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is there something wrong w/ me??
i'm in 8th grade and everyone i know has had or has a boyfriend, but i have never had one. i am kinda shy and i'm friends w/guys but nothing ever happens withour friendships. but anyways i am moving at the end of the school year and there is this guy i really like how can i get him to ask me out or get a boyfriend before i leave?
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first off, i agree. it sucks to not be hoked up with someone when everyone else around you is. but i think that is something that will pass in time. i believe i may have gone out with 2 or 3 guys back in the 8th grade, and i am no longer with any of them. granted we're still friends, tho. i think kids these days use a boyfriend or girlfriend just as something to show off, so they can feel more grown up. im not necessarily talking about you though- because i was the opposite. if i wanted a boyfriend, it ws because i liked the guy and i wanted to call him my own. and you might very well be looking for the same thing. but dont you think it would make more sense to get or find a boyfriend where your new town is?- i do. i recently moved and me and a guy that had gone out in the past wanted to hhok up again, but we both figured it was no use, because we wouldnt even see each other all the time,and trust me, long-distance relationships suck. just give it some time. hope i helped.
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whats the point of getting a boyfriend now if you're just moving to another place?
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er, wait untill you move, up you confidence, practice flirting on the boys at your current school. When you move, you'll have a fresh start, take advantage of that.
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well..to be honest, you shouldn't want a boyfriend just because everyone has had or has a boyfriend at the moment. You should just let you love life take its course, you can't force anything. and if you're moving at the end of the school year...there's really no point in trying to get the guy to ask you out. you two will be apart...well unless you're going to the same school, but if you're moving away, then you should start new at that school. if you're staying at the school your attending right now, just tell the guy straight up that you like him. be confident and don't push yourself down. good luck and hope i helped.
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You can just be yourself but just drop careful hints that you like him and who knows maybe he feels the same way about you to...ya never know........!!!!!!!!!!
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uhh just tell him you like him its as simple as that just tell him how u feal
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don't worry about it. it is fun to have a boyfriend..but unless you find someone who is absolutely crazy about you and vice versa..its more fun being single. you are free to flirt and just talk about guys with you friends. i always found being single more fun.
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i know what thats like...i didnt have a bf till march of this year.its not that great. stay single as long as you can..i just broke up with him today and its so stressful! if u really want one, ask them out. luck! <3
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You'Re only.. what.. 14??? TheRe's no Reason you should woRRie about this. Just because SOMEONE else has been with someone and you haven't *DOES NOT* mean you'Re "behind". You have PLENTY of time still, and it's definitely NOT uncommon foR people to have been thRough the same thing. But be it 12, 17, oR 20... it's not as big of a deal as you might assume. I know *TONS* and *TONS* of people who aRe aRound 20-21, and have still neveR even held hands with someone. HoweveR, if theRe's someone you know well and may slightly like, and you figuRe he just doesn't feel the same, then you *DEFINITELY* need to confRont him on this. Just be bold, be honest, and go foR it. It's the *ONLY* way to know FOR SHORE if he likes you oR not; you can *ASSUME* he does all you want... but you'll neveR know exactly how he feels unless it's coming stRaight fRom his lovely face. And if you'd like to spRing foR new guys entiRely, just tRy going up to one and giving it youR all! Just RemebeR to always be confident, and to SMILE, SMILE, SMILE! See, I have NOOO pRoblem appRoaching people, because I believe that I can do anything, so I just push my feaRs aside and go foR it!! I'll walk up to some man in the mall and tell him flat out, "You'Re hot"... and it always gets us talking. Why does it always get us talking?? Because confidence is sexy, and even if he's involved, oR not wanting a Relationship with you specificly, any man who is a QUARTER of a man will speak with you foR just having enough guts to go foR it! I have complete faith in you; and I think you should too. Go get 'em, TigeR! =D
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Why do you want a boyfriend that you're about to leave anyway? You're still pretty young. You've got plenty of time to find a boyfriend. I know that doesnt help to hear, it never helped me, but it's still true.
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