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I'm in Love With My Best Friend....


Question Posted Thursday June 23 2005, 12:34 am

(13/f)Okay well I'm in love with my best friend thats a guy. I've liked him since the first time I met him. But he has a girlfriend and I HATE HER! He knows it and so does she, were trying to be nice to each other now but its kinda hard. I really want him to dump her, but I mean I can't tell him that and honestly Jesse and I are a lot closer than him and Kelsey. They've been going out for a long time now too and I really don't think there going to break up anytime soon. But I can't tell him I like him because of what happened last time when I told him....he said lets just be friends. I really want to tell him and then he dumps her and we go out but I know it won't happen I'm more like his #3 on his top 10 List. Even Jesse's family knows me more than they know Kelsey. Should I tell Jesse how I feel? And also does anyone know how I might be able to break them up without Jesse hating me? Like nothing to be like lyingish but I really need him to dump her.

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confusedbabii answered Thursday June 23 2005, 10:38 am:
you should tell Jesse how you feel...go for it, the worst thing he can say is 'let's just be friends'. now, about the part where you want them to break up...it's not a good idea because it might get you into alot of deep crap, but if you know of any of his friends that don't like Kelsey, talk to him and ask him to tell Jesse that Kelsey said bad stuff about him and to tell Kelsey that Jesse said bad stuff about her. hope i helped & good luck with your guy!

XOXO~*~*Nicole Lynn*~*~XOXO

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x0_a3r0_BaBe_0x answered Thursday June 23 2005, 9:06 am:
get jesse to like you.. talk to him and say something like : since were such good friends imgine how good we'd be as boyfriend girlfriend " tell hym how much he means to you. .

as far as the breaking up thing.. you got to let them do it on their own.. i mean if you break them up then he's going to get pissed and probably hate you.

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StarfireandSakura answered Thursday June 23 2005, 9:05 am:
Well, even though you want to be with him, I think you should let them be. Probably eventually they'll break up, and maybe then you can be with him.

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