omg i like him a lot! i just wanna ask him out! okay well lets start from the beginning-this kid moved to town and i hung out with him cuz he lived across the st from my best friend..and we talked and laughed and joked and flirted and i told him i liked him but he said he was confused cuz he liked a girl from where he used to live but then he told me he would possibly go out with me in the future? do i believe that or is that something hes saying so he doesnt have to put me down and be mean and i jsut wanna ask him out but i dont want him to just be like no! what do i say to him to let him know that i like him a lot and i care for him and i wanna be his girlfriend!!
poetqueen answered Wednesday July 13 2005, 6:33 pm: ok so my advice is wait until the schoolyear begins to do anything he probably doesnt feel comfortable there yet and once he realizes how much he likes hanging with you when you get back thats when i would ask he may be honest and not know what hes going to do guys are like that he might want to explore his options at a new school who knows sometimes guys really dont want to hurt people and are just trying to be nice but then you feel like a charity case trust me ive been there done that and cringe when i think about it just wait a while longer and see what happens he may need to know you better before he gets attached he needs to realize this other girl isnt there now and to get over it. hope i helped and i know this is confusing but just hang in there! [ poetqueen's advice column | Ask poetqueen A Question ]
ilovepink101 answered Wednesday July 13 2005, 10:47 am: well i think you shouild go for it!!
you shouild ask him out if you want to..who cares if he says no..all it is is "no"..its just a word..but you no that word is oretty harsh..it couild hurt many..well if you think he likes you then i dont see why you wouildnt do it..i wouild totally do it..well obviously he lives by you..and he may for get about the other girl if you to go out..or you can wait some more time and let him for get about that other girl by him self..but if you dont ask this boy out then your giving up someething proably really good to you..and i no its suppost to be boy ask girl out..but obviously hes not getting the clue that you want him and you want him "bad"
wel do what you feel is right..
and tell me what you did..e-mail me anytime at bridgettelovesyou500@yahoo.com.
hope you get what you want!!the boy!!
hope i helped..
*love always*
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karenR answered Wednesday July 13 2005, 2:05 am: You have to wait until he is no longer dating the girl from where he used to live. Long distance romance usually doesn't last, especially if there is someone close by. I think you will have a chance with him you'll just have to give it some time. Ask about his girlfriend. Be friendly about it and everything. That way you have a heads up on how things are going. When it ends then you can ask him out. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
dancinqueen08 answered Wednesday July 13 2005, 12:00 am: Well, if you told him you liked him and flirt with him, then he probably already knows you like him a lot. Give him time to figure everything out, especially if he told you he was confused. When he's ready to let go of the girl from where he used to live, then you can figure out if you want to ask him out. Right now he doesn't seem ready, so just wait a while. Hope I helped. [ dancinqueen08's advice column | Ask dancinqueen08 A Question ]
nuns_have_problems_too answered Tuesday July 12 2005, 11:54 pm: Allow me to consult the Magic 8 Ball....
AskAndy answered Tuesday July 12 2005, 10:31 pm: It's not about saying you like him, its more of acting like you like him. Either you can be innocent-basically avoiding boys, and whenever you do talk to them, flirt in an innocent way, as if you really don't want him, cuz guy love what they can't have. Next you can just go for it- talk to him often, and flirt like you really want him. Then you can play damsel in distress, and drop your books in front of him, trip over his feet, then start a converstion. Finally, the best way to get a guy is to be yourself, yet you have to ignition you like him, by flirting on ocasion. Flirt heavily. The second you leave the room you have to drag his heart behind you if you really want to leave dramatic affect. Trust me, this should work, unless you have pretend in the past to disliking him. [ AskAndy's advice column | Ask AskAndy A Question ]
FiNeLiLMaMa92 answered Tuesday July 12 2005, 8:33 pm: okay..well you could say i want to ask you something..but idk what your gonna say so usually they get a pretty good idea of what you mean and theyll say if its to go out with you then (yes) or (no) whatever theyre answer is..and if that doesnt work then just ask him but make sure its not around a bunch of people..make sure its just you and him one on one or else they might be a real jerk...
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