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Theres so many drugs and violence and sex in my school i some times feel left out and want to join the crowd by smoking or drinking or having sex i mean my friends do it and so do my brothers they seem to get all the girls to like no girls like me but they all like my brothers and my friends
Should i join the crowd and get the hot girls?
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Should i stay sober and not have sex ?
Signed ~Very Confused~
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Did you seriously just ask us if you should get the hot girls? Joining the crowd won't get you the hot girls, if that's what you mean. Joining the crowd will just get you made fun of by the people heading the crowd. There are probably other reasons as to why it seems no girls like you.
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*I think that you need to think it through before you start doing anything like that it can really screw you up! i think peer preasure is really tough but you need to go with your heart
♥Hope I helped♥
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You are doing the right thing by staying out of it! Not many teens are able to do this and addventually u will realize that in the long run you were the one that made the right decision! So keep up the good work and say away from the stuff you know is right! HOPE I HELPED!
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Yes, they're right. It's your choice if you'll do that but it's better to stay in heaven alone without any worries than go to hell with many friends but have many worries. Using drugs is very risky and I think you shouldn't use it just to be "in" the group and I think you shouldn't also join the crowd. What if the girl will get pregnant or worse you'll catch a disease or something? You don't have a problem with that now since you aren't in the crowd yet but once you're "in" you'll get more problems than you have right now. Concentrate instead on your studies and leave the others alone if they won't listen to you. If you can't save them, save yourself.
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Do what YOU want to do. Do you want to copy others, do you want to risk the consequences.
I personally have stayed away from drugs the best I could. I'll admit almost all of my friends do them. And I admit I haev drank in the past. It started out as peer pressure, and it ended up in the death of a great friend. I haven't touched any alcohol since. It was hard, I wanted to kill myself, but I got through it.
Do you want to put yourself through that. People that smoke and drink think it's no big deal. They will keep thinking that until something big happens. Do you want to risk it? It's all up to you in the end. Do you want to break the law to fit it? Do you really want someone who doesn't like you for YOU?!?!?!
If it were up to me I'd rather a guy like me for me then only like me if I were to sleep with him... I mean that's the major reason my ex and I broke up. But anyway, it's all up to you in the end. Just make the right decision, you don't want it to bite you in the butt afterwords.
<3 Kate <3
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Well it is your choice. Personally I think it's okay to try drugs once or twice, but there is a huge danger of getting hooked. And I think sex is okay as long as it's with someone you love and trust. You don't have to be married to love someone. But think of it this way...if you do drugs you are making a huge sacrifice, you could get addicted. And if you have sex, you could end up with a baby (and hopefully if that happened you would be a good father and stay with the girl, and help her raise your child!) And then you could become so drugged up that you die in a gutter, alone and unwanted. So what's worse, being dead or not having much of a love life in high school?
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