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i was trying to get a group together to see a movie at the local cinema. im a girl & most of my friends are guys but my parents still want there to be some girls there with me because they dont always trust the guys. well i called up the few girl friends i do have & none of them will go. i get excuses even before i tell them what we're seeing. but thats besides the point, how do i get my parents to see that i can never get any girls to go?? i wanna see movies but i end up not being able to go b/c im the only girl! please help me!!
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when your calling your girl friends have your parents like right there to tell them that they said no and explain to your parents that most of your friends are guys..try to avoid yelling and screaming usually the answers always no at the end when that happens
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Sit down and talk to your parents and say most of the girls that i know don't really like to hang out with me and the only people that do are the guys and there cool they've never tryed to make am move on me or anything i'm just sayin to tell your mother that or she'll never no.
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I completely understand where you're coming from. Most of my friends are guys as well, since most of the female population at my school are complete dumbasses.
Anyway, my parents used to hate the idea of my guy friends coming over just to come over, for band practice, us going to movies, etc. All I can suggest is to just tell them how much you trust your friends, and that you absolutely know for a fact that they wouldn't harm you in any way. Tell them that the reason you don't really have any girl friends that want to go is that most girls your age are stuck-up and snobby. My parents felt that if I trusted them that much, that they must be ok. Although, they did make me invite them over so they could meet them and stuff before I could go with them. But hey, at least you'll be able to go! (hopefully).
I hope this advice helps you, but as always, if this isn't enough, feel free to ask me for additional advice via email, private question, or AIM.
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tell your parents that most of your friends r guys and that whenever you call girls they dont want to go.and also tell them that they can trust you and if anything goes wrong that you will call them to pick u up.i hope i help.and i hope everything worksout:)
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this sounds all way too familiar. when i lived with my parents- things were exactly the same. they respected me having nuthing but guy friends- but only for a few days- then if i still wanted to hang out with them 3 more days in a row- they'd make a big deal out of it. my dad always stood up for me- but my step-mom would always make a bigger deal out of it than it really was. in other words- i know exactly what ur goig thru- and it sux. i could tell you what i did, but thats the wrong answer. really- in all seriousness- explain to them that you just want to have fun- and you have a lot of fun with your boys. explain to them that all the girls have boyfriends or whatnot, and they want to go out on ther own, or watever the reason may be that they cant come with. watever you do- DONT get upset if they dont let you go- if you get upset about it- your parents will assume that something's going on between you and these guys that you have to see them so bad. and you dont want to lose your guy friends because of your parents. just be calm, and talk to them about it. as long as you get your point across- they should understand. hope i helped. good luck, and HAVE FUN! *~aim~* mikelly4039
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