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Is there any way to improve your aim in base or softball so you actually hit the ball most times? (link)
OK well i have been playing softball for many years and the past year i have been saying to my self "eye on the ball" Say that you your self before you get in the box, when your there and when the pitcher is pitching. If you repeat this your bound to hit it, even if it is a pop up. Trust me! I hope you do well!


basically this guy moved here a couple years ago and ive liked him ever since then. he lives right across the street from me so we became brother and sister type friends. he's had a lot of girlfriends here so we never went out, but he has liked me before. so now he's in an 8 month relationship with another girl and im happy for them. now heres the hard for me part, they've gone to 3rd within 3 months...and now they're talking about having sex within a few weeks. he talks to me about this (he doesnt know that i like him still because i dont want to create drama), but if he actually goes through with it i dont think i could ever look at him the same. we're all 15 by the way. i don't know... i've been thinking about it so much and im really upset. please help (link)
Ohh I am sorry Hun. That sucks that you hafto watch him go threw this. What i would do is talk to him about it. I know it may be hard to but when he brings it up ask him if he really knows what he is doing. When you ask dont be all mother about it be like a caring friend. And just talk to him about it. If he is still completley satisfied with his dision then let him do it. Unless you think telling him you like him well reconsider his decision! Well good luck! hope i helped!


ok my mom is WICKED over protective. tonite i wanted to go to this little concert thats going on at 6:30 about 20 minutes away. I asked her if i could go with my older cousin and shes like "well you didnt even tell me what time or where.." and i told her where and shes like "NO WAY" and it seems like she's totally against the people that live there ( even though they arent bad) and plus I was meeting up with some of my friends there. How can i get her to let me go to SOMETHING?? oh yeah..I'm 14 (link)
That sucks that you cant go to the Concert. What i would do is somtime when her mood is good i would sit her down and tell her to give yourself and chance to prove that she can trust you. And if she says no prove her that she can trust you by simpiler things that dont meen as much. Sorry this may be a bit confussing but i hope i helped a little! Good luck!


hi i need help im not spposted 2 date untill im like 20 !! so shud i date behind my parents bac???? (link)
Hun Waiting till your twenty to date is an awfully long time! I would date behind there back. Just make sure they dont find out. And after a while maybe try to persuid them its not such a bad idea but ya i would do it. *Live life to your fullest* Just dont regret anything that you do! Hope i helped! Good Luck!


Ok well i'm 13 and during the school year I had a boyfriend but we never kissed or any thing! And scince (sp) summer started we havent talked to each other, but both of us still really really like each other! And me and my bff's goal this summer is to get our first kiss, so ho do me and this guy go out and kiss! Please help! (link)
Ok well the first thing is you need to talk to him. Maybe since you havent talked to him in awhile he likes someone else or already got his first kiss. And if that not true then maybe you should just call him up and ask him to go to the movies with you. And then when your there jus leen in and pretend you are going to whisper somthing but if he turns and is about to kiss you then there you go! Or go somewhere and just talk about it. Hope i Helped! Good Luck


im 17/f me and my boyfriend have been dating for 7 months and about a month ago he broke up with me cuz we fight too much. that lasted about 2 hours and we got back together. last night i broke up with him because i never see him....he chooses everything else over me. we both said it wouldnt be a permanent thing but now 12 hours later, i want him back. i told him this and he said its too soon and we should just wait it out but i cant live without him. im not suicidal so dont say anything about that but i love him so much and i dont want to just wait it out...WHAT DO I DO? HOW CAN I GET HIM BACK? (link)
Im sorry that he says its to soon to get back together with ya. And i know you really want to get back together with him but if he doesnt want to them just make him Regret not getting back together with ya. Make him want you. I am not really sure what you will hafto do but i hope i helped! Good Luck


Ok so my parents left town for the weekend and im here with my college cousin. My mom told me not to go to this one guys house but hes having a huge party this weekend. I really want to go but ims cared to death that my mom will find out or something bad will happen and then im screwed for the rest of highschool. should i go or not go? (link)
Hey Its a Party! As long as your college cousin is ok with it i would soo go! And if he is not i would say i am going to stay at my friends house then go! Just make sure not to do anything you will regret like dring or smoke, Cuz thenyour mom will prolly find out and you are bumin! Live Your life to the fullest i always say! Hope i Helped! good Luck!


what age do most teens have sex? and how do you know when,where, and how to do it? also how do you know that your partner would like to do it too?

