say, but no matter what happens I don't want this to interfere with our friendship. Really hope I helped!!
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That is a tough situation because when you ask out your friend..its taking a chance on your friendship. You gotta ask yourself two questions. Do i wanna risk my friendship with her and if she likes me..will it be weird to date. Because when most friends date and they break up its too weird to be friends again because you guys have taken that relationship past the friendship level. Its easy going forwards with a relationship..than taking a step back. But if youre willing to do this. Call her up or talk to her in person and just tell her how you feel..and that if she doesnt feel the same way yall can still be friends. The best relationship are when youre friends first. So if you really liek her..GO FOR IT! Also if you wanna kno if she likes you..get a friend to ask her about you without making it obvious.
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well something on the lines of "i rly like you and evrything, but i dnt knw if you feel the same way and i know we have been mates for a long itme so i was wandering if you wana give a step further another try, but if you dnt want to, i dont want to ruin our friendship beacause you such a fab mate..."
hope i helped
xx kt xx+
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