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heyy..i'm alex i'm 14 and i'm going to be a freshman at blaine high school this year! yay! umm..i play softball and i'm a gymnast and i play volleyball too if there's anything else you wanna know about me..then drop on in my inbox or IM me on aim!
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hey i have a question 4 u! i'm 14 n i'm a freshman in hs, there is dis cute guy in ma class and i have a crush on him. I THINKK he likes me too but i'm not sure, do u kno any signs dat i should look out 4 if he likes me? and if he doesnt like wat could i do 2 make him like me?

~lost n confused! (link)
I'd say look out for if he's always lookin at you and if he's staring at you and smiles at you a lot, and he flirts with you and touches you so-to-speak like put his arm around you and stuff, and laugh at you and just those type of things ya know? And then, if he doesn't like you, just give him hints that you like him without doing it verbally, just flirt with him ALOT. And like touch him like flirty like, not inappropriately lol, but just little things like that can make a guy like you, I think at least, that's what it takes for me! Lol, but I really hope I helped, and good luck hun! If you have anything more to add on this, then ask me k?!



Can anyone recommend a good mascara that doesn't clump easily? (link)
I use Full 'N' Thick by Mabelline .. and that works super good. I've tried a bunch of other mascaras but they all clump and they don't work that good. Full 'N' Thick is really good! Hope I helped!



can someone help me think of a good screen name for boys? i like something like spitfire or american idiot, but other people already have those. i have brown hair and brown eyes and i like soccer. i dont want a screen name thats too kidish or anything i just want one that cool that a teenager would like. (link)
mm .. well if you like american idiot .. then why don't you have a screen name like americanxidiot12 or whatever numbers you want or something like that or if you like spitfire .. then do like spitxfire273 or whatever numbers you want lol sorry i'm just randomly pressing numbers .. or for soccer do soccer and then your initials and then numbers or something like that .. hope i helped ya!


ok so im 13f and i have a friend who is almost 17m. he goes to a different school but he asked me to go to homecoming with him. He is my exboyfriend tho and allll of my friends hate him because he either dated them nd played them, or he is just a prick to them. so idk. i really wanna go...but i also dont kno ne1 at that school and i dont want to act all weird. what should i do?? should i go or just forget it?? i rate high..* (link)
if i were you and you really want to go .. then take the chance hun! you might not have that chance to go to homecoming with him again .. and if you don't want to only because your friends don't like him .. then your friends don't understand that you really want to go .. so do whatever you want to do .. if i were you i'd go because just in case you never have that chance again .. unless you don't like him and stuff .. and who cares if you don't know anyone i've gone to a dance with a guy that i only knew him and no one else and it was really fun .. because i went with him and it was just me and him .. so it was really fun! i think you will have fun if you went because i did and i didn't know anyone but him .. but if you don't like him and stuff then don't go .. but just remember .. you may never have this chance to go again! alright .. i hope i helped! if you need anything else just drop one in my inbox! good luck hun!



do you have to get your belly button pierced with a parent?.. or can you get it pierced and just have a sister or cousin older than 18 come ? (link)
It depends on the place you go to, usually you have to have a driver's permit (15), I just got mine done and I'm 14, but I needed my birth certificate and my student ID from school, and you need your legal guardian (your parents), unless you are over 18. Hope I helped!


My boyfriend always seems so sad and depressed.. What are some things I could do to cheer him up? Like little or big things, doesn't matter. (link)
My boyfriend was always like this too .. he even cut =( .. yeah it's really sad .. but i just tried to cheer him up by saying how much you love him and care about him. They like that .. and then tell him how much you love being with him. Just the littlest things can cheer him up. Tell him what songs remind you of him .. lol just little things cheer him up. One thing I told my boyfriend was that if he was sad, then I was sad. And usually your boyfriend wouldn't want you to bed sad, so then he wouldn't be sad =). If you need anything else about these things with your boyfriend, IM me on LiL FrAnKiE 017 on AIM. Alright I hope I helped! Good luck hun!
♥FranKie


how long does it take to 3 barral curl your hair or w/e?? when its like really long hair? (link)
Well with my hair, it took like a half hour..but probably with me because I have really thick hair..but it depends I think, maybe like a half hour to an hour? How long is your hair?


i think i like this guy.. but im not sure.. i want to get to know him better what can i do to do that? like what should i say? should i talk to him casually then be like you wanna hang out sometime? (link)
You could talk to him online or in person, whichever your prefer and then yeah just asked him if you guys would wanna hang out sometime, but ask him questions about himself or something to get to know him better..sooner or later you guys'll be hanging out! Good luck! If you need anything else..just ask!

♥aLex!


13F (4'10 and 85lbs) I really really want to get my belly button peirced, the thing is my mom said no I think I'm old enough but she doesn't. I'm getting to the freaking point where I'm going to peirce it myself because my mom is such a bi0tch about it. Is it safe to peirce it myself? How can I convice my stupid mom to let me get it peirced? How much does it hurt to get it peirced. And where can I get a belly button ring?
Thankks I'll rate 5's! (link)
I wouldn't say your too young or just the right age, it all just depends on what your parents say, and I guess your mom said no, I had to wait a couple years after I was 13 to get my belly button pierced..but trust me hun DON'T do it yourself, because you can kill yourself by doing that, once my friend did it and she ended up in the hospital because it got so infected the next day that it sunk into her stomach inside and it got ahold of her intestines or something and she had internal bleeding and almost died..so I suggest you wait til your a little bit older or else just give your mom a couple reasons why you want your belly button pierced and maybe she'll give in..good luck!! but PLEASE don't do it yourself you can really REALLY hurt yourself!


how do you get cute waves in your hair without gettin a perm...?? please help ill rate high! (link)
you can use a curling iron, or else you can scrunch your hair with moose or muse or however you spell it lol, or for really cute waves you can get a 3 barrell curling iron..they look so cute when your done! hope i helped!

