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Backstabber
Okay , this girl moved from another part of the town to the part i live in around last year . I was quite popular in school. I became friends with her because i thought she was sweet and friendly. But since last month ( or maybe even before that ,who knows?) she started backstabbing me , but still acted nice and sweet and oh-so-innocent in front of me .I have been busy for some time because of some commitments i have , so i didn't realise this until last week . None of my old friends talk to me as much as before , and now even when i sms my best guy friend , he'll talk about her smsing him at the same time .And it seems as though all of them like her more than they like me , and my best guy friend ( former ? ) he'll say stuff like :" oh , me and her and ___ and ___ and ___ are real close man " Without even including ME ! And if he wants to go somewhere he'll say :"if she goes , i'll go . " It turns out she's been saying stuff behind my back , and now , SHE'S where i used to be , with MY friends , and MY popularity .Even my crush seems to sorta like her , and pay attention to her like how he used to do with me . WHAT SHOULD I DO ?
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if those friends you talk about are really your friends then they will believe you when you tell them everything (and you WILL tell them!)if they dont...talk to that little bitch and tell her exactly how you feel. if that doesnt work then give her a taste of her own medicine (:P) start spreading rumors about her (i know, i know it sounds harsh but this is high school ((?)) and only the strong survive!!)
GOOD LUCK!
~Candace
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step one: Take knife from kitchen drawer.
step two: deposite sharp end of knife between the shoulder blades of sed girl that is being a kaniving lying little bitch.
step three: deposite body in trench on the side of the road.
step four: replace her little act and get the glory.. WOO for something that only last for a few years.
step five: spend all your time with partys and guys and then fuck up your life.
step six: school ends, you have to drop out. But at least you've still go friends right?
step seven: friends all left you, and now you live with your parents, bored as hell and lonely as ever.
yay.
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omg this is so freaky because the same exact situiation happened to me. its very confusing and its a hard point but what happened for me is that i said something to her and she mellowed out it really sucks having to go through this its a horrible feelign inside. my advice to try to find a new group of friends to hang out with and let your others cool down a little bit and as for your guy friend i think you should have a one on one convo with him and talk it over like o i really feel like so and so is sorta taking my place and i dont feel wanted anymore i feel like i dont have friends....ect....what i did to get out of the situation was join the cheer team its a competitive one where you can make new friends and its awesome because you can just get away from school life so thats my advice if you dont like cheerleading then try a different sport that your so called friends are in o ya i just thought of somehting find out what that girls said about you and tell me because if she said something totally unbelieveable like you made out with a girl or whatever something like that just denyi it and go on and if its something like o you said that so and so is ugly or whatever tell that person that you supposivly said it about that you would never say that about thenm and if they knew you then they would know that you would never say that sorta of thing. i really hope it works out for you and my advice works wirte me back about this i really owuld like to know more x's and o's *Kelley*
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Write a book.
Then brutally murder this girl.
Then write a book about that.
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Man you are in a tough situation shes acting like a b**** sounds to me that shes like taking the life you had man that sucks break the friend ship and try to hang out with your other friends more who cares about the crush hes probly missing out on a great girl and tell her you know whats going on and if she spreds rumors just ignor them it will blow over soon give me feed back bout what happend
Good luck :-)
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get back there don't just sit around waiting for them to come back (even tho eventually she'll backstab them and they'll come back to you) but you have to act now if they don't include you include yourself or start something and don't include her do stuff with them without her being there and be eally extra outgoing hope i helped
much love
x3 mari
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She sounds like a real bitch.
you befriended her when she didn't have anyone and now shes backstabbing you? Tell her shes a bitch and to fuck off. And if your other friends are TRUE friends they will realize that she was the bitch and come back to you. If they don't I'm sure you will make new friends when school comes around, just give it time =D
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Kill her. Oh, wait, no... that's not right.
Seriously, though, don't get angry and do something you'll regret. If you lose your temper and go off on her, you'll only be doing her a favor. You're what?... middle school, I'm guessing. It's about that age when things like this happen, because most people your age fall victim to the popularity manipulaters rather easily.
Alright, so some real advice. And this is important. Talk to your parents about this - they have more experience in life, and they have more power to do things at a higher level than you can, if they feel it's necessary (like talking to this new girl's parents and asking questions... and knowing what questions to ask).
You need to get ahold of your (potentially former) best friend and get them to step aside with you and talk to him. Tell him what you see going on, how you feel about it, and what you do and don't want to happen.
I figure that either she's spoiled, or doesn't get enough attention at home. Usually people like this are like this because they're hurting inside, so don't hate her, pity her - she'll never be satisfied
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Well I can tell you she really is a backstabber. But you cant just let her step all over you. If she wants to play dirrty then yoou can to. Do whatever it takes to get back at her! Start talking to your friends more tryingf toconvince them your there real friend. I hoep i helped! and good luck
bIaNcA
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Ergh. I had the same problem, in a way. I think what you should do is try to get your friends to believe that she's lying. I mean, if they ever were your friends, they'd at least hear you out. If that doesn't work, then I hate to say this but you have to find new friends.
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you need to get back in with your friends now that it's summer.. have an all girls sleepover but don't invite her. as for your crush invite him to hang out.. just keep her off the scene
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