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my name is EJ and i have a friend that i have know for almost a year now and i have liked since the first time i saw her and i was wondering if yall could give me some advice on how to ask her out so if she says no we can still be friends

Ask her if she wants to go see a movie with you, make sure its a movie you would both like, but not a romance or anything. You would be going out on a "friendly date" lol.

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KK well see my cousin is like older then i am and im 16 but i was wondering (i dunno wanna go search something incase my mom check history) or the links i go too. so i was wondering if you can tell me some symptoms about cocaine and stuff. shes alway wearing sun glasses and when there off her eyes are alway puffy... she`s really quiet and keeps to herself. she changing alot and its scaring me. why i got the cocaine idea was from her sister. she caught her doing something but wasnt sure. im really worry and i can say anyhting.. to no one. besides uses but its not like your gunna go and tell someone. please help me with this situation and how i can try to stop it from ruining her life.

Just search it, then on the browser at the top, click "Tools" then "Internet Options" then "Clear History". And yeah, puffy red eyes, are a symptom. To help stop, slip things like posters on how drugs screw up people, bank ruptcy reports, or tv guide pages with documentaries on cocaine circled into her purse or something when shes not looking. I dunno if I helped, but I hope I did.

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I'm sorta chubby, and i have been invited to a pool party. anybody have anty good ideas wear to get a suite for a c36 5'5" 160pd girl?

please i really don't want to look like a fool!

Wear a tankini, but wear that sorta "surfer" type shorts over top. You can find these tihngs just about anywhere.

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Ok so this summer I'm taking Tennis camp with some friends from our school and some other kids who dont go to our school. I met this guy named Grant. I mean we met in the most freaky way. We met when he accidentally hit me on the head with his racket while doing a serve. I never really noticed him till then, but when he hit me and looked back at me and smiled, i believe that it was love at first sight -- for me, at least. During practice, we'll tease eachother in a friendly way, racing eachother, and trying to hit eachother with tennis balls. Only two of my friends know about me liking him. So here are my questions...

1) Do you think he likes me?
2) Should I ask him out or ask him if he likes me?
3) when should i ask him?
4) should I ask him face 2 face or have my friends ask him?

I appreciate all the people who took the time to read this...i rate 5's for any answers that help me a little. =]

--crushed.

1) It seems like it.
2) Get to know him a bit more, and if you sitll like him, go for it.
3) Once you're sure you like him, and you still think he likes you.
4) It doesn't matter, but it would be best if you do it, face to face, on the phone, MSN, whatever, your friends just might say the wrong thing.

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Ok I have these 2 friends. I know them both really well. We are so close. Well today they played a trick on me. They made up a screenname and pretended they were this girl that I hate with a passion. They talked a bunch of shit. Well it got to the point that when the convo was over that I sent the convo to 2 of my other friends e-mail and told them to read it. Well i go to tell my friend about it and turns out it was her and my other friend..The thing that made me mad and pissed off at them is the fact that they said it was that girl and they know i hate her. They completly don't know what happened between me and her and shouldn't have done it. But my ? is .....What should I do about it? I mean it might of been funny to them but they don't know the whole story and it completly pissed me off...Should I tell them it made me mad and that I am still mad at them....But please tell me what I should do....
Signed ,,,,TrueHope10

Tell themm the whole story, and why it wasn't funny. Tell them your sorry (if you yelled at them), but you thought they'd know better. Tell them you'll know they're sorry if they never do it again.

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If I use MSN or Internet Explorer, it freezes whenever I go on a website with music. So I downloaded Netscape, but Netscape doesn't play music on websites. Does anyone know either how to stop my computer from freezing, or how to get netscape to play music on websites? Thanks.

I think it might not be the browser but your computer, or internet service provder. I listen to music all the time on IE. But, when all else fails try Mozilla Firefox. It's a really good browser.

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Ok, so Im sopussed to go on this vacation to this rented house on a beach with my moms side of the family and Im not really close to them like yeah I never talk to anyone of them but no matter how much I begged not to go my mom still said I had to; but then when my brother asked not to go she didnt care. So Im kinda already mad at my mom for that. Then my friend could go to help me not be so miserable but my mom wont help pay for her with the money that she was gonna use for my brother. Im inbetween going and not going because #1 there is a SLIGHT chance it could be fun, but #2 it could be really boring, #3 my mom would be miserable without one of us kids around with her, and #4 Id get a grand tan. So if you were me would you go?

Just go! The worst that could happen is that you could get a sunburn. Besides, since you're not real close with her side of the family, maybe it's time you got to know them better. Besides, your mom seems like she reallly wants you to go, so, "humor her". Lol, I hope I helped!

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Is there any way of convincing my mom to let me babysit? She says she wants me to wait awhile. She said she would consider it though. Anyway, I would be babysitting with my friend. So she may be more comfortable about that. So how can I convince her to let me? And any ideas about how I could spread my services (if she says yes)?

Take a few courses; like a CPR course, or a babysitting course. Tell her that you want to earn yourself some money on your on, and this would be a great way to do it. And get her to let you try it once or twice, tell her she could call up the parent(s)/guardian(s) of the kid you were taking care of to see how you did. And after you've babysat, buy her something with that money, for a special touch, lol. Hope I helped!

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Hi, I'm going to the Vans Warped Tour with some friends for the first time this summer. What are some good things to wear/bring? What should I expect? Can you buy CDs there?
Thanks!

I think you should wear a t-shirt with one of the bands on it, or other clothes like that, lol. I hope I helped!

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I just shaved my pubic area for the first time, and now it itches really bad when I walk!! What can I do about this?

But aloe, anti-itching cream, and moisturizing cream on it and wear more comfortable clothes if you can. I'm not sure if this would work, but aloe stops burning, anti-itching cream usually stop itching, and moisturizing cream soothes it.

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ok so i took some quiz and my results said..

Your a straight-laced girlie girl with just a hint of your butch side somtimes popping out!

what is straight-laced supposed to mean? and what does it mean "with just a hint of your butch side sometimes popping out!"??

I think it means you are very proper, and you wear girlier outfits, and wear and wear make up and, your more "un-girlish" side will pop out once in a while... But this doesn't really mean anything anyways, unless you really are like that, lol.

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okay this weekend I'm meeting my boyfriend's ENTIRE family at his sister's graduation party, and they're the REALLY formal type who like kiss you on the cheek and stuff. well you know how when girls kiss in the cheek? do you move your head to the left or the right? cause every time i do that i always kiss the wrong side and we always bump and its so embarrassing haha...

what other ways can i make a good impression?

use proper language, dress somewhat formal, sit up straight, and keep you hair out of your face

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Ok my teeth weren't that screwed but I got braces anyway for a cosmetic reason..anyway, I only get them on for 5 months..it's been 2 months and I don't notice any difference..is this normal or is it just a waste of time..please tell me when I should notice a difference!

i've had braces, all though it wasn't long, and i never really noticed a change personally, it wasn't until the other day (now that i have a retainer) when my friend said, "whoa- your teeth are freakishly straight now!" that i realized the difference form before.
my point is, you wont really notice a difference
until you are finished with them and you look at your teeth form before

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