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i have this friend who is always there for me..and everything..we're ireseperable..but she thinks she is my only friend..and when my other friends call and ask to do stuff she gets mad. her mother even thinks im her only friend. the problem is she is my very BEST friend. but i do have other friends and i do like to hang out with them. please give me your advice.
thanks, much love~ two-split friend (link)
i know exactly what you mean..that sometimes happens to me too..so what i do is i sit down and talk with her about it and say "i know your not happy about me not hanging out with you today and that i'm hanging out with so-and-so but so-and-so is my friend too, and we planned this out tonight, so i would like to just hang out with her tonight"..and usually she'll get a little mad but then realize it later that you really do have other friends and that she's not your only friend..i mean she may get a little mad at first but really, it works all the time..hope i helped!
if you need anything else, drop one in my inbox! good luck hun!

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i pretty much like my body..except my legs. is there any exercises for your calves? i hate mine :[ -- im a girl.. help please (link)
i know what you could do..alright this is kind of hard to explain..but i'll try..alright this is what you do:

stand on a platform or some sort of "beam" or raised flooring with your heels hanging off the edge and your toes on the raised part..then you just "hop" so-to-speak on your toes or in other words stand on your "tippy-toes" but don't jump and it kills your calves (hurts them lol) but it REALLY does them good and mine are in pretty good shape i think and those exercises are really good for your calves! if you don't get it..drop one in my inbox and i'll try to help you! if not..my screen name is lilfrankie017!

hope i helped!

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One of my best guy friend wants to go out with me. But I'm scared it my ruin our friendship after we might break up. Should I risk my friendship and go out with him or don't take the risk and save our friendship? (link)
I've been in the same position as you and i ended up going out with him a couple times..but it didn't really work out and we aren't that good of friends anymore =(..so if i were you i'd save going out with him for later or something and keep your friendship because you wouldn't want to loose a friendship over something like this..EVEN though you 2 still like eachother..(that is if you like him too lol) but i'd say don't take the risk..but in the end its all up to you..

hope i helped!

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can any one give me sites where i can order the perfume dolce & gabbana for cheap/

thx (link)
i'd say try e-bay? lol sorry i'm not really into that kind of stuff..but you could probably find it really cheap on e-bay!

hope i helped!

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does anyone know a good hair straightner?


thanks (link)
i have a really good straightener i think because my hair is SUPER thick..and its really frizzy and all that and this one works really good..its called jilbere de paris..lol some french name i know..but it works REALLY good but it gets majorly hot so that's probably why it works really good it says on the box it gets to 420 degrees..but i don't think it gets THAT hot..but it works really good!

hope i helped!!

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Ok, I want a treadmill, cause i luv running.
The thing is, i'm not rich and from the looks of most treadmills they're REALLY EXPENSIVE!
Does anyone know of a treadmill website or something that has cheap treadmills?
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try maybe ebay or walmart i know has some pretty cheap tredmills..or else an exercise store..i'm not sure if there really cheap or anything but you could try looking into them and see their price ranges..hope i helped


sometimes i get real frustrated with my b/f. and i start to hit and throw things i feel that if i dont get my anger under control that i will hurt him one day and it will jeopardize our relationship. how can i get my anger under control? (link)
this probably sounds lame..but usually it works..sit down in maybe like a chair or on your bed or something and close your eyes and think of something else and just keep your tension under controll by like squeezing a stuffed animal or something like that..instead of throwing it or if you thinkg that your going to throw it when your holding it just make fists with your hands or something just as long as you don't throw anything..and if it gets to you really bad..then i would confront your boyfriend about this or talk to him about why you get frustrated..or else just talk to a counselor..whatever makes you feel better =) hope i helped..if you need anything else just drop one in my inbox!


Ok so my parents left town for the weekend and im here with my college cousin. My mom told me not to go to this one guys house but hes having a huge party this weekend. I really want to go but ims cared to death that my mom will find out or something bad will happen and then im screwed for the rest of highschool. should i go or not go? (link)
well..i would say this..either call up your mom and ask her if you can go because you really want to go and she can trust you because you called her up and asked her when you could have just gone without telling her..or just don't go because there will be PLENTY of other parties to go to during the years when your in highschool..i mean its just ONE party right? i mean you probably want your mom to trust you so that she will let you go to other parties! so if i were you i would let this one go..hope i helped!


hey i have pretty straight hair. How do I make it wavy like you see in magazines????
thanks (link)
this is what i do even though i have wavy hair but i think it will work on you too..okay you get your hair wet or else you can do it dry too but you take moose or muse or i don't know how to spell it lol or else gel or special scrunching stuff and you go from the bottom of your hair up and you put some stuff in your hand and then scrunch your hair it works pretty good! and its really cute!! hope i helped!! much love


theres a song that goes like:

im like a bird, fly away, i dont know where my home is..

who sings this and what is the name of it? (link)
I'm like a bird by Nelly Furtado..much love




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