Ok,i have this "friend"...Sarah. I dont like Sarah...and i dont want her to be friends with my friends...cause if she is i know she is going to soak up all the attension,they'll like her,she'll turn them against me, and leave me out of everything. I hate her..shes so mean to me. How can i stop thinking about her,not care about her,and just make it so im not her friend..but not her enemy? Please dont be mean in you answers...i want to let go of her..but not be an enemy. Please help i'll rate high.
rkgurl13 answered Friday June 24 2005, 10:24 pm: just set her down and tell her how you feel and that should work if not then try e-mailing her an e-mail and then tell her how you feel
hope i helped!
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SQuiRToFLeMoN answered Thursday June 23 2005, 6:56 pm: Don't pretend to be her friend because she will be able to tell you are fake and give her a reason to turn her against you. You also can't be mean to her because not only will she turn your friends against you but also your friends will see how mean you can be. Be neutral. Don't go out of your way to be nice or mean to her.
StarfireandSakura answered Thursday June 23 2005, 10:17 am: Holy crud. I had the EXACT same problem. No matter what you do, she's going to be an enemy, unfortunately. I tried being friends with the girl, and it was okay, except that she ended up yelling at me every five seconds. I suppose you could just stop hanging out with her and tell your friends to do the same then make sure they do. Hopefully this will cause Sarah to not be a friend, but not an enemy. [ StarfireandSakura's advice column | Ask StarfireandSakura A Question ]
TrueHope10 answered Thursday June 23 2005, 12:08 am: I have the same problem rite now in my life.....lol.....Don't pay your friend any attention...She only shows out and tries to be friends with your friends cause she thinks she can ruin your life.......Do what me and my friends do ....Don't pay any attention to her....go out with your friends and have great times without her..........That way she knows she is not ruining your fun with friends and can quit focusing on you.....
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bratzgyrl answered Wednesday June 22 2005, 4:39 pm: if you don't want to be friends with this girl..ignore her!! then maybe talk to her. but don't be rude.b/c you'll be sinking to her level.if this girl is rude to you,then she's not a very good friend. talk to your REAL friends about it.maybe they can help you with her.i really hope this helps.:D bratzgyrl [ bratzgyrl's advice column | Ask bratzgyrl A Question ]
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