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well me and my boyfriend are so happy together well he lives with his grandparents and his grandma doesn*t like me at all even though I never did anything to her well my boyfriend recently got a job and he works from 4:45 until 1:00 in the morning and his grandparents won*t let him call me when he gets home well I call him during the day cause he is home but his grandma only lets us talk for about 20 minutes so we never get to talk or see each other which is bad for a relationship but I love my boyfriend so much he makes me happy and everything but I don*t want a boyfriend that I never get to spend time with or get to talk to and it is summer right now so should I break up with him? or should I stay with him? I don*t wanna be lonely but if I have to I will plz help me I rate high! thanxs so much
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If you want this particular guy then you have to play by grandmas rules. They sound pretty strict but maybe she has reasons we know nothing about. I think weather she likes you or not isn't really all that important at this time. Since there is no school now maybe you can see each other during the daytime. Just do what your heart tells you to do. :)
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well long distance realationships dont work and it seems like even though your not far away thats what youve got on your hands! i would tell him how you feel and depending on how he reacts is what i would base my desicion onHope i helped ya out good luck!!
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Ask him to ask his grandma to let him talk to you for a little longer. If she doesnt then she doesnt. I think you should stay with him but I aint your moms so do what you want. If summer is comeing and you still wont be able to see him then thats crap and you should be able to c him when ever you want !!!!! If she still doesnt let you c him then ask your mama to talk to his grandma!
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if you are truly in love with him, and he truly loves you, it will all work out, jsut follow your heart, as corney as that sounds.
Jacksonville FL, m/16
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Well, try to get on his grandmas good side and maybe that would help.
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Well i think that if you really love him, then you should stay with him. At least you guys get to talk for a little while. Maybe sometimes you can visit him at work or plan something secret so his grandparents dont know. He shouldnt have to lie to his grandparents..but he doesnt have to tell them the whole truth if you guys do plan something like that. Its up to you about the whole breaking up thing, but sometimes when your with the one you love, sacrifices have to be made. Idk why his granparents dont like you. You seem really nice. I really hope everything works out with you guys because when your with the one you love, it shouldnt matter if you never get to see eachother or talk to eachother, but you have the most important thing that no one else in the world can give you besides him. That one special thing that no one else has.<3
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Hunnie, you have the same problem as me. Well, sort of. My new boyfriend is just a little weird. He asked me to be his girlfriend but he never wants to go anywhere. And I thought about this and I just asked myself if I'm happy with the relationship. Which I'm not, so I'm thinking about breaking up.
Anyways, back to you! Before making the final decision, listen to yourself and ask yourself questions. You stated that you don't want a boyfriend who never has time for you. And time is one of the elements that are ideal for making a relationship work. Right now it seems as if you have only twenty minutes of time with him each day. And sweetie, that is practically nothing! If this keeps up, chances are that the happiness that you do have now will fade away. Because you'll be home all day, he'll be at work. You'll only talk to him for twenty minutes and so the cycle continues. Is that how you want to live out summer? Waiting for those twenty minutes you can talk to him, and waiting till the days he gets off work? You'd be wasting your time to fit his schedule. You shouldn't do that. It's summer, you have your own things to do and you deserve to have someone with you for the summer with dedication and time to give to you.
I know you'll be sad, but how happy can you be if you never get to see the guy you love? Before you decide on anything, have a talk with him. Tell him exactly what you're feeling. And if there is a solution to it, that is fixable, then go for it and try to make it work. But if it seems unrealistic, you're better off alone. Maybe he could cut back on his work hours so that he can see you more during the summer. Or maybe you can talk to his grandparents and try to get more connected with them. And once you achieve that, you can talk about extending the time that you talk to him. Those are my thoughts on it, but it's up to you! I hope you have a great summer! Try and enjoy yourself and I do hope there is something that you can do to fix this!
Love,
Mandee
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