Okay so theres this guy i met on the inernet he goes to my school i see him at school and talk to him a lot. The problem is he has a gf. He always is like go to the mall with me and would u go out with me if i didnt have a gf and how far i would go. is he just trying to get some or what but i think i mite like him now.
karenR answered Tuesday May 31 2005, 12:45 pm: Tell him (if true) that you might go out with him if he didn't have a girlfriend. Don't go anywhere with him so long as he's dating someone else. How far you would go is none of his business. And it does sound like he may be trying to use you. Don't let him. Like him or not make him play by the rules. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
SoNuLiCiOuSsS answered Monday May 30 2005, 8:33 pm: He is tryin to get sum... no decent guy tries to hook up with a gurl if he only has one... & if i were you i wouldnt wanna have anything to do with him cuz what goes around comes around... he might leave her for u... but sumday he will leave u for sum1 else.... [ SoNuLiCiOuSsS's advice column | Ask SoNuLiCiOuSsS A Question ]
chakra answered Monday May 30 2005, 6:02 pm: be careful sweetie, he's being unfair and his girlf and if you got with him he'd just as easily ask other girls these questions too.
The fact that he's asking you how far you would go, just screams out that he's just after one thing. i'd stay away from him if i were you, distance yourself from him before you start to fall for him x [ chakra's advice column | Ask chakra A Question ]
whattheHELLO1514 answered Monday May 30 2005, 5:18 pm: it might be that he is just trying to get some. and if you do like him, take into consideration, that if he does have a girlfriend and he is doing what he is doing, what's not to say he wouldnt do the same to you? think about this one. be extremely careful, love. [ whattheHELLO1514's advice column | Ask whattheHELLO1514 A Question ]
xxfilmingfrenzyxx answered Monday May 30 2005, 5:16 pm: Well, all i wanna know is why does he wanna know how far you would go with him? I mean if he really liked you then he would wait until you were ready. I would tell him that if he is gonna try stuff with you then he can forget the relationship that he is gonna have with you. Unless you want him to try stuff with you i mean...but yeah, i would talk to him about things first. Or do whatever you think feels right. [ xxfilmingfrenzyxx's advice column | Ask xxfilmingfrenzyxx A Question ]
icey0990 answered Monday May 30 2005, 5:13 pm: asking you how far you would go is inappropriate...even if he didnt have a gf ..its just not classy to ask someone that. Tell him you have feelings for him but he has a gf right now. Immagine if you were his gf and he was talking to other girls..asking them how far they would go with him. it sounds like hes seeing who will go the farthest with him ; you or his current gf. Once a creep always a creep...if he dumps his girl for you, he could turn around and do the same thing to you...find another girl to talk to..ask how far she will go..etc..just be careful not to break them up...i know if a guy asked me how far i would go before we went out...i would def not go out with him (thats just me)
-melissa- [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
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