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eating disorder
i feel that i am progressing to the point of an eating disorder. i hardly eat breakfast lunch and dinner. i snack on a little bit of cheese nips and water everyday. i usually do 200 sit ups a night but sometimes i do less but never less than 100. i am noticing i am getting very tired latley also could that be becsaue i am not eating what i usually eat. i just hate how people think only the really skinny girls are attrctive and love their bodies. i just want to make people look at me like that. i am not fat i just have like a tummy, i mean its not huge, but i am average maybe alittle below. i have tremendous boobs which do not even fit my body they ar elike bigger then my head. i just hate the way i look, i have pretty much given up on eating and i have been very attitudish latley and i cant take crap form anyone. i jsut dont know what to do, does anyone have any advice that well make me look better or feel better about myslef and my body, i jsut hate not being skinny enough and ji cant wear tanktops becasue of mt DDD boobs which look retarted when i wear one becasue it goes from a huge chest a small body and it looks retared like i got reductions and i didnt i am so depressed i do not no what to do with myself!!!! can someone give me advice i think i need help????
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Don't even worry. I have been going through the same problem wondering why I can't be accepted too. Look, girls like us are gorgeous. Do you know how many stick girls would want your body? And your boobs. Trust me boobs are a good thing to have and you will learn that soon enough, lol. And do NOT stop eating. Eat healthy it is sooo much better. When dieting it feels great knowing you can discipline yourself enough to not eat too much bad food...when you don't eat it's like you are giving up and just not trying by not eating. Just remember no matter what anyone says you ARE beautiful. Having a tummy is better than not having anything to be proud of. Be proud of your tummy! I know I am! Guys love it when girls are confident! So, carry yourself in a way that guys can see your confidence even when you aren't sooo skinny. Good luck!
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First of all, start eating. I know that's easier said than done, but you have got to eat properly to be healthy. If you continue to eat as little as you are eating, you will feel more tired and will look it, as well. That won't be attractive to anyone. You will also put your health at risk, and it won't be long until you start experiencing dizziness and lack of concentration.
You say: "I just hate how people think only the really skinny girls are attractive," but remember that a guy isn't going to be interested in someone who is obsessed with what she eats and her appearance, and by the same token, not every girl that is skinny is attractive. You have got to learn to be confident within yourself and people will be drawn to you.
I would advise you to start eating a balanced diet, which will give you all of the nutrients that you need to look and feel healthy. Also, don't do such strenuous exercise every night. What you need to do is a little cardiovascular activity (dancing, running, playing sport etc.) which will keep you in shape and feeling good.
No-one is 100% happy with how they look. You admit that you are not fat, and although you don't love your DDD chest, you've got to bear in mind that a lot of people are probably jealous of you - I know a lot of skinny girls who are constantly complaining about their "ironing board" chests, and there are women out there paying ridiculous amounts of money in order to have larger assets! Try to focus on what you like about yourself, and your positive attitude will rub off on other people, making them really like you!
Good luck!
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Sweetie, you have to eat more, eat a balanced diet, seriously. i have an eating disorder and i hardly eat and that has caused my body to become weak and ill and im pretty much housebound. You really have to eat before you end up like i did.
Also guys dont like really skinny girls, really skinny isnt attractive. Just look at charlotte church, she's curvy, she has an amazing body. it's much more attractive than someone like victoria beckhams body.
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ok the only thing you have to do is start eating regularly. the only thing worse than being fat [which im SURE you're not] is being too skinny. believe me. plus;;guys like curvy girls...not stick people. hope this helps;;good luck<3.
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what ever you do dont take stereiods! just leaveyour body alone and your body will grow into your boobs as you get older
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Not eating anything at all actually doesn't help you lose weight. Your body thinks that since you're not getting that much food in you, it needs to store fat to save it. However, eating healthy, like fruits, veggies, and whole grains, is a big help in losing weight and a tummy. Drink lots of water too! As for your bosoms, talk to your mom about getting a reduction if you really want one.
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no you do not need perfessional help but this is what you can do you are moody because you are not eating enough food and if you dont like the way you are then eat only when you are hungary and stop when your full , also guys like girls who have meat on their bones and are not self concious , keep excercising but only regulary , and this is the most important always stay happy is good for you .
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well the only thing you can really do is just feel good about yourself and diet the healthy way. once others see that you have confidence it wont matter. most girls wuld die for boobs.. i mean have you seen all those shows with brest inplants? just appreciate wut you have and just cuz you might not have a tiny tiny body, that doesnt make you unattractive. just be healthy and happy with wut God gave you. good luck
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OMG no dont stop eating!! ok just set yourself straight and say..ok god gave me a purpose in life and its my responsibility to find out what it is...so give yourself the best life you could possibly give yourself!!!! first, start by eating..its one of the most important things for your body because you use up the nutrients from food to keep your muscles, organs, and everything else healthy!! you're tired because of lack of food..food gives you energy!! ok so everyone has something they hate about their body right?? well i think you should stop thinking about the way you look..why do you care what other people think?? if you feel uncomfortable around people by the way you look..ignore them and think about other things, real people like you for who you are on the inside not the outside..just stay strong and hang in there girl..if you need ANY help just ask me ANY time..im glad to help you!!! ♥
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