i am in love with my best friend. all my friends tell me that they think he likes me. one of my friends asked him if he liked me and he said "no, not in that way" but when my friend told him that he should just ask me out he said that he didn't want to. i am kinda confused because i love this kid and i don't think he knows if he likes me or not, although he did say he didn't want a girlfriend right now. i think that maybe he is afraid that sumthing will happen and we will break up and then never be friends again. i dont know what to do because my feelings for him are so strong. i just dont know what to do.please help me.i am sooo desperate for advice and anyone who responds to this i will be so grateful and i will try to keep in touch if you want me to.
~*~in need of help!!!!!!!!~*~
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? stalkingroxy911 answered Thursday June 23 2005, 5:56 pm: when i went out with my best friends he was sad for a week at most and then we became even better friends. why dont you get one of your other really close friends that is a guy to like talk to him about you and see what he says, like have him say so what do you think about ... i dont know your name sorry, or him say something like you can .... would look good together. stuff like that
MarissaD90 answered Thursday June 23 2005, 3:07 am: ok i have this guy friend that i am the same with. i mean he is my best friend!!! and i dunno whats going on. do i like him does he like me. maybe we should talk to the guy on the comp and ask them whats going on! easier said then dun right. i have no idea. whatever u do tell me cause ill wanna try it . [ MarissaD90's advice column | Ask MarissaD90 A Question ]
denajah5 answered Wednesday June 22 2005, 7:49 pm: these situations happen alot.i think you should tell him that you like him. right now all he knows is that people think yall are a good couple.if he knew how you feel it might change his idea of everything.if i were him i would be like"yea i like her but she would never like me so why should i try".tell him and you both could be together.
you can email me at Denajah5@comcast.net so i can get some better details as to whats going on.
bratzgyrl answered Wednesday June 22 2005, 5:20 pm: well i totally understand.i went through the same thing.i had a crush on my best friend,but he didn't like me that way.he moved to georgia and i really miss him!!here's what you can do.talk to your friend!!go on a ACTUAL date or double date.then tell him that even if you become his gf and you guys break up...you will still be friends.tell him you like him.hope this helps.e-mail me or i'm me if you want.:D bratzgyrl [ bratzgyrl's advice column | Ask bratzgyrl A Question ]
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