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One of my best guy friend wants to go out with me. But I'm scared it my ruin our friendship after we might break up. Should I risk my friendship and go out with him or don't take the risk and save our friendship?
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Lifes all about taking risks. I know that first hand. If you dont take a chance and risk it all, you'll never know what could happen. & its no fun to sit there wondering what if.
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♥ HEY BABE. IF Y0U HAVE TO THiNK AB0UT G0ING OUT WITH HIM && YOUR UNSURE..I SAY YOU STAY FRIENDS. WHEN I WENT OUT WITH MY BEST GUY FRIEND WE PRETTY MUCH RUINED OUR FRIENDSHIP AFTER WE BROKE UP..JUST BECAUSE ITS SOO AWKARD && IT DOESNT FEEL THE SAME BEFORE. BUT AFTER A LONG LONG TIME..&& I MEAN A LOONG TIME WE SORTA GOT CLOSER AGAIN BUT NOT AS CLOSE AS BEFORE. =/ i WOULD JUST TELL HIM WHAT Y0U TOLD US..THAT Y0U D0NT WANT TO RISK YOUR FRIENDSHIP. BUT THE CHOICE IS UP TO YOUU! G00D LUCK! ♥
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how do you feel about him? Do you see him as more than a friend...? if you do than go for it... if not than don't... & trust me... it is possible to be friends with people that you have dated... look at elaine and Jerry in the show Seinfeld... lol
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I've been in the same position as you and i ended up going out with him a couple times..but it didn't really work out and we aren't that good of friends anymore =(..so if i were you i'd save going out with him for later or something and keep your friendship because you wouldn't want to loose a friendship over something like this..EVEN though you 2 still like eachother..(that is if you like him too lol) but i'd say don't take the risk..but in the end its all up to you..
hope i helped!
||<33lots of love
_alexx*
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I should probably say don't take the risk and save your friendship but if you really want to be with this guy and have strong feelings then take the risk.The reason I say that is because you may regret it and will stay in your conscious.Make the right choice for yourself.
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Your friendship, whether it is a yes or a no, is never going to be the same again. Because before you thought that he was a guy friend who you just were friends with. Now you know that he likes you, and it cannot be the same, however hard you try.
I'd go out with him if I were you (Not if I were myself, that would not be right... :P). The friendship stands more of a chance of being ruined by rejecting him (Hurting his feelings) than going out with him.
:)
-Steven
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there's no easy solution to this situation. when matters of the heart involve good friendships, things can inevitably get tricky. I for one, am a firm believer that sometimes best friends can make the best lovers but embarking on relationship with someone who knows you so well can sometimes lead to serious problems. what i suggest is that you think about it throughly and clearly for a long time before making a final decision. if he really is the best friend that you say he is, he shouldn't mind how long it takes for you to think this through. you first have to ask yourself whether or not you actually like him. if you do, think long and hard about whether or not you're willing to risk a great friendship. if you're really worried about ruining your friendship, talk with him about your concerns and try and find a way to ensure that a friendship will still continue even if you guys break up. all in all, just do what you think feels right and make you happy. good luck! =)
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Your boyfriend should be your best friend. :-) I think you should go out with him. You're good friends with him, you REALLY know him. You have a better chance of 'hitting it off' with him because of this. Talk to him and discuss your fears. If he understands your fears and helps you, and agrees to stay friends with you EVEN IF you break up, I'd say go for it! Go out with him. Most of the time when people are good friends like that, a break up is more mutual. It's more understood. I think you should go for it. :-)
-FunnyCide
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Life is never certain. Whichever way you act in this situation, things could go well or they could end in disaster. Do you want to go out with him? If yes just do it. You'll always wonder if you want to but don't let yourself try.
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hey, well my opinion is that it would hurt your relationship either way.. if you say no or if you break up. so i would do whatever you feel is right. hope i helped! drop by my inbox sometime and tell me what happened and how things went if ya wanna.
-bri x333
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Well, the good thing about going out w/ a guy that is your best friend is the fact that you already know a lot about him and know him really well, so there are no secrets. I've gone out w/ 3 guys and i've been able to keep a friendship w/ each of them. If the feeling isn't mutual, don't be afraid to let him down...easy! Good luck w/ that one.
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Ok the question is do you like him ?? If you do than give it a try. If you dont than I would just say no because you dont want to ruin your friendship and you think of him as a Friend nothing more. So if you like him than go for it and try it out. If you dont than dont risk your friendship and say no. hope i helped <3
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I would deffinetly risk your relationship. I was best friends with my boyfriend before I started dating him and it's a really awesome relationship because when your friends first you get to know them better and you know what the other person wants in a relationship. Just make sure that you like him and your willing to risk your friendship, but trust me it will be a great relationship ! and if you guys break up and arn't friends afterward, it could probably mean that he didn't really like you that much in the first place and no girl deserves a boyfriend who doesn't truley love her.
- Hope I helped.
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You want your boyfriend to be your best friend. I think you should give it a try. Talk to him and see if he feels the same. He just might. :)
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