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OMG!! Listen i'm 14 and my best friend is 13 and were both girls. It's been 4 months that we have sexually been physical together. We don't get busy cause we don't like each other, but we don't wanna have risky sex and get rumors spread around by guys. When we see a hot guy and we are so horny we go for each other. We totally had a miss understanding about each other. She thought i liked her and i thought she was very changy in her moods of sex. One day i said to her that when we get sexually active on each other it's totally awesome to me cause it's kinky, i'm safe, and i'm doing it with someone i truely trust. These past 4 months she didn't wanna get busy or anything. When we talked that one day it was like i had to guess how she wanted things to be like. I was totally craving her so bad it wasn't even funny. I love sex and learning about it because it's straight up interesting to learn and do. I feel like i'm getting totally used by her. It's like every once in a blue damn moon i get to have sexual pleasure at her convience. It's always when her total crush at school doesn't notice her or when a guy that likes her is bothering her and she uses me as a comfort zone. When a guy asked her is she seeing someone else she quickly thought of me! At times she'd want to be affectionate and other times she'd be like "BACK UP!" Help me out what should i do about her mood swings. I'm horny and i don't wanna wait once in a blue moon any more!! Help Me!!! (link)
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Don't listen to what other people are saying, about being disgusting. I think that maybe your friend isn't sure about her sexuality, and doesn't want to 'be' with you sometimes, because she feels she isn't gay. Maybe you should just sit down and talk to her, and ask her what she wants. On the other hand, could someone have found out about you and your friend? Then maybe your friend feels insecure about doing anything with you anymore, because people have been teasing her (or something along those lines) about being disgusting. Don't push your friend to do things she doesn't want to do though. Good Luck!
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I am not fat at all.but i want to go on a diet becasue my borther acts hard in front of his friends and says fat cow and stuff liek that.I hate it when hes like this. What can i do? (link)
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If you are not fat, then why go on a diet?! Just face up to your brother, adn tell him to either shut up, or ignore him, because he does it because he knows it annoys you. However, if he is being particularly annoying, think of something really witty to say back to him, then walk off. Then he'll look stupid in front of his friends, and won't bother saying anything anymore with luck. Anyway, he'll soon grown out of it!
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I am so full of energy so after I was laying down for like 10 minutes, i ust had this blast of hyperness and i jus ran outta my room yelling..ahaha..my mom was scared..so when she realized I was just being crazy, she started cussing at me..BAD! she was like "F*** YOU! MOTHER F*** YOU!!!" i feel so sad now :-( what can i do? (link)
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Okay, well honestly, all you have to do is just aplogise to your mum! Tell her you're sorry, and that you were an idiot (that will make her feel better!).
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mmkay. a bunch of people in my school are calling me a slut & lesbian ND I am so ajainst gays ( sorry to anyone ) and i dont get where there getting a slut. they say "im the biggest whore in school" how do i make it stop. casue i've tried to dress more down & not flirt with guys so much. but they still do it.
PLEASE HELP FAST. casue i think im a bout to bunch somone! (link)
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Just ignore them (yeah i no, thats what everyone says) but don't rise to it, or they are just going to do it even more, and even worse because they know it gets to you. Just try and laugh it off if possible, or tell them that it's beginning to annoy you now, so please just shut up. Well, see how it goes, good luck!
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ok i have unprotected sex last thursday......is it to early to start getting morning sickness or sore boobs?? PLEASE help me (link)
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Yes of course it is!! I wouldn't worry about that right now, i think your main concern is deciding whether or not you want to keep the baby (but i hope the answer to that will be no, as you sound to young and therfore incapable of coping though a pregnancy and birth). I think your options now are to either get a pregnancy test from your local chemist, and check yourself, and then if you are, or you are still worried, visit your GP or your locl sex help clinic who will be able to test you, and help you whatever the outcome. Your GP can also give you emergency medication that will stop the pregnancy if the test is positive, depending on how long you leave it to go and see him/her. It may also be an idea to get yourself checked out at the clinic for any STI's such as chlamydia which are serious. Remember, you can also get free condoms from your local sex help clinic too. Take care.
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Yesterday my boyfriend of six months broke up with me. We broke up because he has to work this summer and he says itll be really hard for him to just see me for one day a week instead of the six that were used to. I was so sad after hearin this, I cried almost all night cause i really miss him. Now last night he started to second guess himself, and he tells me how he made a huge mistake and he didnt think it thru. Well he wants me back for the summer. What sould i do, I do really like him amd want him around. Should i let him back??? just be friends??? or take a step backwards and say were just dating again????? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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Hhhm, I think he does realise he has made a mistake, and it doesn't matter how little you see of him, it will make your time together more special, and give you more things to talk about! I personally think that, for the time being anyway, you should take him back and give things a go, to see what happens. Anyway, you can still see each other evenings maybe? Or you can ring each other and text and email one another. I think you should just take each step as it comes, and cross every small bridge when you come to it. Hope it all works out well. : )
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I was bullied at the age of eleven by my so called best friend, because she was jealous of what I had. This made me depressed from a very young age.
The weird thing is, I'm still friends with this girl now. She's changed, and after all she was only young when she did this to me.
However, the bullying still scars me. This girl and I are forever competing with each other for peoples attention and we argue often. We never talk about the past because it's over now, but I think we're both hurt inside.
What should I do? (link)
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I think, although the past is over, that you should sit down and talk to your friend about it, and how you felt then and now. Explain to her that you still want to be friends with her, and that you still love her just as much, it's just you wanted to get it out in the open because it upsets you. If she is a real friend, of course she will understand this, and want to talk to you about it, to make sure your okay. However, I think when you decide to do this, it should be when perhaps you two have spent some quality time together, and it is just the two of you with no-one else around. (Also, face to face, not on AIM or MSN or on the phone). Hope it works out okay.
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