ok so me and my boyfriend broke up because he stalked me and he still kinda does.he got mad becuase i hung out with this guy down the street who is 15.me and the guy hung out alot by ourselves and we never did anything like that.my (ex)boyfriend always accused me of doing things with him.not just him but a bunch of others guys and the guys who he thought i was doing stuff with stop talking to me because my ex boyfriend is 6'5 or 6'6 so none of the guys wanted to get in fights.was i right for breaking up with my boyfriend?i was really missing my guy friends=(
ThugGirl041790 answered Sunday May 29 2005, 10:39 am: Well he cant run your life and who your friends are so i think its okay.. but he should trust you no matter what.. so i think what you did was okay.. and friends usually are there forever and he could of not been there for ever.. so i think moving on would be the best thing to do.. much luv dez x0x0 ♥ [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
MaDe_iiN_CaLii_x3 answered Sunday May 29 2005, 9:48 am: First off, power to ya, sister! You did the right thing. He was controlling & pocessive & NOT the kind of guy you want to be dating. Any guy who would restrict you from hanging out with your guy friends, accuse you off doing things with them & stalk you is just a negative person in your life. Don't feel bad about what you did. You made a brave choice & now you'll be able to live normally again. However, if this current stalking gets out of hand, tell someone. Your ex could blow this out of proportion and things could get rough. DON'T let this scare you, just be aware of your resources. If you need any more help/info, let me know.
karenR answered Sunday May 29 2005, 3:00 am: Yes you were right. Any guy who doesn't believe what you tell him and mistrusts you that much is not worth the trouble. I'm sure you will find someone better than that. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
~FrOgGiEbAbE515~ answered Sunday May 29 2005, 1:57 am: Yes! you made the right choice! you should not feel bad because you ex was one of thoes that was to over baring! And if he thought you were cheating on himor doing other things with your friends then that just proves all he wanted was you and didnt care what you wanted or what you needed! HOPE I HELPED! [ ~FrOgGiEbAbE515~'s advice column | Ask ~FrOgGiEbAbE515~ A Question ]
sadf16 answered Sunday May 29 2005, 1:56 am: If you really love your boyfriend then let him understand that you're just friends with the other guys. Maybe you were flirting with them that's why ofcourse your boyfriend got jealous but if that's the reason why you broke up with your boyfriend then it's really very shallow reason. If you're missing your guy friends than your boyfriend and you don't have any feelings for him so go on and tell your boyfriend that you're not her girlfriend anymore and be with your friends but if you still have feelings than maybe you can save your relationship by letting him understand. [ sadf16's advice column | Ask sadf16 A Question ]
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