Question Posted Thursday September 29 2005, 7:37 pm
hey i have a question 4 u! i'm 14 n i'm a freshman in hs, there is dis cute guy in ma class and i have a crush on him. I THINKK he likes me too but i'm not sure, do u kno any signs dat i should look out 4 if he likes me? and if he doesnt like wat could i do 2 make him like me?
~lost n confused!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? bluejeanbaby answered Sunday October 2 2005, 12:40 am: well, there is the direct approach of trying to become closer to him and getting to know him and then eventually asking if he likes you, or you could go the sneaky route and get your friends to ask him or his friends. If you're not sure and you want to "make" him like you, you could just do a little active flirting, if you're that kind of person. If you're not into that kind of thing, just start kind of hanging around him, and show yourself. He may catch on.
If you need flirting tips though, you could always go with teh classics: flip your hair when you talk to him, tell jokes but don't laugh TOO loudly, and try to asssociate yourself to him through friends. Talk to him in a group, start bringing friends of yours to hang out with his posse. You have time to get in with his crowd, and integrate yourself, it's freshman year. And the start of it too. [ bluejeanbaby's advice column | Ask bluejeanbaby A Question ]
MELiixMARiiE answered Saturday October 1 2005, 1:57 am: Heres some signs:
- you catch him staring at you ( also whenever you go to move somewhere he watches you like the whole time )
- whenever you look over at him and catch him looking, he darts his head away
- he flirts with you whenever he talks to you
- he tries to show off infront of everyone whenever your standing right there
- he smiles at you alot
- he might compliment you on your outfit or hair or something
- whenevers he's talking to you he might touch your arm or touch you in some way ( the flirting thing again haha )
...just look out for some of those! Well, you really can't MAKE a person like you. You have to have him like you for who you are. I find that sad whenever girls completley change their whole personalities just for some guy that might not even like them. They could hate the stuff they hate, but if their crush loves it, they suddenly love it. Just be honest with him and be yourself and if he doesn't like you for who you are ; he doesn't deserve you. I hope I helped!
advicegodesses2 answered Thursday September 29 2005, 9:28 pm: Hey,
O.K. here's what signs you should look out for. If you ever glance at him and notice that he's staring at you that's a sign. It's also a sign if you turn around and look at him while he's looking at you and he turns away really fast that's a sign also. If you also if you see him smiling at you that's another sign and if he finds ways to talk 2 you like little things like " I like your outfit" or "I like your hairstyle".
doubleMrocks19 answered Thursday September 29 2005, 9:02 pm: i can relate to you like a guy to ang i think he likes me too but im not sure just keep coolyou know let him come to you or just say hey start a conversation it will help first become friends with him THEN let him come to you but still talk to him . good luck [ doubleMrocks19's advice column | Ask doubleMrocks19 A Question ]
smiLinLiar7x answered Thursday September 29 2005, 8:57 pm: I'd say look out for if he's always lookin at you and if he's staring at you and smiles at you a lot, and he flirts with you and touches you so-to-speak like put his arm around you and stuff, and laugh at you and just those type of things ya know? And then, if he doesn't like you, just give him hints that you like him without doing it verbally, just flirt with him ALOT. And like touch him like flirty like, not inappropriately lol, but just little things like that can make a guy like you, I think at least, that's what it takes for me! Lol, but I really hope I helped, and good luck hun! If you have anything more to add on this, then ask me k?!
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