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ok i am in love with a guy that is black... i honestly dont care about what color his skin is but my parents DO! they dont want me to go out wit a black guy... they can be really messed up like that and i have tryed talking to them about and they always said NO! and i always get mad about it... me and this guy are going out but my mom only knows we are friend but i still cant stand the fact she can be so racest..i love this guy i am wit he respects me and never would make me do soemthing i dont want to do..like yesterday we were at the mall and she say a black guy wit a whtie girl and she was like "omg look stephanie look how pretty that girl is with that black.. i can believe people can do that" i got really mad i thought to myself what if she say me like that... i need some advice on what to do i am 14/f and my bf is a 15/m.. someone please help me!!
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well my mom always raised me to have balack friends!!but never a black boyfriend..but honestley i have never looked a at a black person like that..but if you like colored people thats fine..thats you!!but you do have to respect your parents..my brother had a colored girlfriend and my mom kiked him out of my house..and he was also 19 so he left.. and stayed with the girl..now you cant do that..but i still love my brothers now x girlfriend..when i go see my brother i always see his x..there bestf friends now..and they stiull kiss and stuff..but my brother is 23 now..so my mom cant stop him..and my mom loves my brothers x girlfriend..wel i understand what you mean that your parents are racist..because mmine are to..theyll go crazy if we even say usher or p.diddys hot..you no..but there are somethings that parents are right and wrong about..and its not right being racist..but god did make a white person and a black person..he didnt make them to mix..so you need to talk to your parents and this boy of yours..so maybe your parents will you no get over it..e-mail me and tel me if i gave you enough advice..and tell me what happens!!e-mail me at bridgettelovesyou5000@yahoo.com
hope i helped...sorry if i didnt./
*love always*
bridgette..ilovepink101
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Explain to your parents that he respects you and he treats you well. That is much more important than skin color.
Put it to them this way: would they rather you have a good man who happens to be black, or date a white bastard?
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elope. its legal.. right?
"Skin colors are just as trivial as flossing your teeth."
-Brynne
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People are racist, and that is that. You can't change the world. I see no problem with it, but others do. Ask you parents why they don't want you with him, and then try to explain to them how he makes you feel. Maybe then they will understand. But, if you and your boyfriend are really happy, no one should stop you two from being happy. Just ignore other people.
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I am with an african american male. I am a white female. im 15 and he is 17. my parents objected at first, but now, over a year and 5 months later they are much more okat with it. MY friends dont care. He doesnt go to my school. we do get wierd looks and comments but we dont care, it makes us stronger. We are going to get married, and have no problem with out outward differences. My boyfriend, too, respects me, and would never force me to do anything.
if you ever need to talk, ask! or if you have any more questions, or whatever, ask!
Hope that helps!
-Kels-
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you may not like this but u can just not tell your parents or you can tell your parents that he respects you and you love him and they cant change that and be like u can ground me as long as you want but ill always love him well thats what i would say hope it helps ♥
x0_court
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I would sit down with your parents and tell them what you just told us, that no matter what skin color you are, you are still a human being and skin color doesn't make a difference in any of their qualities. Tell them that this guy means a lot to you and that he's unbelievably nice to you and really cares about you. Tell that they should be more conserned with if he treats you with respectr or not, not the color of their skin, because hate to break it to them (actually love to) but white guys can be complete jerks and treat you with no respect. Stay big on the respect thing. And if it still doesn't work out, then I would date him anyway (this might be just the rebel comming out in me, but), you're parents shouldn't controll all of your choices, especialy ones that they are biast about. I personally am EXTREAMLY AGAINST racism, so I understand where you're comming from. So that's my advice, hope I helped. And I hope everything works out, because racism is a serious thing. And I hope they understand and allow you to date this guy. Best of luck!!! :)
~IceAngel13
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Well to tell you the truth there is nothing you can do to change your parents' mind. To this day there is still racism and we cant do anything about it. If you want you could still continue to see this guy and lie to your parents. Your mother just doesnt see anything in him like you do.. maybe if she acaully met him she would see that he isnt a bad person and that he is a sweet guy. Who knows maybe she would'nt even want that. Im sorry if I couldnt help more its just that no one can chage her mind. Sometimes her opinion might not even matter because she is wrong this time. Just do whatever your heart tells you to do and if you truely love him like you say you do, stay with him. [[ ♥ ♥ ]]
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