-needs help in texas (link)
Ok Well What does it Matter how old the other people in the world are having sex! I meen you sound young ok dont just do it cuz you know other people your age are doing it. Do it when it feels right trust me you will know then. And it will just come to you to know how to do it! And you will not hvae any regretts! (Ohh and im not saying you wnat to do it its just somthing to think about!)Hope i helped! Good Luck


hey umm lol me and my best friend has been friends since 5th grade..and now were going into 8th..we live very close where we can walk to each others houses..well my parents are very stritct when it comes to drinking and stuff..well i usally went to her house atleast5 times a week..well when i stayed a night one night we drank and got drunk..well any ways...her dad found out and called and told my dad..and no i cant go over there at all! and were BEST friends..i mean i stayed a night with her once this summer..just bc it was my b-day..and i cant go over there at all..ive tried telling them EVERYTHING that i wount do it again..what can i do to make them realize i wont drink again????


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That is soo sad that you cant see your best firend anymore. I would Cry! Anyways I would tell my dad that it was a mistake and i know you already did that but i would go more into detail like Not hanging with my best friend is punishment enough! I donno How to help Maybe just see if next time she can spend the night at your house and tell him you will be mellow and just watch movies down stairs. Im sorry about what happend Good Luck!


August 5th will be my one year anniversary im so excited.. well i wanted to get him something and my mom gave me an idea but i wanted to know if people thhought it was corny or stupid.. well there is this store place near my house kinda called Build A Bear.. and i was going to make him a Monkey cause its his favorite animal and this i was going to get a San Antonio Spurs shirt or something and put it on it cause thats his favorite basketball team.. well i wanted to know does that sound childish and stupid.. or does it sound okay.. i just dont want to feel stupid givin it to him.. By the way he's 15 almost 16 and im 16 almost 17.. thanks in advance an if you think its stupid and childish give me some ideas on what to get him THANKS!! (link)
Hey! I think it is such a cute idea! I think he will love it. I personaly would get him Maybe somthing else with it. I meen what if he gets you somthing really expensive. Like Jewlrey or somthing, then i would feel alittle dumb that i got him a monkey.I cant really think of what else you could get him but i would stick with the build a bear idea and maybe somthing else I think its cute. Hope I helped. Good Luck!


i recently got kicked out of my house, illegally, by my dad. i had a job before i left, and i was friends with a guy there. i had a cell phone on my dad's plan- but he screwed me over too many times with the bill, and he always questioned me about who's numbers were who's. well, this guy offered to put me on his plan- because he's get the phone for free- and if anything- i'd be helping him out- with the bill and all- cuz weve been splitting in directly in half- no matter who goes over. ive had it for maybe 6 or 7 months. but since ive ben kicked out- i lost my job- and another guy at work has been paying my phone bills for me- (the last 3 months). my gramma- who i live with- has never liked the idea of me having a phone on someone else's plan. well, lastnight- we got into an argument about it- and we fought. like, physically. she told me i could keep the phone until monday- but that i had to give it back to him then. i feel horrible- but i just need to know- does she in fact have the right to do that?- i mean, she's not my legal guardian- and the phone was given to me- it's not like i begged for it.my phone is my only bit of freedom here- and i cant live without it. someone please share what you think. (link)
Ohh Im so sorry that you got kicked out of your own house! Anyways i dont think she has the right to take away your phone, i meen she is not the one paying for it and its not affecting her in anyway! And i get that its the last bit of your freedom, but if she argues till dawn breaks i would let her have it till you can pay off the bills then ask her if you can have it back. Or maybe work out a plan like that to get it back somehow after you got the money. Tell her its all you have got and you really want it! Well i hoped i Helped! Hope everything works out ok!




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