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Ok so my parents left town for the weekend and im here with my college cousin. My mom told me not to go to this one guys house but hes having a huge party this weekend. I really want to go but ims cared to death that my mom will find out or something bad will happen and then im screwed for the rest of highschool. should i go or not go?
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I wouldn't go, but its your choice. Just because you didn't go to some random party doesn't mean you're going to be some social reject. And moms always find out..I don't know how, they just do.
♥ Brooke
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It's your decision but I personally wouldn't go. What if you asked you mother to not go in your room while you were at the mall and she ignored you and went anyways? Doesn't help much for building trust between you. Respect her wishes this time and maybe next time she'll let you go. Also, and trust me on this one, there is ALWAYS a bigger party coming up.
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Hey Its a Party! As long as your college cousin is ok with it i would soo go! And if he is not i would say i am going to stay at my friends house then go! Just make sure not to do anything you will regret like dring or smoke, Cuz thenyour mom will prolly find out and you are bumin! Live Your life to the fullest i always say! Hope i Helped! good Luck!
<3Sam
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don't go your mom probably has a good reason and you'll get points whenshe finds out you didn't go.
Karazi kenzee
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i think you shouldn't go against your moms rules.. i wouldn't go against mine!
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First of all beg your Mom like you never have before.. If you really needed to go to this party you would go.. I think i would go in this situation but my Mom isn't very harsh.. Most ppl are probley going to give u advice to stay home but if this is really important to you, you should go.. You have to think Do i want to go to this party or Stay trustworthy to my mom..
Hopefully this helped ;)
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well..i would say this..either call up your mom and ask her if you can go because you really want to go and she can trust you because you called her up and asked her when you could have just gone without telling her..or just don't go because there will be PLENTY of other parties to go to during the years when your in highschool..i mean its just ONE party right? i mean you probably want your mom to trust you so that she will let you go to other parties! so if i were you i would let this one go..hope i helped! <3Frankie!
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i don't think you should go to this party,b/c one you would get in BIG trouble!!! and two,your mom says not to go to this boy's house,so maybe she knows something you don't!!! you never know!!! and she may be testing you.i hate to say but moms know best!! they really do!!,plus theres a saying:what you do in the dark...comes to light!!! hope i helped you!!! :D bratzgyrl
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IF your parents find out and you are going to be screwed the rest of highschool then no... its better not to go to this one party instead of not getting to go to any party the rest of the year.
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I think you should pass this one up. You need to show mom she can leave for the weekend and you can be trusted to do as you were asked. It is only one party in hundreds you will be invited to in your life. If you go and get found out though you will lose moms trust, and may get banned from any other fun stuff for quite awhile.
Not to mention you will feel bad for having disobeyed mom. Stay home. :)
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well stick with your instinck...which is i wouldnt go or call your mom again and tell her that its lik really important that you go!!!hopeihelped~**
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i dont think you should go.. if you are already havin second thoughts about it then dont go it might end up in a dissaster and then you could get in trouble with your mom and you could loose your mothers trust.. i dont think you want that to happen? it is really hard to gain peoples trust once you lose it. hope this helps you out. and that you make a good choice.
*~Stephanie~*
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anonymous -
Don't go. Is this one party so important to risk going to any parties in the future? Why risk it?
There will be plenty of parties in the future that could be better than that one. Have your parents trust you, otherwise for this one party, you may be grounded for life.
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**UPDATE** OK i saw you left a comment..and you didnt inbox me back**
ok your worried about cops? yes this is a valid thing to be concerned about. as long as your not the girl who is piss drunk, pole dancing, and being totally dumb when the cops come..you should be ok. the cops wont arrest everyone there, just when you see the flashing lights, get out of there and get your cousin to pick you up (maybe bring him along so if needed you can get away quickly in his car)
im confused..is your aunt/uncle with u also? or is it only you and your college cousin alone?
ok ok i know the others say dont go, but im gonna pitch a different idea to you. Couldnt you go to the party, but tell your cousins uncle/aunt that your goin out to the movies?
if your aunt and uncle arent there..and its only you and your cousin..go to this party! maybe call your moms cell and tell her your going to go out to the movies or somewhere with your cousin, this way if she sends someone to check on you and you arent there, she wont freak out.
ok yeah, you might feel guily ..but (for me anyway) the little guilt is worth the memories..i mean its not like your a horrible kid...havin sex,,drinking, doing all these drugs..your just a normal kid wanting to go to a party
i've told my parents i would be somewhere when really i was another place, i've told little lies , and thats a part of it all. i mean i bet your parents did the same too. there are soem things in your life that are private to your parents..this includes:
-who you hookup with and what you do
-the crazy stuff you do (just not TOO extreme lol)
-your crushes
-and little white lies like this
im just giving you the other side of the story because everyone told you not to go. so think about it and if you decide to not go, no worries because yes there are lots more to come.
if you do decide to go, the guilt wont ruin your fun (we are all different though so it might be different from me to you)
I just find it hard for her to find out where you are if you can simply say you were with your cousin for a night on the town (dinner, movie..etc)
its your choice..if you really think this party isnt worth it because your so0o0o scared of your mom that it will drive you COMPLETELY nuts, dont go..but then again...keep in mind what i said also.
if it were me i would go, but this is just me.
-melissa-
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No. Do not go to the party if your mom said you couldn't. The party will be ONE night of pleasure and fun, but if your mom finds out, it will be a long time of misery and being grounded the rest of the time. Which would you rather do? I would go with not going to the party.
Much love, mystical_breeze
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if your mom specifically said not to go to his house, then it would be very easy for her to find out if you did. and she probably will have it in mind to check when she comes home. It's a test. Pass this one (by not going) and in the future she will trust you to make your own decisions.
Ton's of parties await you senior year, after highschool and don't forget at college-all of which she will not mind if you go to, because by then you will her complete trust to do the right thing.
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I personally say don't go. As much as you may want to, I know that I would feel guilty the entire time. And eventually, somethign would probably happen that would make your parents find out. There will be more parties that you may have a better chance of being allowed to go to. Do what you want, but if you go, be careful. Really hope I helped!
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