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13-15-16 yr Olds May Be Fighting For One Guy!
Okay,,,,,
I have this boyfriend(Kevin) that im madly in love with and hes in love with me. I am 13 and hes 15. We've been going out for 7 months!! Theres a problem though. My neighbor is the one i always hung with and i introduced her to him because he was my boyfriend and they have became close and she always im's him online and calls him on his cell phone. Latly i have been getting scared. Shes been saying maybe she will take him to the prom next year if she has noone to go with and crap though my boyfriend says he wouldnt go with her and i do belive him... and i think shes falling for him. Shes 16 years old too so shes closer to his age. She had alot of crap about him written in her profile saying stuff about there friendship. She doesnt have a boyfriend and im positive shes never had one. I know he wont leave me for her but i am afraid thats shes falling for him. How do i tell? Im scared because i dont want her too and if she does then i dont know if i can handle it. Shes been writing about a guy in her profile and she says she likes this one guy but i think she has some feeling for Kevin that are getting stronger. I think she flirts with him but im sure Kevin doesnt think so.... i donno please help I'm flippin out here!
♥ Meg ♥
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Don't worry about it. If you know he won't leave you for her then there is nothing to worry about. And if he does then he's probably making the wrong descion.
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If she writes things about him she must have some feelings. I'd keep the boyfriend as far from her as possible. He should respect your feelings and have no contact with her. :)
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Well no doubt about it ur friend deffinately has feelings for your boyfriend. You shouldnt be worried though, because even if she's closer to his age, she cant give him what you give him. If he really, truly loves you, then you know that only you can make his life complete and perfect...not someone that will like him for a day n then move on to liking someone else. I can tell that you deffinately love this kid to death n dont be worried. I have a strong feeling that your not going to lose him. Hope i helped<3
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wow thats mad grimey of her!! Well just to no Kevin probably just thinks of her as a friend,and ONLY a friend. If she flirts w/ him he'll think shes weird i bet. Is she hott? Is she cool? Is she hotter than you? if it gets any worse of her flirting...just ask her who she likes and try to find out clues of who she likes. Of course kevin wouldnt like her anymore than a friend..just if she mentions the pron thing agian,be like "haha nooo way!!" act nice about it but make SURE she knows she can totally NOT do that.Or you could take the more attitude approach and say "umm...NO"
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i know how you feel believe it or not. i think that its best that you tell your neighbor how you feel.That you are like in love with Kevin and tell her how you care for both of them but that you would feel terrible if you and him were to break up and lose the friendship between you and your neighbor!tell Kevin that if you and him were to break up because of your neighbor that you would be completely heartbroken!and that your not trying to force him to stay with you but that you juss love him to much to be hurt like this that its not really worth it! but thats what i think!sorry if i wasn't much help but i tryed hehe GOOD LUCK AND BEST WISHES WITH YOU AND KEVIN!!!!!
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Hmm your neighbour doesn't sound like such a great friend if she's muttering about taking him to the prom!! Just be safe in the knowledge that she doesn't sound like much of a threat to your relationship as you and kevin sound pretty solid. However maybe it would be a plan to talk to your neighbour about this before it gets any further out of hand because this isn't fair on you. Maybe you could say that you think someone fancies him and it's really annoying you and making you feel uncomfortable. That way you won't have to directly say to her to leave him alone but hopefully she'll get the message! It's a tricky one because you don't want to lose her as a friend but maybe you should rethink your friendship as she doesn't sound like much of a friend! Good luck
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Okay this is a huge problem. I definatly see where your comming from. To aviod hurting her feelings you should say something general in front of her like OMG I love kevin and if he were to ever leave me even you one day I would die. That way she would get it without you having to be too direct but if that doesnt help then try talking to her about it but use some one elses name like "hey I tihnk jen like kevin Id die if she does I wouldnt be able to handle if some one else liked him" Hope I helped send feedback lyl mwaaaa xoxoxoxoxxoxo
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That doesn't sound good... She wants to invite him to her prom!? And she TOLD you that!? ...It sounds to me like she may be falling for him, in which case, tell him IMMEDIATELY that you think she likes him. I've had my best friend go after my boyfriend, and I didn't even realize it until he told me!! Let's just say, this girl is not my best friend anymore... but when you tell people, it definently helps them understand where they really stand with other people.... and be more cautious.
There is nothing you can do to this girl without seeming like a psycho-jealous person. You can forgive and forget.. but trust would be an issue. Maybe you could try and set her up with one of Kevin's friends... if she's 16, and hasn't had a boyfriend yet, well, chances are she's lonely...
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Aw.. well yea she defenetlly fell for Kevin. I can soo tell she likes him and she is trying to make you jelous soo bad!! Dont let her get to you like that. Kevin doesnt even sound like he likes her at all only in a friendship way tho. You have nothing to worry about because she is trying to steal him from you. She is the jelous one because you got him not her. Just talk to him if you want but nothing will happen between them. ♥
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im thinking you worry to much about stuff i mean if he really likes you he wont pay attention to that other girl and besides your 13 i doubt your in love with him anyways
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