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Boyfriend (I RATE HIGH ) PLEASE HELP ME
Alright i have been dating this guy since July 3rd its the 26th today. first off i havnt seen him in 2 weeks and 1 days !!well i got grounded and i wasnt able to leave the house but yet my parents agreeed to allow him to come over. and every time i invtied him over its like no i cant i gotta go home and so and so answer everything and when i got ungrounded and he got grounded his mom said he could still come over and use the phone he hasnt called me once When i call him and he promise to call me back he doesnt. i really do love him i mean when i actully do get to see him we have so much fun together he holds me in his arms if im sad comforts me if i get hurt that kinda stuff and i dont no what to I RATE HIGH
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Wow that is TOUGH situation. i mean everybody's not perfect right?
so you have to look on con and pro sides.
--CON SIDE--
1. he never calls you
2. Making excuses
--PRO SIDE--
1. comfort
2. fun you are having when you are together
but think abou it, if guy really cares about you, he would call you. and i know some guys are not good in all calling and stuff, so you have to ask him about it. if his not willing to talk about it, maybe there is a "seceret" that his not wanting to let you know. tell him calmly, that you enjoy his company and all the little affection but calling is part of the relationship and returning call! (but seriously, some guys are dead on the phone =)
but remember this, if you ever think its something else on his mind, then you are probably right. so trust your HEART! listen to your HEART!
because some guys can be real good actor. if you know what i mean.
so trust your instinct and your heart and talk it over one day. and if he say he cant come over, say its real important. and if his still not willing to come over then you have to let him in the truth, say its about our (yours and his ) relationship.
that might wake him up a little
hope everything works out for you and i hope i helepd you
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well it might be that he has a lot going on right now so dont stress also if yall are like that when you hang out then i would guess he still likes you yall seem so close well i guess you could call him and before he says anything else just say well i have to know do you still like me b/c we'v kinda been spaced hope this helped love talktome224
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I think you should just be patient. is sounds like you're really happy with him, and from personal experiance, i know guys don't like the chicks that flipp out when they don't call back. if it really really bothers you, tehn you can try talking to him but i'm not sure what good that might do.
Hope i helped
Ally
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i think that the best thing to do in this situation is to just talk to him. ask him why he doesnt return your phone calls or make an attempt to talk to you. maybe hes just apprehensive about talking to you because hes scared that he might say something wrong (a lot of guys have that problem) or maybe he is just using you to have a girlfreind. but if you really like him then i think that you should talk to him and give him a chance to explain, if he doesnt have a good reason, you might want to consider finding another boyfreind. good luck
<3
sarah
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talk to him and ask him wat is goin on.if he likes you or if he is just goin out with you to have a girlfriend.so i hope everything worksout.:)
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First off... I dont think your in love with this guy... It takes longer then 24 days to fall in love with someone... I think you are having puppy love... How old are you first off... so.. my advice for you would be... That obviously this kid doesnt like you as much as you like him. Because first off.. He would put more effort into calling you... seeing you then what he is putting in.. and second... If he doesnt call you back like he says he will.. then there is something going on. But.. I do know how you feel when you say that you have fun together... and he holds you.. and granted.. that feels good to anyone... but... Dont let him play with your mind.. alot of guys do that... but in the long run.. your going to find yourself more hurt.. So I'm guessing that you just need to talk to him.. and see how he truely feels about you.... and what is going on with him.... And then go from there..
Hope This Helped.... Good Luck
~**~**~**~**~**~**Jackie~**~**~**~**~**~**~**~**~
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Well, Im sorry to tell you this but, I mean I dont know him but I have been trew what you are going trew. An when a guy does not call you its not because he cant talk on the phone, becouse a guy will find a way to call you. he might like so other girl or he might have some problems that keep him from calling you.
And dont say you love him because you dont.
Its just puppy love 23 days is not enough time to fall in love with some one.
~*~*~*~*~~*~**~*~*~Chelly ~~~~~*~*~*~*~~**~*~*~*~*~*~*~
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Maybe he is afraid your parents won't like him or something. You may have to reassure him about that. Ask him over again until he actually shows up. I think once he does he will get over feeling awkward about it.
As for the calling thing you need to get on him to call you. Some guys just hate using the phone and some just would rather have you call them...or they forget and just won't admit it.
All in all if he is treating you right and you like him just talk about the things you don't like and see if you can get them changed. He might get the idea that he needs to contribute a little to the relationship too. :)
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1.) maybe he really does have things to do EVERY time you wanna hang out with him, or 2.)(im with this one)- maybe he's really a jerk, and he's only using you for one thing. i really dont know what that one thing could be- but baby girl- this is what it sounds like to me. im sorry i had to be so blunt- but im guessing yo wanted an honest opinion, and that was it. get back to me if you still need help. *~aim~* mikelly4039
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Sweetie, what I think you should do is go to his house as soon as possible and asking him if you did something to change his feelings about you. You need to talk to him about how he feels because I think something came up..I hope this works out
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give it a bit more time. tell him that you really want him to start calling and stuff and set up a date where your not grounded and can actually talk and have fun. if it still sucks than break it off and just be friends! hope a helped a bit! <3
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