|
we cant be broken
hey umm lol me and my best friend has been friends since 5th grade..and now were going into 8th..we live very close where we can walk to each others houses..well my parents are very stritct when it comes to drinking and stuff..well i usally went to her house atleast5 times a week..well when i stayed a night one night we drank and got drunk..well any ways...her dad found out and called and told my dad..and no i cant go over there at all! and were BEST friends..i mean i stayed a night with her once this summer..just bc it was my b-day..and i cant go over there at all..ive tried telling them EVERYTHING that i wount do it again..what can i do to make them realize i wont drink again????
I RATE TOP
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Well Sweetie.. Your very young... and drinking is something that you really shouldnt be doing.. But I think that your parents had a right to not let you go there anymore. But for the answer to your question. You have to give them reasons to trust you again. They arent just going to let you one day start going there again. Both you and your friend have to give them reasons to trust you. and know that you wont do it again..
Hope This Helps... Good Luck..
*Jackie*
]
Your parents wont trust you not to drink again because you will. However they should be happy that you got drunk with your best friend in her house rather than with maybe some guys in their house... And another good thing (from your parents point of view) is that your friends dad told your dad so they know they can trust him and therefor they should let you see your best friend!!!!!
They have to let you make mistakes and then prove you wont do the same mistake again otherwise they will never know.
Good luck! This should work... ;-) x
]
That is soo sad that you cant see your best firend anymore. I would Cry! Anyways I would tell my dad that it was a mistake and i know you already did that but i would go more into detail like Not hanging with my best friend is punishment enough! I donno How to help Maybe just see if next time she can spend the night at your house and tell him you will be mellow and just watch movies down stairs. Im sorry about what happend Good Luck!
]
Ok what you need to do is find a way to earn back their trust...tell them "I'm really sorry i betrayed you, it's just that me and (your friend) got sucked into peer pressure and I realize that's no excuse and I understand i deserve to be punished but me and (your friend) are best friends..i miss her so much and this is just a lesson we both learned togethjer so whenever we're together we'll know to never repeat this mistake! What can I do to earn back your trust, because I hate that you guys don't trust me anymore!"....you don't have to say that word for word but you get the point...they cant stop you from seeing her forever im sure eventually they'll let up if this doesnt work! good luck hope i helped...x0x *caitie*
]
prove it to them. When people don't trust other people the best thing to do is to roove it to them. Sop they know for sure that you won't drink EVER again.
]
tell your dad you will only hang out when her parents will be around to supervise..even offer for your parents to check up on you randomly, call her house to talk to you at random times, ..(i know its extreme but if thats what it will take for them to trust you again, just go with it)and with time they shoould start to trust you a little more.
so make thAT suggestion to your dad...and when she comes over here let him know it will be when they are around. see how that works, if he still says no, inbox me
hope i helped
-melissa-
]
Im not going to candy coat it - you need to prove to them that you truely are sorry. Tht is the only way.
good luck! please rate!
xO'ali
]
Try telling your parents how sorry you are and that you've learning from your mistake. DOnt get angry with them try to stay calm as you talk, dont yell or shout. Tell them its hard to not be with your best friend and you guys didnt know what you guys were doing. Tell them that holding you away from your friend will make you even worst because you'll try to do anything to get away to see them. They can't blame everything on your friend because you were apart of it. Try to ask them what you can do to gain their trust back. Hope this helps!
-Manda
]
every time i did it- i got away with it.BAD idea to do it with parentals around.but even still- i was never in your position- because i knew if i had come home drunk- my dad more than likely would just yell at me- and that would be it. anywho- parents are parents. they dont forget about things too easily. i think at this point- if u try and convince them too much- they'll think that for some odd reason- you're desperate to go over there right away. and then they'll jump to conclusions and think its because you wanna get drunk again. im thinking all you can do is wait it out. let it go for a month or two and bring it up casually after the long wait. sorry- but i hope i helped.
]
More Questions: |