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whadda i do?!!
mmkay. a bunch of people in my school are calling me a slut & lesbian ND I am so ajainst gays ( sorry to anyone ) and i dont get where there getting a slut. they say "im the biggest whore in school" how do i make it stop. casue i've tried to dress more down & not flirt with guys so much. but they still do it.
PLEASE HELP FAST. casue i think im a bout to bunch somone!
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To me I would just call them something else but then thats just me.BUt if I were you I would tell a teacher wat they're calling you so that they'll get in trouble.But if you do that & if they still call you names maybe you should talk it out. But maybe you can go to a counselor & talk it out there with a little bit of super vision just incase there could be a fight.
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Just ignore them (yeah i no, thats what everyone says) but don't rise to it, or they are just going to do it even more, and even worse because they know it gets to you. Just try and laugh it off if possible, or tell them that it's beginning to annoy you now, so please just shut up. Well, see how it goes, good luck!
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don't let them bother you. the more you show that it bothers you the more they will do it. just keep it cool and pretend you don't care and it will eventually just die down. most likely you are not what they are saying..kids are just so immature sometimes. don't sweat it!
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wow, at my last school my mom got so fclose to suing because of that mess. it happens so easily in todays world and its pathetic and sad. its hard to cope but once that name gets out itll either be forgotten or make your life hell. so heres what i did. i met some new friends who saw me for who i was. i stood up for myself and didnt let those wannabe's get to me. there are probaly many reasons behind why your school is attacking you. but you need to show them youre not a lesbian, a slut, a whore, and whatever else they are. lemme tell you somehting, parents are not right when they say ignoring will make them stop, ignoring them feeds them. they need to be taught that youre a human and have feelings and that youre who you are.
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Here's the TRUTH: You can't make it stop. People are obviously jealous of you, and you can't stop them from being jealous. Your best thing to do, and what I did when something similar happened to me, is just to IGNORE THEM. They will tone down when you do. They aren't worth getting upset over, and they aren't worth anything if they are being rude. If you need anything else, just message me.
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I would say just ignore it if your having so much problems talk to a teacher or your parents even a principal if it still keeps up,try peer mediation if your school doesnt have it make e'm see it doesnt bother you.!!
P.S Good luck
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Just keep trying to dress down. Ignore the people who comment about you. If they feel the need to express their opinion, then they are low. Dont let anyone get you upset or anything because they are horrible people if they feel like they need to gossip. The important thing is that you know that you are not any of the the things that they say. If things really get bad, go to a teacher or the principal. Hope my advice helps!
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who cares what they think you know your not a slut of a lez its not up to them what you wear so wear what you feel comfortable in there probly just jelous that you will steal the boys off them so they want you to look mingin just proove to them that your better and your gonna do what you want perhaps they just wish they could wear the clothes you wear so next time dont go home and wear something different the next day wear the sexiest and most glamours thing youve got just to show them that they dont get you down and you dont care what they think hope it goes well
jess xxx
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If you're already labeled one. Wear what you want. It wont change a thing. Thats just how we are these days.
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