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i like him...and hes gonna have sex
basically this guy moved here a couple years ago and ive liked him ever since then. he lives right across the street from me so we became brother and sister type friends. he's had a lot of girlfriends here so we never went out, but he has liked me before. so now he's in an 8 month relationship with another girl and im happy for them. now heres the hard for me part, they've gone to 3rd within 3 months...and now they're talking about having sex within a few weeks. he talks to me about this (he doesnt know that i like him still because i dont want to create drama), but if he actually goes through with it i dont think i could ever look at him the same. we're all 15 by the way. i don't know... i've been thinking about it so much and im really upset. please help
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you need to tell him theres no time like the present ask him if he's sure that he wants to do this and tell him how you feel because otherwhise it's gonna haunt you for the rest of your life
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i think you shoudl tell him how you feel
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Try to convince him that their relationship is moving too fast and that he should maybe wait a while before going all the way with this girl, I mean, he's only 15. If you're brave enough, tell him how you feel and that if he goes through with it, you won't feel the same. I hope this helps.
♥ Brooke
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ok well...you should tell him that this WILL prolly change things between the two of you guys, and it will change his whole like so he should think about it---thenn you should tell him that you still like him but dont be like, "no dont have sex with her...i still like you" just be like you who when the moment is right..."i dont know what is happening but i think im starting to like you as more then a friend" just like casually say that then say, "im sorry i said that but i just had to tell you how i feel and im not expecting you to respond to it" then just carry on with your conversation
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thats all that i can think of but you should DEFITANLY tell him that it WILL change between the two of you and his life will be different....hope i helped...good luck<3*
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Ohh I am sorry Hun. That sucks that you hafto watch him go threw this. What i would do is talk to him about it. I know it may be hard to but when he brings it up ask him if he really knows what he is doing. When you ask dont be all mother about it be like a caring friend. And just talk to him about it. If he is still completley satisfied with his dision then let him do it. Unless you think telling him you like him well reconsider his decision! Well good luck! hope i helped!
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okay tell hin dont take the risk and he should maybe wait a few years..he culd get her pregnat! even if he uses a condom it could break! ou never know..tell him not to take the chance..its will ruin his high school years and it will be the biggest regret of his life! ---hope i helped you sweetie!
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