*well my ex boyfriend is coming over tomarrow and i made him a scrapbook of all our memories cause i want him to know how much i still care about him! he has told me 3 times since we've been broken up he loves me and hes said he misses me all the time! but theres also another girl that he likes and im trying to pretty much win him over..but anyways..i was just wondering if you had any ideas on how i could do like a scavenger hunt kinda thing to lead him to it cause i want this to be special!!! please help asap! thanks!*
SaraLee answered Tuesday July 12 2005, 3:04 am: Okay, well I think he is just trying to feel powerful if you ask me (i know your not asking me that but still) If he says all that then he obviously does not love you, he is trying to keep you trapped..it has happend to me in my past relationships! Trust me. But..If you want to be pricey I would go for rose pedals...just buy about a dozen roses and take hte pedals off...thats always a cute trail..or do a candy he likes...like make a trail of snickers or reccess cups...OR A VERY VERY good one...(That I would do for my boyfriend)..IF you are sexually active than make a trail of your underwear (sexy kind) and bras...That would turn him on and make him walk to it faster...lol. But if you are not sexual active then do one of my other choices...I hope I helped as much as possible. Tell me what you think!
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imsexyx0x0x answered Tuesday July 12 2005, 3:03 am: gosh lol well hmm a scavenger hunt.. haha i ALWAYS THOUGHT IT WAS ADORABLE! when people put out rose pedals to lead people to things.. but if you dont want to.. you can give him clues.. like... ... where we had our first kiss.. or something.. (and if it was on your bed he could go there) tahn you give him another one.. that says.. the gift you first gave me.. (than place a clue there) you know than lead um all up to.. the last clue that says.. right infront of you is how much love i still have! than have the book there.. haha im sorry that this idea sucks.. but it would be really cute! [ imsexyx0x0x's advice column | Ask imsexyx0x0x A Question ]
Mackenzie answered Tuesday July 12 2005, 12:49 am: AWWWWWWW!!!! Well that's sooo sooo sooo sweet of you to make him a scrap book!! How lovely!! I'm shore he'll adore it!! That's a wonderful gift; very nice idea!!! :)
And not to insult you, but you can not like TWO people. Period. Plain and simple. Just like that.
If he DOES.. then he doesn't like EITHER of you ENOUGH!!! You shouldn't have to "win him over".. he should be so head over heels that he's begging at your door!! If he really "loves" you like he says he does, he wouldn't like this other ho, because no one else in the world would be able to even COME CLOSE to comparing to you, and living up to what the two of you have together!!
Just think about that??
And sorrie to disappoint you, but I don't even know what a scavenger hunt is. I've never been able to understand the concept of it. I looked online for details about WHAT it is to think of some ideas, but even with the explanation infront of me.. I didn't even understand WHAT it was, ya know???
HyperactiveMiss answered Monday July 11 2005, 10:34 pm: Hey there! I hope you do win him over! And if not, don't be sad about it. Dating is all about gaining new experiences, bonding with someone, and finding out what you need and want. If things don't work out you move on and live life. You sound like a very sweet girl, so don't let a guy walk over you.
You can call him, tell him to go to the park (or something, that was just an example) and look for a tree (or something lol) for a note. You could put special items in special places and along with them a note saying where to go next. You could also pick spots where you first met, first kiss, etc. Just remember if they're in different places he may have to walk a lot lol.
You can use candy (like Hersey's Kisses) and tell him to follow those.
You can pluck out flower petals and scatter them (although they might blow away! lol).
sweetestthang574 answered Monday July 11 2005, 9:35 pm: I have a scavenger hunt that you could try if you wantt! You hide a white paper in seperate rooms of your house.. Heres an example.. Lets say im your ex
*Walks into the livingroom, finds the white paper, reads it.. it says 'Go to the bathroom and find the white paper' So he goes into the bathroom.. Finds the white paper, and reads it, it says 'Go to the Kitchen and find the white paper'
Then eventually after 6-8 rooms he finds a white paper and it says 'go to the blah blah and look for the prize' and you could make the prize have ribbons and stuff on it (the prize would be the scrapbook!!)
Thats pretty much all I got.. Sorry if its not enough! But other than that, just be really fun and not boringg! Guys dont like sad, emo, wierdos.. lol but yea, i'm sure you'll do finee! He'll probably be goin out with you like next week!
orphans answered Monday July 11 2005, 6:31 pm: romantic stuff? prolly like in one movie i saw which was amazing he had candles everywhere and he had a trail of roses and it would stop at a table and it said go 2 ... where ever and then it would trail until it got 2 where you were with the scrap book something like that ya know? sorry i ain't good with the romantic stuff =/ `♥// [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
horsesare666es answered Monday July 11 2005, 6:13 pm: Well. Okay.. Odd way to win him over but how about leaving him little notes places he's bound to be or look saying "go to the living room" or something a tad more romantic sounding. Or you could just leave it in a real obvious place, like your room, n like have him in there, but you be like "hold on" n go use the bathroom or something so he might wander in and see it on the bed n pick it up and start looking through it???
LOL i'm not real great with romantic special stuff, my BF n i are laid back but hope i helped!
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chaos answered Monday July 11 2005, 5:02 pm: Maybe take one memory from the scrap book and use it as a clue to lead to the next hint/location. I don't know if you are just doing it in your house or what. You could use locations where you have dated and a memory from that on a little decorated note card stuffed somewhere nearby.
I would try to keep it to 3-5 locations.
IceAngel13 answered Monday July 11 2005, 2:59 pm: This is a really stupid idea, but my brain is currently dead, so this is the best I have. You could have a note thingy taped onto the front door (with his name on it) containing a map to it, if you want. Umm, is that what you wanted? [ IceAngel13's advice column | Ask IceAngel13 A Question ]
askmex3 answered Monday July 11 2005, 2:30 pm: hey! hmm im not really sure how you could lead him to it but if you want you can just make a special little place where the book is sitting! this way it will be romantic and quiet! you could set up the area pretty and maybe look through the book then watch a movie afterwards =) just have fun and be yourself..and if he said he loves you even after youve broken up, im pretty sure you guys will be getting back together in the future! good luck ♥ thanks for asking me [ askmex3's advice column | Ask askmex3 A Question ]
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